Day 1 - The Fog of War

[kkljinc]

Man that's fucking depressing... Almost to HOF, then cave. 95 Days, and you still could not control her? Then I would assume you caved and just said fuck it and left right? Or read in the posts with a big old lipper in while all your other quit brothers looked for you and were concerned for you?

"My goal is to again take it one day at a time and hope that I can be stronger and have more resolve and to see it through and stay quit"

Just quit man, every day just like you did last time for 95 fucking days!!!!!!

Why the new name?

Why did you come back?

Why did you wait for so long?

Why will it be any different?

Have you let your brothers/ sisters from whatever class you flunked out of know?

Your hope you can be strong and find some resolve sounds like an excuse.

Whatever dude. From my time on this site four months ago, no one wanted to hear excuses of why someone caved. Frankly it doesn't matter what excuse I have other than I failed and I admit failure. No reason is good enough for failing.

I do expect some shots fired from some of you who can't seem to help yourselves, so have at it if you like. I will read them and comment if they are constructive. I will also post in my previous group. I AM here to quit. Help me if you like or don't if you like. I will quit and stay quit.

However you like it. In your time back in 12, it must have been different. Cause now these are all legit questions around here.

I looked up your old profile as well, you went 95, days but only had 75 or so posts in those 95 days.

Look I am glad your quit, again... but you are right, I don't have to support you. I am still quit, I have not caved, I have not let anyone down. You change your name, come in like it's no big deal and shit all over my quit with, a, I don't have to explain shit and I am here to quit, blah, blah blah.

My questions were constructive, for all the new guys, so they dont have to run down your re-tread path.

[Devil_Dawg]

Man that's fucking depressing... Almost to HOF, then cave. 95 Days, and you still could not control her? Then I would assume you caved and just said fuck it and left right? Or read in the posts with a big old lipper in while all your other quit brothers looked for you and were concerned for you?

"My goal is to again take it one day at a time and hope that I can be stronger and have more resolve and to see it through and stay quit"

Just quit man, every day just like you did last time for 95 fucking days!!!!!!

Why the new name?

Why did you come back?

Why did you wait for so long?

Why will it be any different?

Have you let your brothers/ sisters from whatever class you flunked out of know?

Your hope you can be strong and find some resolve sounds like an excuse.

Whatever dude. From my time on this site four months ago, no one wanted to hear excuses of why someone caved. Frankly it doesn't matter what excuse I have other than I failed and I admit failure. No reason is good enough for failing.

I do expect some shots fired from some of you who can't seem to help yourselves, so have at it if you like. I will read them and comment if they are constructive. I will also post in my previous group. I AM here to quit. Help me if you like or don't if you like. I will quit and stay quit.

[Bruce]

I'm back again after caving in December 2012. After 95 days. I know, how pathetic can that be after being quit for almost 100 days. I can't explain it, but I will take ownership over my failures of allowing that bitch into my life again. My goal is to again take it one day at a time and hope that I can be stronger and have more resolve and to see it through and stay quit. This is a great site if you stay plugged in and get roll call taken care of early everyday. That's why I'm back because without the help and support of everyone here it is a long and difficult battle.

For those who helped me in my previous 95 days. I know there is no excuse and actions speak louder than words. So, I'm not going to give you my lame excuses and get on with actions that matter most.

Devil Dawg
(AKA Sand_Fleas_Gotta_Eat)

First of all, pm an admin and use your original name. Second, if you've been here before you Should know the drill. Go to your new group and your original group and answer the following.

1- what happen?
2- why did it happen?
3- what will be different this time?

[kkljinc]

Man that's fucking depressing... Almost to HOF, then cave. 95 Days, and you still could not control her? Then I would assume you caved and just said fuck it and left right? Or read in the posts with a big old lipper in while all your other quit brothers looked for you and were concerned for you?

"My goal is to again take it one day at a time and hope that I can be stronger and have more resolve and to see it through and stay quit"

Just quit man, every day just like you did last time for 95 fucking days!!!!!!

Why the new name?

Why did you come back?

Why did you wait for so long?

Why will it be any different?

Have you let your brothers/ sisters from whatever class you flunked out of know?

Your hope you can be strong and find some resolve sounds like an excuse.

[Devil_Dawg]

I'm back again after caving in December 2012. After 95 days. I know, how pathetic can that be after being quit for almost 100 days. I can't explain it, but I will take ownership over my failures of allowing that bitch into my life again. My goal is to again take it one day at a time and hope that I can be stronger and have more resolve and to see it through and stay quit. This is a great site if you stay plugged in and get roll call taken care of early everyday. That's why I'm back because without the help and support of everyone here it is a long and difficult battle.

For those who helped me in my previous 95 days. I know there is no excuse and actions speak louder than words. So, I'm not going to give you my lame excuses and get on with actions that matter most.

Devil Dawg
(AKA Sand_Fleas_Gotta_Eat)

[mich 34]

one week down, nice job

[eric71]

I look forward to seeing you here everyday, but I see several red flags that have failure written into your story:
1. You enjoyed it.  If that's true you will be drawn back. Get over it hate the shit!!
2.  Too much of a good thing.  What the hell is a good thing?
3.  Ex put you back on the wagon!  BS own your addiction! You put the poison in your mouth, no one else!

I stopped for 3 1/2 yrs once and caved.  All that is in the past now we can quit each day!  Don't look back or into the future, today we can do.

All True - On Day 6 and feeling better - Still Foggy though.

Truth, yes it is the truth. Ownership is what we're talking about here though. You absolutely have to take ownership of the fact that you ruined your previous quit, no one else. There is no enjoyment in a slow, drawn out, painful death. Too much of a good thing, really, how is poisoning yourself on a daily basis a good thing? How is falling prey to an addiction substance a good thing? With those thoughts permeating your brain, how are you going to stay quit when the urges come calling? Making it through these first two weeks with your current attitude and mindset is going to be difficult. What you must do is own your quit and be responsible and accountable to your quit group. If you need help, I'm a PM away.

[Sand_Fleas_Gotta_Eat]

I look forward to seeing you here everyday, but I see several red flags that have failure written into your story:
1. You enjoyed it.  If that's true you will be drawn back. Get over it hate the shit!!
2.  Too much of a good thing.  What the hell is a good thing?
3.  Ex put you back on the wagon!  BS own your addiction! You put the poison in your mouth, no one else!

I stopped for 3 1/2 yrs once and caved.  All that is in the past now we can quit each day!  Don't look back or into the future, today we can do.

All True - On Day 6 and feeling better - Still Foggy though.

[Wt57]

I look forward to seeing you here everyday, but I see several red flags that have failure written into your story:
1. You enjoyed it. If that's true you will be drawn back. Get over it hate the shit!!
2. Too much of a good thing. What the hell is a good thing?
3. Ex put you back on the wagon! BS own your addiction! You put the poison in your mouth, no one else!

I stopped for 3 1/2 yrs once and caved. All that is in the past now we can quit each day! Don't look back or into the future, today we can do.

[Arfy]

After 30 years of dipping I've decided to quit. My dentist had a little say in the matter which put me over the edge. I've been lucky so far and enjoyed it while I could but sometimes too much of a good thing can kill you. I quit for a year six years ago until my ex put me back on the wagon. I know what it's going to take and how I'm going to feel after the 100 days. The smells, the taste and being alert and alive. Why did I ever get back on this stuff?

Congrats on making the right choice!

I'm here to quit with you! If there is anything you need, just pm me.

Remember, the only person that can take responsibility for your quit is YOURSELF.

1)Post Roll
2)Honor your word
3)and repeat

It's that simple. Not easy. But simple!

[mfkuss]

Welcome! Glad you made the smart choice....make sure you stay in touch and post roll everyday....I haven't been around the longest, but long enough to know that it is the KEY to success!!

Let me know if you need anything...PM me if you want to exchange numbers....

Hope to see you here everyday with our group!

I QUIT WITH YOU TODAY!!

[Sand_Fleas_Gotta_Eat]

After 30 years of dipping I've decided to quit. My dentist had a little say in the matter which put me over the edge. I've been lucky so far and enjoyed it while I could but sometimes too much of a good thing can kill you. I quit for a year six years ago until my ex put me back on the wagon. I know what it's going to take and how I'm going to feel after the 100 days. The smells, the taste and being alert and alive. Why did I ever get back on this stuff?