Turkey,
God surely helps those who help themselves...
Yep - you decided to quit...and yep it's a personal journey...
But many times what you mistake for inner strength/fortitude is a conviction and a toughness that God puts on your heart knowing it's what you need...
We are all here because we were convicted...some because we were afraid we'd cheat our families out of a father, some because we realized how stupid our habit was, and some because we just knew we had a disgusting secret that we were ashamed of...
Call it what you want - but the conviction comes from something the lord put in you many years ago...by asking God for strength to beat this, God makes that conviction strong enough that it will overcome any cravings you have...it's a God thing and you don't have to know God to have it - he'll bless you simply because he knows you want to quit...
It is pointless to go back and forth on the subject of God. I have my beliefs and you have yours. You will not agree with me, and I will not agree with you. It amazes me by the fact that millions of human beings that God created have died or killed over his name. I guess that is the will he put into them.
I did not realize we were debating whether or not God exists...or that you did or did not believe in God...
The question that I thought you posed was "is it not possible for a person to quit independent of God and to simply do it by him/her self"?
And all I was saying is that whether or not you do or do not believe in God - to quit, you must have conviction...which in turn drives us to withstand any craving, etc. to walk away from this...
Where we disagree is: Where does that conviction come from?
As for those dying in his name, and the will - you/I/they have free will...
it's not God's will...it's man's will - ever since Adam broke God's commandment...this is not what God intended for us, it's what man has created by being disobedient...
And this conversation is no more pointless than alot of conversations I see in this place - but, hey all that matters is that you stay nic-free...