Yemtig is posting a day 2 now in October. Why? Because although he had brotherhood at his fingertips (and along with it, accountability), he chose to fade away from posting. Even when chased, he couldn't buy in. He felt he was "cured". He felt he had took all he needed from this site, and his brothers. Right there is why he failed ... he always took, only looking to benefit himself, never paying it back. How fucking selfish can you be that you don't engage with those trying to help you? Deep down inside, an addict truly wants to remain anonymous. There is an "out" built into that anonymity. No engagement = no brotherhood. No brotherhood = no accountability. No brotherhood, no accountability = failure.
I'm typing this not for Yemtig's benefit. My attitude has been and always will be that if you go back on your word, you're dead to me. There is no reset button, no 2nd chances. I'm typing this for the benefit of any newbs reading it. Go back and look through this intro. You'll see a lot of brothers reaching out, to be met mostly with silence. Newbs, build your network. Get some digits. USE THEM. Don't ever feel like you can beat this shit solo ... because you can't. Yemtig @ almost 700 days quit proved that.
Don't be a Yemtig. Quit, and stay quit. Independence day has a whole new additional meaning now for you guys. I'm celebrating my third one free of nicotine. Damn straight I'll keep stacking them. Never again for any reason.
Smeds - 812 days of good decisions, all lead-off by posting my promise.