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Re: Quitting and ED
« Reply #120 on: July 07, 2013, 01:20:00 PM »
Wtf. I kept seeing this thread and didn't want to read it because I though it was just about a dude who couldn't get it up or something.

Finally I looked at it and read it today.

Are you serious with this shit?

This guys a panty waste.

He kinda wants to quit but wants it to be really easy, and when its not, and he caves, he comes back here as if NOBODY had given him ANY advice and almost blames us for lack of support and then asks for "the magic seceret" as if there is one.

There is not.

Grow up dude. Seriously. This isn't a site for nut cupping, atta-boys, and "good try, good effort" back pats.

There's sites for that. Quitsmokless.com is where the pussies go.

Pack your shit and head over there. They will stroke you off and help you with your ed. Every time you fail with a patch on your arm, a cig in your mouth, a dip in your lip they suckle your sack and tell you its ok, and to climb back on that quit horse and give it another try, buckaroo!!! 3 days was GREAT!!! Maybe next time you can make it 5 days or even a week!!!!! Weeeeeeeee!!!!

Seriously, I think you have proven this site is not for you. You got some GREAT support/advice from some people who truly care and know how to quit.

You shit all over them. You ought to be ashamed of yourself for multiple reasons. Sad part is I don't think you are.

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Re: Quitting and ED
« Reply #119 on: July 07, 2013, 12:20:00 PM »
Nothing to see here... let's move along and find someone interested in beating this addiction...

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Re: Quitting and ED
« Reply #118 on: July 07, 2013, 11:41:00 AM »
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This person (can not bring myself to use the term "man") uses this site like a kitten ( correct term) uses a ball of yarn. Entertainment only.
Doesn't use the site at all. More like abuses or shits on the site!
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Re: Quitting and ED
« Reply #117 on: July 07, 2013, 11:29:00 AM »
This person (can not bring myself to use the term "man") uses this site like a kitten ( correct term) uses a ball of yarn. Entertainment only.
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Re: Quitting and ED
« Reply #116 on: July 06, 2013, 03:08:00 PM »
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Re: Quitting and ED
« Reply #115 on: July 06, 2013, 01:13:00 PM »
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So, you have an intro here with nearly 2000 views and over 100 replies. Yet,
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i feel like i need to make an emotional connection with you guys. i need someone to reach out to when im struggling.

anyone out there?
Methinks you aren't reading a damn word or even trying to be quit here.

The KTC can be the biggest, baddest weapon in your arsenal, BUT IT IS UP TO YOU TO PULL THE TRIGGER. Stop wasting our time if you want to suckle at the tit of nicotine.

Do you want to be quit?
I have reached out( I even sent you a PM on the 3rd asking if you needed digits but no response about needing them) to you so many times and for you to say one comment about not having support or needing support is just horse shit...you have been a pussy from day one and you remain one. I suggest you do some real soul searching and reread your thread there is more support in that thread then in most. Others that come on here don't get the support you got and remain quit. They want it that's how they do it. No excuses no nothing they face addiction head on and quit like fuck. I am done with you I will focus my energy on my quit and brothers that don't shit on what this site is about. I hope you quit...yep I can use the word hope with you it is not a mistake in its use...if you read this site you will know what hope is about. later days Woahpuss...
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Re: Quitting and ED
« Reply #114 on: July 06, 2013, 12:13:00 PM »
So, you have an intro here with nearly 2000 views and over 100 replies. Yet,
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i feel like i need to make an emotional connection with you guys. i need someone to reach out to when im struggling.

anyone out there?
Methinks you aren't reading a damn word or even trying to be quit here.

The KTC can be the biggest, baddest weapon in your arsenal, BUT IT IS UP TO YOU TO PULL THE TRIGGER. Stop wasting our time if you want to suckle at the tit of nicotine.

Do you want to be quit?
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Re: Quitting and ED
« Reply #113 on: July 06, 2013, 10:45:00 AM »
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Woahbot,, I can tell you want to quit (not bad enough).  There is no question about that. 

From what I've seen and heard from you I've come to this conclusion. 

You don't listen for crap!!!  I'm pretty sure there is at least 50 quitters that will agree!!

You need to start paying attention and trusting what we are telling you.  There have been so many great quitters tell you the facts and try to help you.  After battling the patch for months, weeks (whatever, who cares ) you finally came here to give cold turkey and ktc a try. 

Now you have only lasted a few days before caving.  You are even contemplating the use of the e cigg,,(which you might as well stay on the patch in that case ). 

How can I say this loudly enough with words so that you will understand.  Pretend i'm on a stage with your favorite drugged out, drunk, smoking dope, nicotine fed band.  I have a microphone and everytime I sing you can barely hear me because i'm so loud and can't sing.  I come to the mic and this is what I say....      (((((((((((NICOTINE REPLACEMENT THERAPY DOES NOT WORK DINGLEBERRY)))))))....... 

You want to get a hold of this addiction you have to trust and stay the course.  I'm 142 days quit and feel absolutely fabulous.  To get where i'm at you have to stay quit.  Stop being an idiot.  Keep your head pointed forward, don't look back.  One day at a time woahbot.  My patience is wearing thin with you my man.  You have three questions to answer.  Don't cave again!!!!
Woahbot doesn't really want to quit. He wants someone/something to quit for him so he doesn't have to do the work. Man up dude! Grow a pair and invest in yourself! This may be the most important thing you ever do for yourself and your family. You can do it, but it isn't easy. We can help, but you gotta be all in for yourself. If you want it, you can do it.
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Re: Quitting and ED
« Reply #112 on: July 06, 2013, 10:41:00 AM »
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Woahbot,, I can tell you want to quit (not bad enough). There is no question about that.

From what I've seen and heard from you I've come to this conclusion.

You don't listen for crap!!! I'm pretty sure there is at least 50 quitters that will agree!!

You need to start paying attention and trusting what we are telling you. There have been so many great quitters tell you the facts and try to help you. After battling the patch for months, weeks (whatever, who cares ) you finally came here to give cold turkey and ktc a try.

Now you have only lasted a few days before caving. You are even contemplating the use of the e cigg,,(which you might as well stay on the patch in that case ).

How can I say this loudly enough with words so that you will understand. Pretend i'm on a stage with your favorite drugged out, drunk, smoking dope, nicotine fed band. I have a microphone and everytime I sing you can barely hear me because i'm so loud and can't sing. I come to the mic and this is what I say.... (((((((((((NICOTINE REPLACEMENT THERAPY DOES NOT WORK DINGLEBERRY))))))).......

You want to get a hold of this addiction you have to trust and stay the course. I'm 142 days quit and feel absolutely fabulous. To get where i'm at you have to stay quit. Stop being an idiot. Keep your head pointed forward, don't look back. One day at a time woahbot. My patience is wearing thin with you my man. You have three questions to answer. Don't cave again!!!!
Woahbot doesn't really want to quit. He wants someone/something to quit for him so he doesn't have to do the work. Man up dude! Grow a pair and invest in yourself! This may be the most important thing you ever do for yourself and your family. You can do it, but it isn't easy. We can help, but you gotta be all in for yourself. If you want it, you can do it.
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Re: Quitting and ED
« Reply #111 on: July 06, 2013, 08:30:00 AM »
Woahbot,, I can tell you want to quit (not bad enough). There is no question about that.

From what I've seen and heard from you I've come to this conclusion.

You don't listen for crap!!! I'm pretty sure there is at least 50 quitters that will agree!!

You need to start paying attention and trusting what we are telling you. There have been so many great quitters tell you the facts and try to help you. After battling the patch for months, weeks (whatever, who cares ) you finally came here to give cold turkey and ktc a try.

Now you have only lasted a few days before caving. You are even contemplating the use of the e cigg,,(which you might as well stay on the patch in that case ).

How can I say this loudly enough with words so that you will understand. Pretend i'm on a stage with your favorite drugged out, drunk, smoking dope, nicotine fed band. I have a microphone and everytime I sing you can barely hear me because i'm so loud and can't sing. I come to the mic and this is what I say.... (((((((((((NICOTINE REPLACEMENT THERAPY DOES NOT WORK DINGLEBERRY))))))).......

You want to get a hold of this addiction you have to trust and stay the course. I'm 142 days quit and feel absolutely fabulous. To get where i'm at you have to stay quit. Stop being an idiot. Keep your head pointed forward, don't look back. One day at a time woahbot. My patience is wearing thin with you my man. You have three questions to answer. Don't cave again!!!!
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The poison sucks. I hate it. I hated it this morning, I hated it at noon, I hated it at supper and I hate it tonight. I enjoy hating it so much I'm going to wake up tomorrow and start over hating it. I quit with anyone that wants to hate it with me.

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Re: Quitting and ED
« Reply #110 on: July 06, 2013, 12:24:00 AM »
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Quote from: srans
Quote from: Souliman
Quote from: woahbot
Quote from: Greg5280
Quote from: woahbot
smoked a cig on the forth of july. then my thought process was: go big or go home. i regretted every minute of it. i was three days totally nicotine free and wasnt having any severe withdrawal symptoms -- just got drunk and stupid. then, today, i bought an Ecig.

i feel like i need to make an emotional connection with you guys. i need someone to reach out to when im struggling.

anyone out there?

regardless of the debate, my patch-system worked wonders as far as not having withdrawal symptoms. i think tomorrow will be another easy 1 day quit. its continuing day after day that im worried about.

please help. posting roll again for the second time.
Perhaps I am mis-understanding your post. Does this say you were posting while wearing a patch? To post in a quit group you need to be nicotine free... that means all forms of nicotine including the new e-cig you just bought. Perhaps a stroll to the Welcome center is what you need. Understand what we do and how we do it.

Got drunk and started again... :angry: Wish that was the first time I heard that. You owe your group and this site an apology and an explanation. Decide you want this, I mean really want this and there are 15,000 people here that will drop everything to help you.

Posting roll for three days while wearing a patch then getting drunk and smoking isnt putting forth any real effort that would warrant these fine quitters investing time in you....

Show us what you got...
been through this convo 10 times... but no hard feelings:

i posted this intro while on the patch, letting everyone know my plan was to step down, quit, and post roll. i posted roll 5 days ago or something, completely nicotine free.

back at it again. this is the last time i post day 1 roll. ive only regretted, and gotten sick from using nicotine the past 2 days.
Sounds like great plan. Try your best and I hope it all works out for you. I wish you the best of luck.
Help me understand. Thiis is the last time you're going to post a day 1 because your going to cave again and walk away. Or,, this is the last time your posting a day 1 because your quitting and never going to use again.

You stated the patch worked wonders. Would love you to explain that one smart guy. Yea,,, it worked wonders for someone that needed a nicotine fix. Wise up woahbot...
I was going to leave this post alone but several parts of your statement bother me!

1- You regretted smoking on July 4th.... But then you decided to buy an E-cig today? You know this is a nicotine free site! Clearly you don't understand what that means because you then justify that it works better for you then cold turkey. I argue that you did not regret it at all.

2- You said in the first post that you were 3 days nicotine free before you caved and smoked a cigarette on the 4th, But in a reply to Gregs post, You said you were 5 days nicotine free. Which is it? On this site we KNOW how many days quit we are! If you mix up the number of days quit you are then there is a problem you are not telling us about!

3- You say that you need a connection with us on this site... And that you need someone to reach out to when you are struggling! Did you reach out before you caved? I don't see a post on your thread saying you were having a hard day! Did you call or text anyone? I am guessing NO! YOU need to reach out! Show that you care about being quit! Then you can build a support system full of people who care if you chew or smoke. If you do not have numbers, get some! Almost everyone here will jump for you if you ask for help! YOU have to ask!

Man up! Take this shit serious! We are here to help, but you have to do the work! We will NOT coddle here
Fail. That's what path you are on right now. I recommend you read the Welcome Center link if you haven't already. You don't seem to be taking this seriously. We are all fighting for our lives and you come back after caving saying this is your last day one all nonchalantly. I call bullshit, why is it different this time? You need to answer the questions and really figure out if you are serious about this or not. We quit on KTC, we don't try and fail. Either shit or get off the pot. There are other serious quitters that need help.

What happened?

Why did it happen?

What is different this time?

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Re: Quitting and ED
« Reply #109 on: July 05, 2013, 11:50:00 PM »
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Quote from: Souliman
Quote from: woahbot
Quote from: Greg5280
Quote from: woahbot
smoked a cig on the forth of july. then my thought process was: go big or go home. i regretted every minute of it. i was three days totally nicotine free and wasnt having any severe withdrawal symptoms -- just got drunk and stupid. then, today, i bought an Ecig.

i feel like i need to make an emotional connection with you guys. i need someone to reach out to when im struggling.

anyone out there?

regardless of the debate, my patch-system worked wonders as far as not having withdrawal symptoms. i think tomorrow will be another easy 1 day quit. its continuing day after day that im worried about.

please help. posting roll again for the second time.
Perhaps I am mis-understanding your post. Does this say you were posting while wearing a patch? To post in a quit group you need to be nicotine free... that means all forms of nicotine including the new e-cig you just bought. Perhaps a stroll to the Welcome center is what you need. Understand what we do and how we do it.

Got drunk and started again... :angry: Wish that was the first time I heard that. You owe your group and this site an apology and an explanation. Decide you want this, I mean really want this and there are 15,000 people here that will drop everything to help you.

Posting roll for three days while wearing a patch then getting drunk and smoking isnt putting forth any real effort that would warrant these fine quitters investing time in you....

Show us what you got...
been through this convo 10 times... but no hard feelings:

i posted this intro while on the patch, letting everyone know my plan was to step down, quit, and post roll. i posted roll 5 days ago or something, completely nicotine free.

back at it again. this is the last time i post day 1 roll. ive only regretted, and gotten sick from using nicotine the past 2 days.
Sounds like great plan. Try your best and I hope it all works out for you. I wish you the best of luck.
Help me understand. Thiis is the last time you're going to post a day 1 because your going to cave again and walk away. Or,, this is the last time your posting a day 1 because your quitting and never going to use again.

You stated the patch worked wonders. Would love you to explain that one smart guy. Yea,,, it worked wonders for someone that needed a nicotine fix. Wise up woahbot...
I was going to leave this post alone but several parts of your statement bother me!

1- You regretted smoking on July 4th.... But then you decided to buy an E-cig today? You know this is a nicotine free site! Clearly you don't understand what that means because you then justify that it works better for you then cold turkey. I argue that you did not regret it at all.

2- You said in the first post that you were 3 days nicotine free before you caved and smoked a cigarette on the 4th, But in a reply to Gregs post, You said you were 5 days nicotine free. Which is it? On this site we KNOW how many days quit we are! If you mix up the number of days quit you are then there is a problem you are not telling us about!

3- You say that you need a connection with us on this site... And that you need someone to reach out to when you are struggling! Did you reach out before you caved? I don't see a post on your thread saying you were having a hard day! Did you call or text anyone? I am guessing NO! YOU need to reach out! Show that you care about being quit! Then you can build a support system full of people who care if you chew or smoke. If you do not have numbers, get some! Almost everyone here will jump for you if you ask for help! YOU have to ask!

Man up! Take this shit serious! We are here to help, but you have to do the work! We will NOT coddle here

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Re: Quitting and ED
« Reply #108 on: July 05, 2013, 11:46:00 PM »
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Quote from: woahbot
Quote from: Greg5280
Quote from: woahbot
smoked a cig on the forth of july. then my thought process was: go big or go home. i regretted every minute of it. i was three days totally nicotine free and wasnt having any severe withdrawal symptoms -- just got drunk and stupid. then, today, i bought an Ecig.

i feel like i need to make an emotional connection with you guys. i need someone to reach out to when im struggling.

anyone out there?

regardless of the debate, my patch-system worked wonders as far as not having withdrawal symptoms. i think tomorrow will be another easy 1 day quit. its continuing day after day that im worried about.

please help. posting roll again for the second time.
Perhaps I am mis-understanding your post. Does this say you were posting while wearing a patch? To post in a quit group you need to be nicotine free... that means all forms of nicotine including the new e-cig you just bought. Perhaps a stroll to the Welcome center is what you need. Understand what we do and how we do it.

Got drunk and started again... :angry: Wish that was the first time I heard that. You owe your group and this site an apology and an explanation. Decide you want this, I mean really want this and there are 15,000 people here that will drop everything to help you.

Posting roll for three days while wearing a patch then getting drunk and smoking isnt putting forth any real effort that would warrant these fine quitters investing time in you....

Show us what you got...
been through this convo 10 times... but no hard feelings:

i posted this intro while on the patch, letting everyone know my plan was to step down, quit, and post roll. i posted roll 5 days ago or something, completely nicotine free.

back at it again. this is the last time i post day 1 roll. ive only regretted, and gotten sick from using nicotine the past 2 days.
Sounds like great plan. Try your best and I hope it all works out for you. I wish you the best of luck.
Help me understand. Thiis is the last time you're going to post a day 1 because your going to cave again and walk away. Or,, this is the last time your posting a day 1 because your quitting and never going to use again.

You stated the patch worked wonders. Would love you to explain that one smart guy. Yea,,, it worked wonders for someone that needed a nicotine fix. Wise up woahbot...
Hof date may 25, 2013
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The poison sucks. I hate it. I hated it this morning, I hated it at noon, I hated it at supper and I hate it tonight. I enjoy hating it so much I'm going to wake up tomorrow and start over hating it. I quit with anyone that wants to hate it with me.

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Re: Quitting and ED
« Reply #107 on: July 05, 2013, 11:45:00 PM »
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Quote from: woahbot
Quote from: Greg5280
Quote from: woahbot
smoked a cig on the forth of july. then my thought process was: go big or go home. i regretted every minute of it. i was three days totally nicotine free and wasnt having any severe withdrawal symptoms -- just got drunk and stupid. then, today, i bought an Ecig.

i feel like i need to make an emotional connection with you guys. i need someone to reach out to when im struggling.

anyone out there?

regardless of the debate, my patch-system worked wonders as far as not having withdrawal symptoms. i think tomorrow will be another easy 1 day quit. its continuing day after day that im worried about.

please help. posting roll again for the second time.
Perhaps I am mis-understanding your post. Does this say you were posting while wearing a patch? To post in a quit group you need to be nicotine free... that means all forms of nicotine including the new e-cig you just bought. Perhaps a stroll to the Welcome center is what you need. Understand what we do and how we do it.

Got drunk and started again... :angry: Wish that was the first time I heard that. You owe your group and this site an apology and an explanation. Decide you want this, I mean really want this and there are 15,000 people here that will drop everything to help you.

Posting roll for three days while wearing a patch then getting drunk and smoking isnt putting forth any real effort that would warrant these fine quitters investing time in you....

Show us what you got...
been through this convo 10 times... but no hard feelings:

i posted this intro while on the patch, letting everyone know my plan was to step down, quit, and post roll. i posted roll 5 days ago or something, completely nicotine free.

back at it again. this is the last time i post day 1 roll. ive only regretted, and gotten sick from using nicotine the past 2 days.
Sounds like great plan. Try your best and I hope it all works out for you. I wish you the best of luck.
I was going to leave this post alone but several parts of your statement bother me!

1- You regretted smoking on July 4th.... But then you decided to buy an E-cig today? You know this is a nicotine free site! Clearly you don't understand what that means because you then justify that it works better for you then cold turkey. I argue that you did not regret it at all.

2- You said in the first post that you were 3 days nicotine free before you caved and smoked a cigarette on the 4th, But in a reply to Gregs post, You said you were 5 days nicotine free. Which is it? On this site we KNOW how many days quit we are! If you mix up the number of days quit you are then there is a problem you are not telling us about!

3- You say that you need a connection with us on this site... And that you need someone to reach out to when you are struggling! Did you reach out before you caved? I don't see a post on your thread saying you were having a hard day! Did you call or text anyone? I am guessing NO! YOU need to reach out! Show that you care about being quit! Then you can build a support system full of people who care if you chew or smoke. If you do not have numbers, get some! Almost everyone here will jump for you if you ask for help! YOU have to ask!

Man up! Take this shit serious! We are here to help, but you have to do the work! We will NOT coddle here!

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Re: Quitting and ED
« Reply #106 on: July 05, 2013, 10:55:00 PM »
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smoked a cig on the forth of july. then my thought process was: go big or go home. i regretted every minute of it. i was three days totally nicotine free and wasnt having any severe withdrawal symptoms -- just got drunk and stupid. then, today, i bought an Ecig.

i feel like i need to make an emotional connection with you guys. i need someone to reach out to when im struggling.

anyone out there?

regardless of the debate, my patch-system worked wonders as far as not having withdrawal symptoms. i think tomorrow will be another easy 1 day quit. its continuing day after day that im worried about.

please help. posting roll again for the second time.
Perhaps I am mis-understanding your post. Does this say you were posting while wearing a patch? To post in a quit group you need to be nicotine free... that means all forms of nicotine including the new e-cig you just bought. Perhaps a stroll to the Welcome center is what you need. Understand what we do and how we do it.

Got drunk and started again... :angry: Wish that was the first time I heard that. You owe your group and this site an apology and an explanation. Decide you want this, I mean really want this and there are 15,000 people here that will drop everything to help you.

Posting roll for three days while wearing a patch then getting drunk and smoking isnt putting forth any real effort that would warrant these fine quitters investing time in you....

Show us what you got...
been through this convo 10 times... but no hard feelings:

i posted this intro while on the patch, letting everyone know my plan was to step down, quit, and post roll. i posted roll 5 days ago or something, completely nicotine free.

back at it again. this is the last time i post day 1 roll. ive only regretted, and gotten sick from using nicotine the past 2 days.
Sounds like great plan. Try your best and I hope it all works out for you. I wish you the best of luck.