Author Topic: 38 Years Down The Drain  (Read 5264 times)

0 Members and 4 Guests are viewing this topic.

Offline suthern_gntlman

  • Quitter
  • **
  • Posts: 3,808
  • Interests: Church, Family, Movies and Books!
  • Likes Given: 0
Re: 38 Years Down The Drain
« Reply #73 on: January 30, 2017, 09:40:00 AM »
Just want to give a belated thanks to everyone that posted congratulations on my day 300!!

I Quit!! - 313

Offline edhudson

  • Newbie
  • *
  • Posts: 8
  • Quit Date: 2017-01-18
  • Likes Given: 0
Re: 38 Years Down The Drain
« Reply #72 on: January 19, 2017, 10:55:00 PM »
We can and will do this. I just joined today because I went cold turkey yesterday. I have chewed Copenhagen for 35 years. I have stopped 2 other times but only lasted about a year. I will kick it this time. Glad I found this group.

Offline CavMan83

  • Quit King
  • ******
  • Posts: 17,397
  • Quit Date: 2014-06-10
  • Interests: Bass Fishing, music, all things motorsports, National Defense
  • Likes Given: 0
Re: 38 Years Down The Drain
« Reply #71 on: January 18, 2017, 07:23:00 PM »
Quote from: doc2quit4good
Quote from: FISHFLORIDA
Quote from: tjschu
Quote from: ChickDip
Quote from: Nomore1959
Quote from: JGlav
Quote from: Mike1966
Congrats on the 3rd floor Max! Proud to Quit with you every day. Awesome job putting this thing behind you!
Congrats on the 3rd floor Southern. Well Done
Congrats on 3rd floor Max.
StrnGtlmn, congrats on the 300 days quit!!
Congrats on the 3rd floor
Nice Sir! great job! 300 has such a pretty ring to it.
Awesome thing coming back in here and winning this quit! Lots of folks left here and are still out there in the nicotine addict's life that never came back... Proud of you today!!
Awesome rebound, Max! You da man! Proud to be quit with you!

Offline Doc2quit4good

  • Hall of Fame Conductor
  • Master of Quit
  • ***
  • Posts: 26,209
  • Quitting since 9/18/13!!!!
  • Quit Date: 9/18/13
  • Interests: Non motorized biking, Geetar, Jazz Music(Not Jazz Flute), Quitting Skoal Forever!
  • Likes Given: 0
Re: 38 Years Down The Drain
« Reply #70 on: January 18, 2017, 05:06:00 PM »
Quote from: FISHFLORIDA
Quote from: tjschu
Quote from: ChickDip
Quote from: Nomore1959
Quote from: JGlav
Quote from: Mike1966
Congrats on the 3rd floor Max! Proud to Quit with you every day. Awesome job putting this thing behind you!
Congrats on the 3rd floor Southern. Well Done
Congrats on 3rd floor Max.
StrnGtlmn, congrats on the 300 days quit!!
Congrats on the 3rd floor
Nice Sir! great job! 300 has such a pretty ring to it.
Awesome thing coming back in here and winning this quit! Lots of folks left here and are still out there in the nicotine addict's life that never came back... Proud of you today!!
NO MO SKOAL!!! I MEAN NEVER AGAIN!!!
Real Quit Day 9/18/2013 8th Floor 11/26/15
HOF day: 12/26/2013. 9th Floor 3/5/16
2nd Floor: 4/5/14 Comma Day 6/13/16!!!
3rd Floor 7/14/2014. 3 Years 9/18/6!!!
1 Year 9/17/2014. 11th Floor 9/21/16
4th Floor 10/22/14. 12th Floor 12/30/16
Half Comma 1/30/15. 13th Floor 4/8/17
6th Floor 5/10/15 4 Years 9/18/17!!!
7th Floor 8/18/15. 15th Floor 10/26/17
2 Years 9/17/15 16th Floor 2/3/18
5 Years 9/18/18  17th Floor 5/14/18
18th Floor 08/22/2018  19th Floor 11/30/18

Online FISHFLORIDA

  • AUG 16' Traumatizer
  • Administrator
  • Quitting MoFo
  • *****
  • Posts: 14,792
  • The Adventures of Florida Man
  • Quit Date: 5/24/16
  • Interests: Saltwater Flyfishing
  • Likes Given: 1533
Re: 38 Years Down The Drain
« Reply #69 on: January 18, 2017, 01:55:00 PM »
Quote from: tjschu
Quote from: ChickDip
Quote from: Nomore1959
Quote from: JGlav
Quote from: Mike1966
Congrats on the 3rd floor Max! Proud to Quit with you every day. Awesome job putting this thing behind you!
Congrats on the 3rd floor Southern. Well Done
Congrats on 3rd floor Max.
StrnGtlmn, congrats on the 300 days quit!!
Congrats on the 3rd floor
Nice Sir! great job! 300 has such a pretty ring to it.
Just one is right back to where you were and where you were was desperately wishing you were where you are now.- Via Flip
"But KNOW that quitting every day means that eventually you'll have to quit on the day Lassie kicks the bucket" - ZAM
My Intro
My HOF Speech

Offline Tjschu

  • Master of Quit
  • *******
  • Posts: 22,987
  • Likes Given: 388
Re: 38 Years Down The Drain
« Reply #68 on: January 17, 2017, 07:16:00 PM »
Quote from: ChickDip
Quote from: Nomore1959
Quote from: JGlav
Quote from: Mike1966
Congrats on the 3rd floor Max! Proud to Quit with you every day. Awesome job putting this thing behind you!
Congrats on the 3rd floor Southern. Well Done
Congrats on 3rd floor Max.
StrnGtlmn, congrats on the 300 days quit!!
Congrats on the 3rd floor

Offline ChickDip

  • Hall of Fame Conductor
  • Master of Quit
  • ***
  • Posts: 45,645
  • July 2015 Jackals
    • HOF speech
  • Quit Date: 3/30/2015
  • Interests: (July2015 Quit Group) ((7-07-2015 100 days)) ....Quit Day March 30.... Fish Slaying, Hunting, Camping, Hiking, Mtn Biking, Cooking, Sammich-making, Poker, movies, watching Pro Baseball, anything outdoors
  • Likes Given: 2123
Re: 38 Years Down The Drain
« Reply #67 on: January 17, 2017, 05:45:00 PM »
Quote from: Nomore1959
Quote from: JGlav
Quote from: Mike1966
Congrats on the 3rd floor Max! Proud to Quit with you every day. Awesome job putting this thing behind you!
Congrats on the 3rd floor Southern. Well Done
Congrats on 3rd floor Max.
StrnGtlmn, congrats on the 300 days quit!!
July 2015 Jackals - House of WUPP
"....the load doesn't weigh me down at all, he ain't heavy he's my brother"
Try to believe that you are worth more than you think, and others are worth more than you think.
"If you haven't... Quit now......If you have... Stay that way " ~AppleJack
"Make It Through Today" WarE2013 (Rest Easy)
"I am quit... for today... with you... but not FOR you" ~LBP
"Endeavor to Persevere!" Lone Waite

my intro / my HOF speech / my comma club
Building a Strong Quit / My HOF Day

Offline Nomore1959

  • Moderator (Retired)
  • Master of Quit
  • *****
  • Posts: 20,383
  • Likes Given: 329
Re: 38 Years Down The Drain
« Reply #66 on: January 17, 2017, 02:01:00 PM »
Quote from: JGlav
Quote from: Mike1966
Congrats on the 3rd floor Max! Proud to Quit with you every day. Awesome job putting this thing behind you!
Congrats on the 3rd floor Southern. Well Done
Congrats on 3rd floor Max.

Offline JGlav

  • Master of Quit
  • *******
  • Posts: 28,820
  • Interests: Quit Date: 9/05/15
  • Likes Given: 19
Re: 38 Years Down The Drain
« Reply #65 on: January 17, 2017, 08:03:00 AM »
Quote from: Mike1966
Congrats on the 3rd floor Max! Proud to Quit with you every day. Awesome job putting this thing behind you!
Congrats on the 3rd floor Southern. Well Done

Offline Mike1966

  • Hall of Fame Conductor
  • Master of Quit
  • ***
  • Posts: 24,848
  • Quit Date: 4/18/2016
  • Likes Given: 81
Re: 38 Years Down The Drain
« Reply #64 on: January 17, 2017, 07:59:00 AM »
Congrats on the 3rd floor Max! Proud to Quit with you every day. Awesome job putting this thing behind you!
Just one and you will be back where you started.
And where you started was desperately wishing
you were where you are right now.

Offline suthern_gntlman

  • Quitter
  • **
  • Posts: 3,808
  • Interests: Church, Family, Movies and Books!
  • Likes Given: 0
Re: 38 Years Down The Drain
« Reply #63 on: October 17, 2016, 12:42:00 PM »
I would just like to give a bit of small advice to everyone that has/soon will be hitting the HOF in the next few days.

Write your HOF Speech!!!

As most everyone knows, as a current Phalanx (July 2016), I am a retread from The A-Team (August 2015). I went 330+ days my first quit, walking the halls of Caverville. You see, even though I was posting my number everyday, I didn't have anything really binding me to this site.

When I was approached about writing my HOF speech, I told my son LumberJackTim that I've been quit this long before and caved, I'm going to wait until I'm a year. Then... and only then... will I write a speech. Yeah... I was within 30 some-odd days to being a year and I caved.

I didn't have anything really binding me here. Sure I had a friend or two. Certainly my son was a draw, but in reality I had not truly committed and for me, not writing my HOF was an indicator of my reticence!

As soon as I caved, I determined to start back over and be NIC free for the rest of my days! From posting day 1 in The Phalanx, my goal was to post and be quit every single day and when I hit 100, I was going to pour my heart into my quit and my HOF speech. A String of Broken Promises

Staying as active as you can in KTC is going to get you past the craves. That Hall of Fame speech that you are debating on writing... WRITE IT! It's one more cord that binds you to KTC and your quit!

Don't ever let your guard down, stay involved and be a quitter!! Those cords may very well become a lifeline one day!

May each and everyone of you quitters be blessed!!

My name is suthern_gntlman. Today I'm quit 208 days. If you are new to KTC and lurking in Introductions, find your quit group and post a day 1. Send me a pm if you like and I will gladly share my digits with you and help you through the process. Post every day and before you know it, you too will be writing a HOF (Hall of Fame) speech!

Offline JB65

  • Quitting MoFo
  • *****
  • Posts: 14,574
  • Lennie and Henry
  • Quit Date: August 17, 2015
  • Likes Given: 4
Re: 38 Years Down The Drain
« Reply #62 on: September 29, 2016, 10:49:00 AM »
Quote from: suthern_gntlman
Do you want to live a life full of energy and a healthy confidence, or do you want to live a life on the edge of worry, every time your mouth gets a little sore or your teeth start to hurt, or you bite your tongue accidentally?!?!?!

You can quit. All you need is one day... That is all you have to worry about! Today! Tomorrow can take care of itself!

I love KTC! This is the only place you will find success through a brotherhood of accountability.

My nickname is suthern_gntlman and today I'm 187 days nic free. Come join me and become free from the chains of nicotine addiction!
Suthern, you are bad ass quitter!

Like i have said on many occasions, every day i post roll to this site is a win for me.

When I post my daily pledge up there, I feel a little less like a loser for letting tobacco control my life.

I'll quit with you today brother, and we'll worry about tomorrow when it gets here

Offline suthern_gntlman

  • Quitter
  • **
  • Posts: 3,808
  • Interests: Church, Family, Movies and Books!
  • Likes Given: 0
Re: 38 Years Down The Drain
« Reply #61 on: September 26, 2016, 10:16:00 PM »
Do you want to live a life full of energy and a healthy confidence, or do you want to live a life on the edge of worry, every time your mouth gets a little sore or your teeth start to hurt, or you bite your tongue accidentally?!?!?!

You can quit. All you need is one day... That is all you have to worry about! Today! Tomorrow can take care of itself!

I love KTC! This is the only place you will find success through a brotherhood of accountability.

My nickname is suthern_gntlman and today I'm 187 days nic free. Come join me and become free from the chains of nicotine addiction!

Offline suthern_gntlman

  • Quitter
  • **
  • Posts: 3,808
  • Interests: Church, Family, Movies and Books!
  • Likes Given: 0
Re: 38 Years Down The Drain
« Reply #60 on: July 10, 2016, 09:50:00 PM »
It takes transformation!

As I was sitting in church this morning, listening to a well thought out sermon, I couldn't help but think of the correlation of a fulfilling spiritual life to a fulfilling quit.

Romans 12 has been the subject of late at our congregation and this chapter means so much to me in relation to my quit!

Rom 12:1-2 "I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that you present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable to God, which is your reasonable service. (2) And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what is that good and acceptable and perfect will of God."

There is certainly a lot that we can gain from these first two verses, but verse two specifically makes an impact on my life.

It doesn't matter what we do in life, we have to involve our total being, to be dedicated and good at it. According to this verse: as one of God's children, I should be different from the world; transformed, not conformed. Not only that, this transformation is a renewing of my mind and allows me to prove what is good and acceptable through the will (God's word/scriptures/Holy Bible) of God.

In relation to my quit, it is imperative that I transform my mind as well. I have to completely change the way I think and even act; for I have been programmed for almost 39 years now to think and act in a way that would allow for my nicotine addiction!

I'm not going to be the same person!

One of my very good friends and brother in The Phalanx of July 2016, told me not long into his quit that his best friend informed him he was not the same since quitting dip. I would expect so!

As addicts we must make changes in every facet of our lives, because our lives are used to being focused around getting a dip, chew or smoke. We absolutely, positively must transform our minds and renew it! This is why quitting is a daily promise! We have to daily renew our minds to the concept of being nicotine free.

One day it will not be as much of a struggle as it is now, but just as being a spiritually dedicated is a daily walk and a daily transformation, being and addict will always be a part of our lives. Just as we can never let our guard down when it comes to sinful pleasures and the temptations we face in our spiritual walk, we can never let our guard down against the hated NIC!

Rom 12:9 is another one of my favorite verses in this chapter. It reads "Let love be without hypocrisy. Abhor what is evil. Cling to what is good."

If you are a visitor reading this, or a newly minted member; no, this is not a spiritual site and no, we do not support one religion over another. Who/what we support are individuals just like you that truly want to have a renewing of the mind and transform yourselves from a slave, to someone that is free from tobacco!

Love yourself and right this minute throw the cancer causing tobacco away! Start down a path that will eventually cause you to abhor (hate) your addiction and the tobacco itself and then cling to what is good! That which is good is your eventual brothers/sisters in quit and every other single person on this site that wants to see you succeed and be free!

I am but a PM and eventual text away and I want you to be free!

suthern_gntlman

Offline suthern_gntlman

  • Quitter
  • **
  • Posts: 3,808
  • Interests: Church, Family, Movies and Books!
  • Likes Given: 0
Re: 38 Years Down The Drain
« Reply #59 on: July 08, 2016, 11:01:00 PM »
My life is so much more frustrating than yours!

The pain in my back is so much worse than the pain in yours!

Oh this headache! You have never had such a headache as mine!

My kids drive me up the wall! Your kids can not compare!
_____________________________________________________________________________

We always feel the urge to one-up each other... even in our quit.

When I first joined this site, my thoughts circled around, "No one knows how addicted I am. No one will be able to understand the depth of my cravings. No one is going to be able to even begin to help me. I'm in such a bad way, no one has ever been this way."

I was wrong!

There are so many important things that I have learned since joining this site. Every understands how addicted I am. Everyone else understands the depth of my cravings. So many different people of actually been able to help me. So many others have been in as bad of a way as me or worse.

Probably the most important thing that I've learned, is not to obsess about my quit. I don't have to look around and feel the need to crave, because I'm supposed to. Nicotine is not a loved one that has passed and I feel it is disloyal to them if I don't mourn for them. I can actually, every day, wake up and let go.

I will always remember my Granny and the times that I had together with her. It has been a number of years since she passed and I don't have to tear/choke up every time I think of her.

I will always remember my dip and the things that I did with it, but I don't have to feel the need to crave it. What I can do, is accept it is a poison and instead of crave it, hate it!

Everyday, for the unforeseeable future, I am going to post roll and quit. I'm going to remember everyday that I am blessed because I don't have to depend on a substance to get me through the day!