I had a massive, no-holds-barred argument with my wife on Saturday. For the first time in 10 years I didn't even think about chewing while we were arguing (just thought about it now on Monday). And for the first time in 137 days she didn't throw the chewing (i.e., lying about it) back into my face. I think we're both moving forward positively with my QUIT; encouraging.
Anyway, something to ponder about defeat on this fine Monday:
"For every winner, there are dozens of losers. Odds are you're one of them."