Hey Bro, all that whining and cry baby whoa is me crap?....... that's exactly what this place is for. Bring it all right here and dump it out. Unload on us. That's what we do here. And that's why vets like myself stay here. We are walking in the awesome freedom that we've earned and we know what the new guys are going through. Heck. Somebody with 2 weeks, 30 days, 60 days or 100 days.... knows exactly what your going through right now. See this right here 'Finger' , those emoticons are there also to help express how your feeling. We've all said it, FU Nic 'Finger' .
Lets get something straight and put into the correct perspective. When you decided to Quit, you began to hear voices. Two voices specifically. The voice of the real you and also the voice of addiction. The voice of addiction tells you you'd rather have a dip than try to get that job. You the real you tells you that you need to be a heathy nicotine free provider to your family. The voice of addiction tells you it impossible to be free. The real you says he wants to be free. How do I know this ? Well, its the real me that's typing this to you right now. Ive been there listening to both of those voices screaming at me. Now I only hear the real me. Sometimes that other voice tries to pop up, but I recognize it and deal with it.
You should be thankful of the no nicotine requirement of the prospective job. Let it be a wake up call. My job has just begun implementing higher insurance costs for nicotine users. Hell, if I were an employer I wouldn't hire addicts. And is it fair to our families that we spend family money on this addiction and then have to pay higher insurance premiums as well?
You said you just don't know how to get over this. Well, take the simple attitude of my quit buddy Doc2Quit4Good, and say "never again". That covers every stinking thing that could ever come against you. No matter the stress, no matter how sick you start feeling, no matter if you do or do not get that job, nothing will ever again bring you to using nic ever again. You post roll. Every damn day. EVERY DAMN DAY !!!! Post roll first thing in the morning. Its your promise to me and this entire community that for just that day you will not use nic in any form or fashion. This aint a slow down or replacement site. Cold turkey buddy. As addicts, we partook first thing every morning. Now we post roll first thing. Nic is replaced with roll. Get numbers of your folks in your quit group. Get numbers of vets. Click my profile and send me a PM with your number. Text me FU and Ill text you FO and we just go about our nic free day happy as a lark. Text all your quit group buddies every day as well. Again, how do we get over this ? Well, we do it together. That the magic of KTC. Its also an accountability group. Means we watch over each other. Hold each other accountable. As in, I don't see your name on roll. You post a Day 1 yet? That's the price of admission here. Get r Done. And shoot me a pm. Glad your here. Your in the right place.
