Hi! Hey, I'm just gonna be blunt here. I've taken it upon myself to begin making a list of people who have come to this forum, stated they planned to quit, and never returned again. I decided to pursue this undertaking to show you, people like you, or anyone else reading intros where "planned quits" end up 99.9% of the time. This list is by no means comprehensive as I've only just started with most recent examples, but it happens so frequently, it won't be long before it's quite lengthy:
Time-Waster #1Time-Waster #2Time-Waster #3Time-Waster #4 (This one is as recent as yesterday. He too thought quitting on his birthday would give him some sort of special motivation. Didn't quite work out that way.)The point of this is to not openly humiliate these people (they've done a fine job at humiliating themselves), it's to illustrate a few things to you:
1.) We've all "planned" to quit on birthdays, New Years, before weddings, before kids were born, so on and so forth. We know it's all bullshit. Therefore, we'll believe it when we see it. You can't kid a kidder, man.
2.) We all know how good it feels to be quit, and we want that for you. The people who show up here who refuse to pull the trigger are actually painful to see, because they're holding their own freedom over their own heads. If only they'd make the jump, they'd feel so much better.
3.) Planning to quit is little more than your addicted mind telling you "See? We've planned to quit. We can feel good about that. Now we can worry about it later, and dip right now. In fact, maybe we should dip even more. Got to cram in as much as possible between now and the quit date!"
Well, that's all I've got. Hopefully you prove me wrong. It'd be really easy to do that, too. Dump your shit in the toilet today and quit. I'd love nothing more than for that to happen, and I and everyone else WOULD support you and your quit as if it were our own. But, worst case scenario, I'll have another intro thread to link to the next person who shows up here trying to kid themselves.
Quit TODAY.