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Re: Well Day - 3 sure does suck!
« Reply #9 on: April 29, 2015, 02:35:00 PM »
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Well Mother Fucker I guess you are correct! DAY 3 is a fucking walk in the park compared to a shit ton of would or could be other alternative days or situations. Thanks for setting me straight. Day 4 was not a bad and day 5 ehhhhhhhh we will see. I am doing this shit one day at a time and NO I do not rage around the house, I get up and go walk, chop wood, punch the side of the tree etc... It is not my wife or my kids fault, I am not quitting for them. I am quitting for my self and because I feel extremely FUCKING stupid to have wasted every fucking day of every fucking month of every fucking year since 1984/85 on this canned bull shit!

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Re: Well Day - 3 sure does suck!
« Reply #8 on: April 29, 2015, 01:16:00 PM »
Well Mother Fucker I guess you are correct! DAY 3 is a fucking walk in the park compared to a shit ton of would or could be other alternative days or situations. Thanks for setting me straight. Day 4 was not a bad and day 5 ehhhhhhhh we will see. I am doing this shit one day at a time and NO I do not rage around the house, I get up and go walk, chop wood, punch the side of the tree etc... It is not my wife or my kids fault, I am not quitting for them. I am quitting for my self and because I feel extremely FUCKING stupid to have wasted every fucking day of every fucking month of every fucking year since 1984/85 on this canned bull shit!

Thank you all who are supportive and we will be and stay QUIT
KISS MY ASS, I DON'T NEED YOU ANY LONGER.

ACTUALLY I NEVER NEEDED YOU, I WAS JUST TO FUCKING WEAK TO REALIZE I WAS ADDICTED TO YOUR FUCKING SHIT!

NOW I KNOW!


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Re: Well Day - 3 sure does suck!
« Reply #7 on: April 28, 2015, 10:29:00 AM »
Yes, Day 3 is horrible, Day 4 not much better. How about posting roll and getting some support? A text here and there can get you through some rough times.
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Re: Well Day - 3 sure does suck!
« Reply #6 on: April 28, 2015, 07:45:00 AM »
Welcome to the fight, brother. I experienced a big difference between days 3 and 4; the fog lifted the morning of day 4, so good morning and welcome to a better, healthier day. You're now beyond the worst of it.

I see you haven't posted roll yet - you've got a PM and email from me with instructions to do so. I hope to see you post roll this morning with your August group. You'll be one of the first newbies in the group, and you'll have the opportunity to see your quit group grow over the month. Your group is empty right now, but you aren't alone - quitters will come flying in from every corner get your back.

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Re: Well Day - 3 sure does suck!
« Reply #5 on: April 27, 2015, 07:50:00 PM »
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Quote from: Bean
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This is the worst! Day 3 and I feel like my mind is on drugs. I can't read I cant type very well, nothing. I don't want a chew, I really don't which is surprising as hell.
Mr. C - Welcome to your quit. Your level of success depends on how committed to this you are. Day 3 is good, you're almost out of the suck. Keep grinding. Your next step is the fog where you will continue to not be able to type full sentences or thoughts. How I stayed employed I'll never understand. Fake it till you make it.

We post roll here daily, it's the foundation of this place. You will post in th month where you hit 100 days which is Aug 2015.


You're already quit so post your day 3 with pride now. We'll see you there.
Done is right...fake it 'till you make it. But let's think about this whole "Day 3 sucks" thing...

Day 3 is the worst day? Really? Day 3 might suck donkey balls. But does it suck as much as the day the dentist says, "let's have someone look at that spot?" Could it suck as much as the first day of chemo? Or how about the day they remove your teeth, tongue and jaw and install a feeding tube? I bet it doesn't suck as much as the day you have to say good bye to those who love you the most before you pass away. In fact, I'm fairly certain those days suck so bad that Day 3 is WONDERFUL by comparison.

You are probably dealing with Day 3 headaches, anxiety, constipation, sleeplessness, raging like an asshole around your house and general irritability (so you're probably not laughing at my sarcasm). Everything is relative. Day 3 might suck...I'll give you that. But it also might be fucking spectacular when you think about it, huh?

Read the Tom and Jenny Kern story...and their Caring Bridge entry. Read the part where Jenny describes Tom's daughter at his feet pleading, "Daddy, don't go" as he takes his last breath. I'll bet Tom would have given just about anything to get to have just one more cancer-free day. I bet Tom would love Day 3, huh?

Quitting is all about your attitude. Decide that you will enjoy every minute of it. Embrace the suck. Take note of your success. I mean really experience how weirdly awesome it is to live nic-free. Quitting is a privilege reserved to those who have the guts to do it. When YOU decide to quit, you GET to feel shitty. That shitty feeling is fucking awesome...a reminder that you are kicking nic's ass one day at a time. You are in control. And you should be pumped about that. I am. I'm pumped that you are here and you are making it happen ONE DAY AT A TIME.

YOU CAN DO THIS!!!
Wow Bean. That was really great. My quit is re-fueled.
Mr Cope you should be pumped up to quit now too! So go find August 15 and get you name on roll dammit.
Man, Bean - I'm ready to run laps on that one. What a great adrenaline maker of a speech! I was happy about my quit but now I'm ecstatic! Mr. C - Take charge of your quit my brother!! Happy to be quit with you today!

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Re: Well Day - 3 sure does suck!
« Reply #4 on: April 27, 2015, 06:51:00 PM »
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Quote from: Mr.
This is the worst! Day 3 and I feel like my mind is on drugs. I can't read I cant type very well, nothing. I don't want a chew, I really don't which is surprising as hell.
Mr. C - Welcome to your quit. Your level of success depends on how committed to this you are. Day 3 is good, you're almost out of the suck. Keep grinding. Your next step is the fog where you will continue to not be able to type full sentences or thoughts. How I stayed employed I'll never understand. Fake it till you make it.

We post roll here daily, it's the foundation of this place. You will post in th month where you hit 100 days which is Aug 2015.


You're already quit so post your day 3 with pride now. We'll see you there.
Done is right...fake it 'till you make it. But let's think about this whole "Day 3 sucks" thing...

Day 3 is the worst day? Really? Day 3 might suck donkey balls. But does it suck as much as the day the dentist says, "let's have someone look at that spot?" Could it suck as much as the first day of chemo? Or how about the day they remove your teeth, tongue and jaw and install a feeding tube? I bet it doesn't suck as much as the day you have to say good bye to those who love you the most before you pass away. In fact, I'm fairly certain those days suck so bad that Day 3 is WONDERFUL by comparison.

You are probably dealing with Day 3 headaches, anxiety, constipation, sleeplessness, raging like an asshole around your house and general irritability (so you're probably not laughing at my sarcasm). Everything is relative. Day 3 might suck...I'll give you that. But it also might be fucking spectacular when you think about it, huh?

Read the Tom and Jenny Kern story...and their Caring Bridge entry. Read the part where Jenny describes Tom's daughter at his feet pleading, "Daddy, don't go" as he takes his last breath. I'll bet Tom would have given just about anything to get to have just one more cancer-free day. I bet Tom would love Day 3, huh?

Quitting is all about your attitude. Decide that you will enjoy every minute of it. Embrace the suck. Take note of your success. I mean really experience how weirdly awesome it is to live nic-free. Quitting is a privilege reserved to those who have the guts to do it. When YOU decide to quit, you GET to feel shitty. That shitty feeling is fucking awesome...a reminder that you are kicking nic's ass one day at a time. You are in control. And you should be pumped about that. I am. I'm pumped that you are here and you are making it happen ONE DAY AT A TIME.

YOU CAN DO THIS!!!
Wow Bean. That was really great. My quit is re-fueled.
Mr Cope you should be pumped up to quit now too! So go find August 15 and get you name on roll dammit.

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Re: Well Day - 3 sure does suck!
« Reply #3 on: April 27, 2015, 05:06:00 PM »
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This is the worst! Day 3 and I feel like my mind is on drugs. I can't read I cant type very well, nothing. I don't want a chew, I really don't which is surprising as hell.
Mr. C - Welcome to your quit. Your level of success depends on how committed to this you are. Day 3 is good, you're almost out of the suck. Keep grinding. Your next step is the fog where you will continue to not be able to type full sentences or thoughts. How I stayed employed I'll never understand. Fake it till you make it.

We post roll here daily, it's the foundation of this place. You will post in th month where you hit 100 days which is Aug 2015.


You're already quit so post your day 3 with pride now. We'll see you there.
Done is right...fake it 'till you make it. But let's think about this whole "Day 3 sucks" thing...

Day 3 is the worst day? Really? Day 3 might suck donkey balls. But does it suck as much as the day the dentist says, "let's have someone look at that spot?" Could it suck as much as the first day of chemo? Or how about the day they remove your teeth, tongue and jaw and install a feeding tube? I bet it doesn't suck as much as the day you have to say good bye to those who love you the most before you pass away. In fact, I'm fairly certain those days suck so bad that Day 3 is WONDERFUL by comparison.

You are probably dealing with Day 3 headaches, anxiety, constipation, sleeplessness, raging like an asshole around your house and general irritability (so you're probably not laughing at my sarcasm). Everything is relative. Day 3 might suck...I'll give you that. But it also might be fucking spectacular when you think about it, huh?

Read the Tom and Jenny Kern story...and their Caring Bridge entry. Read the part where Jenny describes Tom's daughter at his feet pleading, "Daddy, don't go" as he takes his last breath. I'll bet Tom would have given just about anything to get to have just one more cancer-free day. I bet Tom would love Day 3, huh?

Quitting is all about your attitude. Decide that you will enjoy every minute of it. Embrace the suck. Take note of your success. I mean really experience how weirdly awesome it is to live nic-free. Quitting is a privilege reserved to those who have the guts to do it. When YOU decide to quit, you GET to feel shitty. That shitty feeling is fucking awesome...a reminder that you are kicking nic's ass one day at a time. You are in control. And you should be pumped about that. I am. I'm pumped that you are here and you are making it happen ONE DAY AT A TIME.

YOU CAN DO THIS!!!

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Re: Well Day - 3 sure does suck!
« Reply #2 on: April 27, 2015, 04:00:00 PM »
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This is the worst! Day 3 and I feel like my mind is on drugs. I can't read I cant type very well, nothing. I don't want a chew, I really don't which is surprising as hell.
Mr. C - Welcome to your quit. Your level of success depends on how committed to this you are. Day 3 is good, you're almost out of the suck. Keep grinding. Your next step is the fog where you will continue to not be able to type full sentences or thoughts. How I stayed employed I'll never understand. Fake it till you make it.

We post roll here daily, it's the foundation of this place. You will post in th month where you hit 100 days which is Aug 2015.


You're already quit so post your day 3 with pride now. We'll see you there.

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Well Day - 3 sure does suck!
« on: April 27, 2015, 03:54:00 PM »
'Finger' This is the worst! Day 3 and I feel like my mind is on drugs. I can't read I cant type very well, nothing. I don't want a chew, I really don't which is surprising as hell.
KISS MY ASS, I DON'T NEED YOU ANY LONGER.

ACTUALLY I NEVER NEEDED YOU, I WAS JUST TO FUCKING WEAK TO REALIZE I WAS ADDICTED TO YOUR FUCKING SHIT!

NOW I KNOW!


I use to use Cope to Cope for over 30 years, now I have to Cope without Cope just to Cope.