Determined, I hope you realize that over the last few days you're getting guys to come out pour out their best for you, putting all their emotions energy into this. You've got guys ready willing to go to the ends of the earth for you. As does everybody I've seen on this site that isn't getting involved. If you don't want to that's fine, but know that they're not advocating you do it "their" way, they're advocating you do it the successful way. With guys willing to go to the ends of the earth. So why not let them know how it's going, or not going anymore.