As far as I know anyone that I supported from day 1 and vanished, only to reappear, has not made it to the HOF again.
Those that reached out for more support on round 2, have made it and are still here.
So is the lesson here....
A. Dont shit on Mr C
B. Be humble, seek help and use the support
How humble is that?
I prefer:
1. Post Roll Every Day.
2. Keep your WORD.
3. Repeat.
No offense, candieass, but people have most success when the focus on those three things, and not so much when the are worried about who they are not supposed to shit on.
Im also not sure you should be so proud of the fact that your support for retreads resulted in those failure.
Not sure what your intended lesson was here, but I'll reference my three step approach as a retort of sorts.
Cando-
I think I get what you are trying to say. Let me take a stab at trying to reword it a little bit (as even I see it as a bit cryptic):
You have stuck around and have been successful in your quit. You, in your own way, have been giving back to others as you have, in your style.
You have looked to others and have reached out. For those who have accepted that and have reached back, are those that also gain the success. Those that do not reach back out, are the ones that still continue to fail.
It is definitely not personal, it is just the way that there are some who do not feel like opening themselves up to ask others for the help on a personal level. It will happen with so many people. Part of human nature I guess.
But I do look at what a wise Jackwagin said some years ago, and I apply it to a group both within Oct12 and some others, and that is "Be a friend". With those small words to heart, one can get far in his or her success here.
always shoulder to shoulder with you in this fight against nicotine and living the clean life. Be good, Be smart,
