Did I just quit?

[Kubiak]

Wow that escalated quickly... 'Popcorn'

Conflict is good, it brings to light what needs to be said.

My Nov12 quit group jelled much tighter after some major blowups.

We are all here for the quit. I hold my quit so tight to my heart that I will do anything to maintain it, including A FIVE MINUTE ROLL CALL EVERY FUCKING DAY.

'Crazy'

[Radman]

I haven't been here long but you know I agree that if you join this site to quit then follow the rules and post roll everyday. I understand the importance of it now. It's much more than simply just adding your name to a long list....its making a vow to yourself and your brothers that you will be honest and stay nic free for that day. With that core value driving it, I can see how those who don't put in the time post or take it seriously is kind of like a slap to their fellow brothers who DO put in the time and commitment. I will tell you all now that I will do my part and stay true.

That being said, what's the deal with all these people saying "adios" and "I'm out of here"?? That's not what hard core quitters do is it?

STC-This thread may have not been the most productive, but maybe it received attention for a reason.

Nobody is going anywhere--- idol threats--- you can't get enough of this place-----even when you say "your gone" you still need to see how people respond to that statement.
We all need this place for a reason! This is a great place to quit! It feels fucking wonderful to be quit! It feels GREAT knowing that there are others who have you back who are going through the same things as you!

I will quit with you today!

Waketech

This ain't the first time I've seen this and it won't be the last. Don't let someones piss party affect your quit. Just keep plugging away at your quit, one day at a time. Take what you need and leave the rest....

Waketech is correct. Look at the numbers on this thread. 1285 views so far. That's a significant and much-needed distraction to struggling quitters. The plan is working. 'na na'

I have intentionally steered clear of this thread the last couple days, because the name calling and arguing are not for me. I'm like Diesel - I get personally caught up in everything. I don't have temperment middle ground. My only means to survive is try to offer brotherhood to everybody. I'm not an internet tough guy as some members here have been called. With that said, I understand the guys who are. I completely accept and welcome them here because they make us stronger as a group. Why? Because there are other hardasses out there who have not yet quit, and that is what it takes to draw them in. I'm not on the "touchy-feely" side either. If the site were 100% on either side of the spectrum, it would become real boring.... real quick. This place is no-holds-barred for the most part, and that's why it works. There are complete assholes here. There are pastors here. The guys who built this house had it figured out. That has been proven to me many times since I've been here, so there's no question in my mind. It is reccomended to "take what you need, and leave the rest". I'll take some quit and take some brotherhood. I'll leave the rest.

You wanna be an internet tough guy? I'll quit with you.
You wanna be a hardass? I'll quit with you.
You wanna be a pansy? I'll quit with you.
You wanna be a part of the brotherhood? I'll quit with you.
You paddle your end of the canoe and I'll paddle mine.
I've got your back if you need help. I expect the same from all of you.

Quit on....

[Roamcountry]

I haven't been here long but you know I agree that if you join this site to quit then follow the rules and post roll everyday. I understand the importance of it now. It's much more than simply just adding your name to a long list....its making a vow to yourself and your brothers that you will be honest and stay nic free for that day. With that core value driving it, I can see how those who don't put in the time post or take it seriously is kind of like a slap to their fellow brothers who DO put in the time and commitment. I will tell you all now that I will do my part and stay true.

That being said, what's the deal with all these people saying "adios" and "I'm out of here"?? That's not what hard core quitters do is it?

STC-This thread may have not been the most productive, but maybe it received attention for a reason.

Nobody is going anywhere--- idol threats--- you can't get enough of this place-----even when you say "your gone" you still need to see how people respond to that statement.
We all need this place for a reason! This is a great place to quit! It feels fucking wonderful to be quit! It feels GREAT knowing that there are others who have you back who are going through the same things as you!

I will quit with you today!

Waketech

This ain't the first time I've seen this and it won't be the last. Don't let someones piss party affect your quit. Just keep plugging away at your quit, one day at a time. Take what you need and leave the rest....

[waketech]

I haven't been here long but you know I agree that if you join this site to quit then follow the rules and post roll everyday. I understand the importance of it now. It's much more than simply just adding your name to a long list....its making a vow to yourself and your brothers that you will be honest and stay nic free for that day. With that core value driving it, I can see how those who don't put in the time post or take it seriously is kind of like a slap to their fellow brothers who DO put in the time and commitment. I will tell you all now that I will do my part and stay true.

That being said, what's the deal with all these people saying "adios" and "I'm out of here"?? That's not what hard core quitters do is it?

STC-This thread may have not been the most productive, but maybe it received attention for a reason.

Nobody is going anywhere--- idol threats--- you can't get enough of this place-----even when you say "your gone" you still need to see how people respond to that statement.
We all need this place for a reason! This is a great place to quit! It feels fucking wonderful to be quit! It feels GREAT knowing that there are others who have you back who are going through the same things as you!

I will quit with you today!

Waketech

[waketech]

Come on guys, this is getting ridiculous.� We lost Fergy due to this very type of exchange.� Fergy is one of the good guys and i have to say that i have considered following suit.� I understand the rules, the approach, the brotherhood, the commitment, and the respect issues.� On this site we commit to a certain method, tried and true for those that succeed, but not for those that do not succeed, anyone ever considered that?� I will not insult, begrudge or look down on someone who believes this method is the only way to go nor will i for someone that succeeds some other way.� I don't give a f?!k about how you make the sausage, I just want it to taste good at the end.� I am trying to ignore these sorts of threads but it is pretty damn hard to do so.� I appreciate all sides but i will not devolve to name calling and insults because my quit is better than yours. Have we become an exclusive club that excludes other "races and religions"?�

If so, count me out.

You know what, fuck this. This sites getting soft. I'm done. Ill just post roll if I feel like it and that's it.

I get into a spat with a guy who shits on posting roll and people start acting like they're 5 years old watching a slasher movie.

I got guys pm'ing me calling me an asshole because I called them out for claiming they weren't addicted to nicotine, just putting stuff in their mouth.

Maybe its time for me to move along. Maybe I'm taking this site TOO serious.

I tried to help some dudes out, but now I got a guy dogging me out about taking meds and telling me to go have a panic attack and chest pains. I can handle that, as I'm a big boy but god forbid someone have my back.

I'm out. You all just sit around holding hands and allow one another to quit any old way. Let role be optional, nobody pay shit forward, and if two people get after eachother, dick tuck and threaten to leave the site.

Later...I'm punting.

Bullshit Diesel, quit feeling sorry for yourself. You have supported me a great deal and I have enjoyed our interactions. Don't be a martyr, you have too much to give and have given very successfully. I am proud to quit with you.

I simply asked an obvious question: can a message be shared without insults and degrading others? I say they can. Perhaps it is me that should leave since I don't fit this mold. People can Insult me all they want, I laugh it off and will continue to do so, but lets not let it devolve and be a distraction to those quitting the good quit.

I hope you change your mind. We all get PMS and a big man brushes it off and continues the fight.

I'm not feeling sorry for myself, I'm not a martyr and I have sent 100's of messages without degrading others. If anything I've always tried to be a little edgy and a little funny at the same time.

Just think I've become too abrasive and am gonna drop out for awhile. Ktc will be fine, you're quit will be fine. You're strong, you get it.

Ill still post role...if I feel like it, since that's the new hottness on this site. Just gonna keep my nose in my own business from now on.

Gonna walk the mcr trail. Nobody seems to have a problem with him doing it, so why should you care if I do?

Stay quit!

I was first to call this cat out and and got called a "fuck" and other names by KTC brothers because I was inconsiderate of his special way of quitting. What I realized was that these are "new quitters" that really don't understand how this brotherhood works. They feel so good that they are quit and want to help others out by reinventing the wheel for this site so in can take in everyone.

(Look at this thread again and see who was posting what)

Back to quitting

Luv Waketech -183

Hey Wake,

Here's the deal....I am new to this site and may not fully understand the whole Gist of how it works but I do know what a brotherhood means and how important it is in overcoming an addiction such as the one we all share. Believe me I understand that we have to come down on each other when we start to slip and we should hard if needed but there is a line. When someone resorts to childish name calling, and I'll be the first to admit it (e.g. "you Fuck"), personal attacks, etc. then the situation is no longer helpful. That kind of negativity breeds negativity and spirals downhill as we have seen in his thread from hell. Your intentions may have been just and I can tell quitting means a lot to you which it should. I can be a real asshole when I think someone is just straight-up being a complete douchebag prick; I just have always been that way. But I really prefer not to be like that and like to call others Brother and offer and receive support and friendship.

STC- Hey man it doesn't matter how long you have been quit! What matters is that you are quit! You and me make our daily promise each day and both know we will be there for each other.

Waketech quit with STC

[Screw_the_Chew]

I haven't been here long but you know I agree that if you join this site to quit then follow the rules and post roll everyday. I understand the importance of it now. It's much more than simply just adding your name to a long list....its making a vow to yourself and your brothers that you will be honest and stay nic free for that day. With that core value driving it, I can see how those who don't put in the time post or take it seriously is kind of like a slap to their fellow brothers who DO put in the time and commitment. I will tell you all now that I will do my part and stay true.

That being said, what's the deal with all these people saying "adios" and "I'm out of here"?? That's not what hard core quitters do is it?

[Screw_the_Chew]

Come on guys, this is getting ridiculous.  We lost Fergy due to this very type of exchange.  Fergy is one of the good guys and i have to say that i have considered following suit.  I understand the rules, the approach, the brotherhood, the commitment, and the respect issues.  On this site we commit to a certain method, tried and true for those that succeed, but not for those that do not succeed, anyone ever considered that?  I will not insult, begrudge or look down on someone who believes this method is the only way to go nor will i for someone that succeeds some other way.  I don't give a f?!k about how you make the sausage, I just want it to taste good at the end.  I am trying to ignore these sorts of threads but it is pretty damn hard to do so.  I appreciate all sides but i will not devolve to name calling and insults because my quit is better than yours. Have we become an exclusive club that excludes other "races and religions"? 

If so, count me out.

You know what, fuck this. This sites getting soft. I'm done. Ill just post roll if I feel like it and that's it.

I get into a spat with a guy who shits on posting roll and people start acting like they're 5 years old watching a slasher movie.

I got guys pm'ing me calling me an asshole because I called them out for claiming they weren't addicted to nicotine, just putting stuff in their mouth.

Maybe its time for me to move along. Maybe I'm taking this site TOO serious.

I tried to help some dudes out, but now I got a guy dogging me out about taking meds and telling me to go have a panic attack and chest pains. I can handle that, as I'm a big boy but god forbid someone have my back.

I'm out. You all just sit around holding hands and allow one another to quit any old way. Let role be optional, nobody pay shit forward, and if two people get after eachother, dick tuck and threaten to leave the site.

Later...I'm punting.

Bullshit Diesel, quit feeling sorry for yourself. You have supported me a great deal and I have enjoyed our interactions. Don't be a martyr, you have too much to give and have given very successfully. I am proud to quit with you.

I simply asked an obvious question: can a message be shared without insults and degrading others? I say they can. Perhaps it is me that should leave since I don't fit this mold. People can Insult me all they want, I laugh it off and will continue to do so, but lets not let it devolve and be a distraction to those quitting the good quit.

I hope you change your mind. We all get PMS and a big man brushes it off and continues the fight.

I'm not feeling sorry for myself, I'm not a martyr and I have sent 100's of messages without degrading others. If anything I've always tried to be a little edgy and a little funny at the same time.

Just think I've become too abrasive and am gonna drop out for awhile. Ktc will be fine, you're quit will be fine. You're strong, you get it.

Ill still post role...if I feel like it, since that's the new hottness on this site. Just gonna keep my nose in my own business from now on.

Gonna walk the mcr trail. Nobody seems to have a problem with him doing it, so why should you care if I do?

Stay quit!

I was first to call this cat out and and got called a "fuck" and other names by KTC brothers because I was inconsiderate of his special way of quitting. What I realized was that these are "new quitters" that really don't understand how this brotherhood works. They feel so good that they are quit and want to help others out by reinventing the wheel for this site so in can take in everyone.

(Look at this thread again and see who was posting what)

Back to quitting

Luv Waketech -183

Hey Wake,

Here's the deal....I am new to this site and may not fully understand the whole Gist of how it works but I do know what a brotherhood means and how important it is in overcoming an addiction such as the one we all share. Believe me I understand that we have to come down on each other when we start to slip and we should hard if needed but there is a line. When someone resorts to childish name calling, and I'll be the first to admit it (e.g. "you Fuck"), personal attacks, etc. then the situation is no longer helpful. That kind of negativity breeds negativity and spirals downhill as we have seen in his thread from hell. Your intentions may have been just and I can tell quitting means a lot to you which it should. I can be a real asshole when I think someone is just straight-up being a complete douchebag prick; I just have always been that way. But I really prefer not to be like that and like to call others Brother and offer and receive support and friendship.

[Dlee3]

Shed and diesel KTC needs you both. You have both been valuable to me and others

I like the intensity and passion. Both of you MF's better stay active and verbal on the site

I got too emotional, I got hooked by this joker and I'm letting some frustrating difficulties with my 7 yr old daughter (diagnosed with dyslexia) boil over.

I'm on life tilt right now. Time to stop, take a deep breath, push away from the table, and get myself in check. I might miss an orbit around the table but I'm not leaving the game.

I like Old Diesel. I like Old Loot and Old Evil and Old Fuel and Old wmcatty and Old guys like Parputt that pissed me off one time. Didn't bother me; turned me into a "I'll show you" kinda guy. Turned into respect. That's what happens when you hang around and figure out what this quit means to these guys. I have read it a hundred times on here. Take what you need from the site and leave the rest. What in the hell is wrong with feeding off the pissyness of others? I like seeing Diesel and others rip somebody a brand spanking new asshole. I pretend it's me who's getting fitted for such an asshole should I cave. Keep ripping dudes, Diesel.

I'm rooting for your daughter today, mostly, Diesel. I'm in grad school with a grown woman that grew up with Dyslexia. The biggest thing that helped her? No kidding, it was learning to write in cursive. For some reason, the continuity of letter-writing (i.e. never picking up the pencil) was a huge amount of her therapy for dyslexia. That's all I got, as I'm not a doctor, but she says that's why she still writes in cursive today. And she's 41. Good luck to the kid, dude. And keep creating new assholes. I beg of you.

[Diesel2112]

Shed and diesel KTC needs you both. You have both been valuable to me and others

I like the intensity and passion. Both of you MF's better stay active and verbal on the site

I got too emotional, I got hooked by this joker and I'm letting some frustrating difficulties with my 7 yr old daughter (diagnosed with dyslexia) boil over.

I'm on life tilt right now. Time to stop, take a deep breath, push away from the table, and get myself in check. I might miss an orbit around the table but I'm not leaving the game.

[robbie]

Shed and diesel KTC needs you both. You have both been valuable to me and others

I like the intensity and passion. Both of you MF's better stay active and verbal on the site

[redtrain14]

So let me get this straight. We have one quitter who offers tons of support and substance, and another quitter that appears to be heading down the same path, arguing with each other as a result of a few posts by yet another quitter who up until this point, offers far less.

And they have all decided to pack their shit and go home?

Awesome.....

'Crazy'

Im not going home...I'm like herpies

You mean the good kind, right?

[Diesel2112]

So let me get this straight. We have one quitter who offers tons of support and substance, and another quitter that appears to be heading down the same path, arguing with each other as a result of a few posts by yet another quitter who up until this point, offers far less.

And they have all decided to pack their shit and go home?

Awesome.....

'Crazy'

Im not going home...I'm like herpies

[redtrain14]

So let me get this straight. We have one quitter who offers tons of support and substance, and another quitter that appears to be heading down the same path, arguing with each other as a result of a few posts by yet another quitter who up until this point, offers far less.

And they have all decided to pack their shit and go home?

Awesome.....

'Crazy'

[Adigg]

What is going on here??????  My father didnt say a ton of wise shit to me but he did tell me this.  "I dont like Liars and Thieves"  If you post roll on this site that means you have quit using Nicotine.  Period.  If you cave.......Then you are using Nicotine and you have LIED.  Sorry if we dont blow on your scrape and say everything is alright!  You lied to me!..................  You lied to your group!........... You lied to anyone that has put time in with you or anyone who has posted support for you.

All we ask is for a person to not come back with some BS answer about what happened.  We hold them accountable!  If they continue to bring BS then we hold them accountable for that.  WTF is the problem?  Dont fucking cave and there wont be an issue!  If you think We are hard on someone go back in history and read some of those Intro's.  We are far from tough on people.

1. What Happened?
2. Why did it happen 
3. What are the changes that you will make to make sure it doesnt happen again. 

Be honest on those three answers and post up and you are back on the Quit express.

D and Wake shouldnt feel bad about expressing how they feel about someone who has lied to all of us.  We have all had craves!!!!  We have all been on our fucking knees fighting this shit off!!  If we can do it, then why cant someone else? 

We are not giving out participation medals here!!  We aren't here to say it is ok if you almost made it.  Good TRY!! 

We are allowing people earn a new fucking life!!  Freedom like an addict has never felt before!       

Seems simple to me. 

That's my Two cents..........Im out!!


J

I am out as well. Thanks for actually reading and understanding my posts and the solid 3 weeks of support. Adios.

This thread reminds me of a bad soap opera. Take what you need and leave the rest. First few weeks you a very susceptible to drama. This site is meant for you to rant and get pissed off. Sometimes toes might get stepped on, but in the end we are all here for the same reasonÂ…we quit nicotine today!

[Ajacks23]

What is going on here?????? My father didnt say a ton of wise shit to me but he did tell me this. "I dont like Liars and Thieves" If you post roll on this site that means you have quit using Nicotine. Period. If you cave.......Then you are using Nicotine and you have LIED. Sorry if we dont blow on your scrape and say everything is alright! You lied to me!.................. You lied to your group!........... You lied to anyone that has put time in with you or anyone who has posted support for you.

All we ask is for a person to not come back with some BS answer about what happened. We hold them accountable! If they continue to bring BS then we hold them accountable for that. WTF is the problem? Dont fucking cave and there wont be an issue! If you think We are hard on someone go back in history and read some of those Intro's. We are far from tough on people.

1. What Happened?
2. Why did it happen
3. What are the changes that you will make to make sure it doesnt happen again.

Be honest on those three answers and post up and you are back on the Quit express.

D and Wake shouldnt feel bad about expressing how they feel about someone who has lied to all of us. We have all had craves!!!! We have all been on our fucking knees fighting this shit off!! If we can do it, then why cant someone else?

We are not giving out participation medals here!! We aren't here to say it is ok if you almost made it. Good TRY!!

We are allowing people earn a new fucking life!! Freedom like an addict has never felt before!

Seems simple to me.

That's my Two cents..........Im out!!


J

Truth. Lets not get soft around here. I have made it 20 days quit here on this site because of the way things are structured. If I knew that if I caved I got a pat on the back, a few dollars for a candy bar, and a "great effort, get her next time!" I would have fucking caved already. I don't want to let my brothers down. I have people checking in on me daily. I make my daily promise to stay quit and I do NOT want to be a liar.

If this site doesn't fit your personal quit preferences or lifestyles because you are too busy for a 10 second per day commitment go somewhere fucking else.