As a Day 3 quitter, I want to see you guys support VBE. He was a brother for a long time to make it to HOF+60. Ya, I would be pissed if he were in my quit group and I poured time into helping, but don't blast out with name calling. What does that do to bring him back on the quit train? Expressing solid disappointment in his action is torture enough if he reads this. But it doesn't discount the stud he was for 160 days, and I don't think you should. He'll be a Day 1 quitter just like I was 2 days ago, and need the support from all of us. How many of us have messed up our hundreds of "quits" before we found this site??
Plenty. Until I found this site and found out there is no acceptabe reason to cave. NONE. Failure will not be met with sympathy here. Sympathy is not given for things that are self inflicted. Sympathy is for the things that happen to us outside of our control. He chose to lie. He chose to fail. He chose not to protect his quit. He chose not to close the door. There is no excuse.
QuitinCA, 30 is right. The love here is tough. No hugs for trying and no second place trophies. We either quit or GTFO here. Day 3 is impressive, keep at it!
But, 30, come on. VBEÂ’s team lost.
Try being a Vikings fan... you fuck!
Done making excuses or being nice. Vikings vs Saints.. NFC Championship Game. I should still be dipping....but I'm not!
You're a slave to bitch again. I'm celebrating 200/200 days quit.
Know why I'm fucking pissed off? Cuz I exchanged PM's with you early! I supported you! You fucking caved!
When you're ready... come back.... my trust will be earned back late....you should take over the spreadsheet for you new group....be a role model....
I'll sign off like this
THansen 200 for 200.... be jealous of me.... I know I don't envy your slave nic ass
Pull up a chair, new guy. You gots lots to learns here.
After reading all the replies, I see all of your points. I may be new, but I'm gung-ho on my quit. I don't know VBE, you guys do. I just want to support all the quitters on this forum.
Honestly (and sadly) I don't know vbe either. But I do. I know him to a T.
He's an addict. He's a liar. He's selfish. He's dishonest. He's not trustworthy. He's scared. He's confused. He's angry. He's me. He's every one of us.
We all go through this as addicts. God knows I've 'quit' a million times. Who out there has said this - "Quitting is easy, I do it every day!" I know I have. It's what we tell ourselves over and over again. "I can quit anytime I want." But you know the reality is, you can not.
Personally, I was never serious about it, but once I changed my mindset, it was over for that whore. It's very , very frustratinf for us to see someone come here, have all of this support, knowledge and experience at their literal fingertips, get established (reach HOF) and then cave like a pussy.
This place is unlike anything else out there. I know. I've looked, you've looked. People who have not walked our path do not understand the scenery.
QCA - I'm glad you're here brother. This place is the cornerstone of your Quit foundation. Build your Quit house with our bricks. Look at vbe's failure as a learning experience on what not to do.
vbe - if you ever have the stones to come back here and read this, you better read it with your head completely removed from your ass. You threw away an opportunity of a literal lifetime. Get your sorry ass back in here, roll your sleeves up and get to the dirty work. You need it, and you know it. I can think of worse things in life than getting your ass handed to you for being weak. Man up, and Quit on.
