I'm not sure if anyone else looks through the spreadsheet for their quit groups, but you should. I was looking through the June group's spreadsheet tonight and noticed some tabs at the bottom.
One of the tabs is labeled "Cave/Lost." I clicked on that tab and saw something that disgusted me: 90 people on that list. Ninety. 9, 0. There are 49 of us who have faithfully been posting roll since day one. Of those 49, there are 14 100%ers.
I often say this in the introductions of new folks who come to the forum: "this forum and the people on it are only as helpful as you allow them to be." There's no good reason that our group has 1/3 of the people it should approaching the HOF.
Am I proud to be part of the June Quit Saloon? You're damned right I am. Am I disappointed that we weren't able to help 90 people stay quit and lead better lives? You're damned right I am.
I will celebrate with everyone who is reaching the HOF, including myself in 5 days. However, I decided to post something about this to put things into perspective. Anyone can cave at any time. We are addicts and it's a risk that we all face. We have to band together and help each other through the tough times so that the "Cave/Lost" list doesn't gain another person.