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Re: Help needed........
« Reply #93 on: June 14, 2013, 09:07:00 PM »
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Kc - as you know I work for an alcohol company. My standard reply would be that alcohol can help everything!  Not tonight - please talk to your wife and let her help tonight. Call one of us if we can help. I know you have our numbers. This too shall pass. Timing is never good. Uncertainty is never good. Nicotine is never ever ever ever good. It is always darkest before the dawn. You've had some dark days in the past few weeks. Re-read your posts. You made it through them. You'll make it through this.

Be careful with the booze tonight. It is understandable that you'd wanna blow off some steam. But make sure you wife has all the keys. Driving anywhere, including the Phillips station, would not be a good idea. For a lot of reasons.

Hang in there.
I just broke down in front of my wife. Told her I cant do this anymore. And being the awesome wife that she is she told me she would love me no matter what. But she said wait until she comes back with some smokey mountain before I make a dumb decision. She isv on her way to quick trip now. Thank you guys for the encouragement. This is a full on dip panic attac.k
Remember 1 problem + nicotine= 2 problems. Learn to hats nicotine for the poison that it is and your quit will be much stronger. Would you drink liquid drano? Man up. It is worth it.
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Re: Help needed........
« Reply #92 on: June 14, 2013, 09:02:00 PM »
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Kc - as you know I work for an alcohol company. My standard reply would be that alcohol can help everything! Not tonight - please talk to your wife and let her help tonight. Call one of us if we can help. I know you have our numbers. This too shall pass. Timing is never good. Uncertainty is never good. Nicotine is never ever ever ever good. It is always darkest before the dawn. You've had some dark days in the past few weeks. Re-read your posts. You made it through them. You'll make it through this.

Be careful with the booze tonight. It is understandable that you'd wanna blow off some steam. But make sure you wife has all the keys. Driving anywhere, including the Phillips station, would not be a good idea. For a lot of reasons.

Hang in there.
I just broke down in front of my wife. Told her I cant do this anymore. And being the awesome wife that she is she told me she would love me no matter what. But she said wait until she comes back with some smokey mountain before I make a dumb decision. She isv on her way to quick trip now. Thank you guys for the encouragement. This is a full on dip panic attac.k
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Re: Help needed........
« Reply #91 on: June 14, 2013, 08:58:00 PM »
We suggest very strongly that you avoid alcohol for atleast the first hundred days or so into your quit. It will weaken your resolve and right now, you need support not a high. Come into chat if you are online.

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Re: Help needed........
« Reply #90 on: June 14, 2013, 08:52:00 PM »
Kc - as you know I work for an alcohol company. My standard reply would be that alcohol can help everything! Not tonight - please talk to your wife and let her help tonight. Call one of us if we can help. I know you have our numbers. This too shall pass. Timing is never good. Uncertainty is never good. Nicotine is never ever ever ever good. It is always darkest before the dawn. You've had some dark days in the past few weeks. Re-read your posts. You made it through them. You'll make it through this.

Be careful with the booze tonight. It is understandable that you'd wanna blow off some steam. But make sure you wife has all the keys. Driving anywhere, including the Phillips station, would not be a good idea. For a lot of reasons.

Hang in there.

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Re: Help needed........
« Reply #89 on: June 14, 2013, 08:49:00 PM »
you should call me you ass...if you cave after peeps right on your ass IDk what to tell you
Complacency sucks, one moment of it is the difference between being a user and a quitter....OIB

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Re: Help needed........
« Reply #88 on: June 14, 2013, 08:46:00 PM »
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Do I need to round up your posse for you....you will not cave it is gonna suck I wont lie but you can do this you didn't spill that in your thread if you weren't reaching out
Dude this shit is gettin real. As in real tough. My mouth is packed with seeds but I am fucking shaking. I hate to sound like a bitch but I am just keepin it real. Should I just drink more beer until I pass out?
Dude, Hang in there, I know it sucks losing your job, I just got laid off a couple weeks ago, but putting a dip isn't gonna change that.

Dude, I have gotten two DUI's- your judgment is already affected, after the your first drink it is(I hate sound like one of the idiots in the DUI classes but its the truth.)

So alcohol probably isn't the answer either. You almost through the day, hang on brother.

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Re: Help needed........
« Reply #87 on: June 14, 2013, 08:39:00 PM »
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Do I need to round up your posse for you....you will not cave it is gonna suck I wont lie but you can do this you didn't spill that in your thread if you weren't reaching out
Dude this shit is gettin real. As in real tough. My mouth is packed with seeds but I am fucking shaking. I hate to sound like a bitch but I am just keepin it real. Should I just drink more beer until I pass out?
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Re: Help needed........
« Reply #86 on: June 14, 2013, 08:25:00 PM »
Do I need to round up your posse for you....you will not cave it is gonna suck I wont lie but you can do this you didn't spill that in your thread if you weren't reaching out
Complacency sucks, one moment of it is the difference between being a user and a quitter....OIB

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Re: Help needed........
« Reply #85 on: June 14, 2013, 08:21:00 PM »
call me bastard before you even think of your next step my digits are in your inbox
Complacency sucks, one moment of it is the difference between being a user and a quitter....OIB

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Re: Help needed........
« Reply #84 on: June 14, 2013, 08:12:00 PM »
Guys today has been the roughest day of my quit to date. I lost my job today. No good reason. I am on day 26 but it feels like day 1. I have pounded 7 beers and half a pack of seeds. This has been one hellish day . I gotta survive and advance. Thats what its all about. Today is hell though.
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Re: Help needed........
« Reply #83 on: June 13, 2013, 08:42:00 PM »
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Day 25.  FREEDOM!!!!!  1/4 of the way to the HOF.  Thank you to every person that has encouraged me.  Damn it feels good to be Nic free.  The days just keep stacking up.    I quit with all of you brothers and sisters today.   Holla.
A QUARTER OF THE WAY THERE KEEP UP THE DAY ONES
Good job jayd keep up the plus ones
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Re: Help needed........
« Reply #82 on: June 13, 2013, 08:32:00 PM »
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Day 25.  FREEDOM!!!!!  1/4 of the way to the HOF.  Thank you to every person that has encouraged me.  Damn it feels good to be Nic free.  The days just keep stacking up.    I quit with all of you brothers and sisters today.  Holla.
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Re: Help needed........
« Reply #81 on: June 13, 2013, 07:58:00 PM »
Day 25. FREEDOM!!!!! 1/4 of the way to the HOF. Thank you to every person that has encouraged me. Damn it feels good to be Nic free. The days just keep stacking up. I quit with all of you brothers and sisters today. Holla.
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Re: Help needed........
« Reply #80 on: June 08, 2013, 07:42:00 PM »
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Question for the Vets out there. I have been quit for 20 days now. I feel awesome. I got this. But my question is how long will it take my gums to get completely back to normal? They dont hurt but I still have that light patchy spot where I always put the poison at. Its not as white as it was when I dipped. But any ideas how long it takes for that to completely heal and go away? Its like scar tissue your gums build up. Sounds weird but am not sure how to explain it. I have had it for probably 10 out of the 15 years I dipped.

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Re: Help needed........
« Reply #79 on: June 08, 2013, 07:26:00 PM »
Question for the Vets out there. I have been quit for 20 days now. I feel awesome. I got this. But my question is how long will it take my gums to get completely back to normal? They dont hurt but I still have that light patchy spot where I always put the poison at. Its not as white as it was when I dipped. But any ideas how long it takes for that to completely heal and go away? Its like scar tissue your gums build up. Sounds weird but am not sure how to explain it. I have had it for probably 10 out of the 15 years I dipped.

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