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Re: How we act towards cavers
« Reply #14 on: July 10, 2012, 10:25:00 PM »
Every day is day 1?

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Re: How we act towards cavers
« Reply #13 on: July 10, 2012, 10:20:00 PM »
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I have only been apart of this site for 2 weeks now. I don't like what i see when someone has the balls to admit they caved. When they come on here and admit they caved a bunch of people kick them in the nuts when they are down. They know they fucked up. Yes they feel bad. You kicking sand in their face doesn't help. We need to be supportive when someone caves. Why? Because you/I could be next. I had an uncle cave after 21 fucking years last week. It can happen to anyone at anytime. We are all brothers  sisters in the same fight. A fight against that dirty slut named nic. And if by chance you happen to fall off the horse......get back on and ride like a mofo. I am no longer counting the days of my quit. I know the day i quit. I am treating everyday like day 1. Nothing more, nothing less. Stay strong everyone. We are all in this.......TOGETHER!!!!!
You say it as if it's not a choice. We could be next? Like trip and fall and a dip or a cig fell in my mouth? It's a definite choice, always has been, always will be. I choose to quit like fuck today. But not because every day is Day 1. Today is Today.

We act that way towards cavers because they forgot, never learned or ignored the methods of quitting success practiced and preached on KTC every single day. The cavers need a refresher course in accountability and the newbs need to see accountability in action. Some call it a mob mentality, others call it internet bullying. Names such as keyboard cowboy, e-bully and dick blind are thrown around here by people that disagree with the KTC tactics. We should be supportive you say? I say we are 100% supportive, but our support is conditional. Only after the caver answers the questions, runs the gauntlet, and re-establishes his / her self as a daily roll poster does said caver receive support. That's not too much to ask and we shouldn't be given a fucking attitude in the process. What possible good does unconditional support provide when dealing with a nicotine addiction? Plus it's an established process that has been repeated time and time again. All you have to do is spend a few hours on KTC these days and you'll see how cavers get treated. Everyone knows the drill, it's never a surprise to the caver. What's wrong with a little added incentive not to fucking cave?
Excellent summary Coach.

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Re: How we act towards cavers
« Reply #12 on: July 10, 2012, 10:13:00 PM »
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I have only been apart of this site for 2 weeks now. I don't like what i see when someone has the balls to admit they caved. When they come on here and admit they caved a bunch of people kick them in the nuts when they are down. They know they fucked up. Yes they feel bad. You kicking sand in their face doesn't help. We need to be supportive when someone caves. Why? Because you/I could be next. I had an uncle cave after 21 fucking years last week. It can happen to anyone at anytime. We are all brothers  sisters in the same fight. A fight against that dirty slut named nic. And if by chance you happen to fall off the horse......get back on and ride like a mofo. I am no longer counting the days of my quit. I know the day i quit. I am treating everyday like day 1. Nothing more, nothing less. Stay strong everyone. We are all in this.......TOGETHER!!!!!
You say it as if it's not a choice. We could be next? Like trip and fall and a dip or a cig fell in my mouth? It's a definite choice, always has been, always will be. I choose to quit like fuck today. But not because every day is Day 1. Today is Today.

We act that way towards cavers because they forgot, never learned or ignored the methods of quitting success practiced and preached on KTC every single day. The cavers need a refresher course in accountability and the newbs need to see accountability in action. Some call it a mob mentality, others call it internet bullying. Names such as keyboard cowboy, e-bully and dick blind are thrown around here by people that disagree with the KTC tactics. We should be supportive you say? I say we are 100% supportive, but our support is conditional. Only after the caver answers the questions, runs the gauntlet, and re-establishes his / her self as a daily roll poster does said caver receive support. That's not too much to ask and we shouldn't be given a fucking attitude in the process. What possible good does unconditional support provide when dealing with a nicotine addiction? Plus it's an established process that has been repeated time and time again. All you have to do is spend a few hours on KTC these days and you'll see how cavers get treated. Everyone knows the drill, it's never a surprise to the caver. What's wrong with a little added incentive not to fucking cave?
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Re: How we act towards cavers
« Reply #11 on: July 10, 2012, 09:28:00 PM »
Quote from: Ty#7
I have only been apart of this site for 2 weeks now. I don't like what i see when someone has the balls to admit they caved. When they come on here and admit they caved a bunch of people kick them in the nuts when they are down. They know they fucked up. Yes they feel bad. You kicking sand in their face doesn't help. We need to be supportive when someone caves. Why? Because you/I could be next. I had an uncle cave after 21 fucking years last week. It can happen to anyone at anytime. We are all brothers  sisters in the same fight. A fight against that dirty slut named nic. And if by chance you happen to fall off the horse......get back on and ride like a mofo. I am no longer counting the days of my quit. I know the day i quit. I am treating everyday like day 1. Nothing more, nothing less. Stay strong everyone. We are all in this.......TOGETHER!!!!!
Amen Ty.... treat everyday like it's day 1!
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Re: How we act towards cavers
« Reply #10 on: July 10, 2012, 09:25:00 PM »
I have only been apart of this site for 2 weeks now. I don't like what i see when someone has the balls to admit they caved. When they come on here and admit they caved a bunch of people kick them in the nuts when they are down. They know they fucked up. Yes they feel bad. You kicking sand in their face doesn't help. We need to be supportive when someone caves. Why? Because you/I could be next. I had an uncle cave after 21 fucking years last week. It can happen to anyone at anytime. We are all brothers  sisters in the same fight. A fight against that dirty slut named nic. And if by chance you happen to fall off the horse......get back on and ride like a mofo. I am no longer counting the days of my quit. I know the day i quit. I am treating everyday like day 1. Nothing more, nothing less. Stay strong everyone. We are all in this.......TOGETHER!!!!!
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Re: How we act towards cavers
« Reply #9 on: July 05, 2012, 09:43:00 PM »
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8 days ago i looked into the eyes of the beast and said FUCK YOU. I am done with Skoal. I told my uncle who has been dip free for 21 yrs how hard it was just during those 1st few days. He told me "i never said it would be easy, i said it would be worth it"  I'm 33 yrs old and have dipped skoal straight for 13 yrs. Can a day. I thought it was the cool thing to do. I thought all college baseball players were supposed to do it. I thought wrong. The hardest part for me is I own a liquor store. Quitting while having to look at it all day long, selling it, ordering it, touching it. It's not gonna be easy......it's gonna be worth it. GAME ON MUTHAFUCKA
Ty#7.. I agree with Bruce.. I like your attitude.. A 20 year habit.. this is a very cunning foe.. Have you tried to quit before?? My guess is yes.. Then you found this site.. I have tried 100s of times to quit.. never worked til I took their advice here.. I'm 25 days in now.. It has been worth it.. Hang Tough.. Gooch
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Re: How we act towards cavers
« Reply #8 on: July 05, 2012, 06:53:00 PM »
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8 days ago i looked into the eyes of the beast and said FUCK YOU. I am done with Skoal. I told my uncle who has been dip free for 21 yrs how hard it was just during those 1st few days. He told me "i never said it would be easy, i said it would be worth it"  I'm 33 yrs old and have dipped skoal straight for 13 yrs. Can a day. I thought it was the cool thing to do. I thought all college baseball players were supposed to do it. I thought wrong. The hardest part for me is I own a liquor store. Quitting while having to look at it all day long, selling it, ordering it, touching it. It's not gonna be easy......it's gonna be worth it. GAME ON MUTHAFUCKA
Ty#7.. I agree with Bruce.. I like your attitude.. A 20 year habit.. this is a very cunning foe.. Have you tried to quit before?? My guess is yes.. Then you found this site.. I have tried 100s of times to quit.. never worked til I took their advice here.. I'm 25 days in now.. It has been worth it.. Hang Tough.. Gooch
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Re: How we act towards cavers
« Reply #7 on: July 05, 2012, 06:44:00 PM »
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8 days ago i looked into the eyes of the beast and said FUCK YOU. I am done with Skoal. I told my uncle who has been dip free for 21 yrs how hard it was just during those 1st few days. He told me "i never said it would be easy, i said it would be worth it"  I'm 33 yrs old and have dipped skoal straight for 13 yrs. Can a day. I thought it was the cool thing to do. I thought all college baseball players were supposed to do it. I thought wrong. The hardest part for me is I own a liquor store. Quitting while having to look at it all day long, selling it, ordering it, touching it. It's not gonna be easy......it's gonna be worth it. GAME ON MUTHAFUCKA
Ty#7.. I agree with Bruce.. I like your attitude.. A 20 year habit.. this is a very cunning foe.. Have you tried to quit before?? My guess is yes.. Then you found this site.. I have tried 100s of times to quit.. never worked til I took their advice here.. I'm 25 days in now.. It has been worth it.. Hang Tough.. Gooch
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Re: How we act towards cavers
« Reply #6 on: July 05, 2012, 06:34:00 PM »
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8 days ago i looked into the eyes of the beast and said FUCK YOU. I am done with Skoal. I told my uncle who has been dip free for 21 yrs how hard it was just during those 1st few days. He told me "i never said it would be easy, i said it would be worth it"  I'm 33 yrs old and have dipped skoal straight for 13 yrs. Can a day. I thought it was the cool thing to do. I thought all college baseball players were supposed to do it. I thought wrong. The hardest part for me is I own a liquor store. Quitting while having to look at it all day long, selling it, ordering it, touching it. It's not gonna be easy......it's gonna be worth it. GAME ON MUTHAFUCKA
Ty#7.. I agree with Bruce.. I like your attitude.. A 20 year habit.. this is a very cunning foe.. Have you tried to quit before?? My guess is yes.. Then you found this site.. I have tried 100s of times to quit.. never worked til I took their advice here.. I'm 25 days in now.. It has been worth it.. Hang Tough.. Gooch

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Re: How we act towards cavers
« Reply #5 on: July 05, 2012, 04:32:00 PM »
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8 days ago i looked into the eyes of the beast and said FUCK YOU. I am done with Skoal. I told my uncle who has been dip free for 21 yrs how hard it was just during those 1st few days. He told me "i never said it would be easy, i said it would be worth it"  I'm 33 yrs old and have dipped skoal straight for 13 yrs. Can a day. I thought it was the cool thing to do. I thought all college baseball players were supposed to do it. I thought wrong. The hardest part for me is I own a liquor store. Quitting while having to look at it all day long, selling it, ordering it, touching it. It's not gonna be easy......it's gonna be worth it. GAME ON MUTHAFUCKA
The game starts when you post Roll Call bro.
Yea buddy, I'm liking the attitude already!! First thing is first, Loot is right..

Head over to your new home October'12 and post roll. We post roll everyday! It is giving your word to your quit brothers that you will not use any form of nic THAT DAY! One day at a time brother, that is how we quit here.

Go here to learn how to post roll

This is a proven system so don't fuck with it. We take posting roll EVERYDAY very seriously. It's the accountability part that makes this site what it is. The other, in this quitter's opinion, the most important part is the brotherhood. So reach out to your quit brothers and get all the numbers you can gather. Use those numbers!! Check your inbox, you have one already.

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Re: How we act towards cavers
« Reply #4 on: July 05, 2012, 04:27:00 PM »
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8 days ago i looked into the eyes of the beast and said FUCK YOU. I am done with Skoal. I told my uncle who has been dip free for 21 yrs how hard it was just during those 1st few days. He told me "i never said it would be easy, i said it would be worth it" I'm 33 yrs old and have dipped skoal straight for 13 yrs. Can a day. I thought it was the cool thing to do. I thought all college baseball players were supposed to do it. I thought wrong. The hardest part for me is I own a liquor store. Quitting while having to look at it all day long, selling it, ordering it, touching it. It's not gonna be easy......it's gonna be worth it. GAME ON MUTHAFUCKA
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Re: How we act towards cavers
« Reply #3 on: July 05, 2012, 04:06:00 PM »
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The hardest part for me is I own a liquor store. Quitting while having to look at it all day long, selling it, ordering it, touching it. It's not gonna be easy......it's gonna be worth it.
I'd have a quick sale, get rid of what I had on hand, buy fake products and take the hit on my profits. Perfect opportunity to hand out KTC cards and urge people to quit.

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Re: How we act towards cavers
« Reply #2 on: July 05, 2012, 03:56:00 PM »
Good going as we all tackle this and bury it deep without turning back.

was 23+ years here and just said no more, so I put it in the coffin and each day put another nail in it.

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How we act towards cavers
« on: July 05, 2012, 03:51:00 PM »
8 days ago i looked into the eyes of the beast and said FUCK YOU. I am done with Skoal. I told my uncle who has been dip free for 21 yrs how hard it was just during those 1st few days. He told me "i never said it would be easy, i said it would be worth it" I'm 33 yrs old and have dipped skoal straight for 13 yrs. Can a day. I thought it was the cool thing to do. I thought all college baseball players were supposed to do it. I thought wrong. The hardest part for me is I own a liquor store. Quitting while having to look at it all day long, selling it, ordering it, touching it. It's not gonna be easy......it's gonna be worth it. GAME ON MUTHAFUCKA
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