Along with the others --- Tomorrow is day 1

[Raider]

This is what, your 3rd or 4th failure? Go fuck yourself Nate. If your still clean, which I doubt, then get back on roll.

[MonsterMedic]

No post in 4 days? Glad you're back for good this time. Fuck you.

[Chargers]

The biggness of my fuck up is sinking in. I'm starting to see the truth of what smeds said. I'm not going back to that hell. Something interesting I read on the site a couple days ago was to treat any previous attempts as 'attempts' and this is my QUIT. for some reason that helps dramatically because it keeps my ego in check.

Part of the reason I'm posting this is I need personal accountability and want to help others with that too. I know I fucked over my two previous quit groups and I know I fucked over the men who I texted daily for many months. If anyone is willing to help, though, I could really use it. PM me your number, if you're up for a daily text of accountability.

You don't need accountability.... we gave you that... you need to get your head on straight or get some professional help. You need to get your crap straight. We more than met you half way and you pooped on it.

Nate...you can do this.

People are afraid of failures, but only you can make sure nothing like that happens again. You may never get forgiveness from some people, but be the leader and quitter you need to be to sTay quit. It seems crazy, but you need to know that failure is not an option.

Put one foot in front of the other. Keep moving forward. Quit will take care of itself one step at a time if you do that. Ultimately, you know that everybody here is and will be looking to keep you quit. We expect perfection because perfection is so easily attained. I had to learn that once too, and one of the greatest moments I had in my quit was realizing this moment is all I have. Don't ask for numbers. Give them. Be a friend. Make people want to be there for you. You can do this man, but you have to want it more than anything right now.

I got your back. Everybody deserves to be quit.

Nate I'm glad you back. You seem like you want to quit and you seem humble enough to listen to everyone's advice and criticisms. I'm not going to bash you because it doesn't work with you. Others have bashed you yet you subsequently caved. I would like to try a different approach.

Like Wastepanel said, "We expect perfection." We expect perfection because perfection is required. You know you can't stop. You've stopped for approximately 340 days in the past year but you have also still dipped in the last year. That's addiction my friend. It sleeps inside us all until WE chose to let it out. I don't know how you are going to do it but you need to burn your boats and make quitting as important to you as breathing oxygen.

Don't let June 2015 down. These guys are struggling right now and the last thing they need is to see a guy who has stopped for 340 days in the last year half ass his quit. Do whatever they want you to do as a sign of your good faith. I'm rooting for you.

[wastepanel]

The biggness of my fuck up is sinking in. I'm starting to see the truth of what smeds said. I'm not going back to that hell. Something interesting I read on the site a couple days ago was to treat any previous attempts as 'attempts' and this is my QUIT. for some reason that helps dramatically because it keeps my ego in check.

Part of the reason I'm posting this is I need personal accountability and want to help others with that too. I know I fucked over my two previous quit groups and I know I fucked over the men who I texted daily for many months. If anyone is willing to help, though, I could really use it. PM me your number, if you're up for a daily text of accountability.

You don't need accountability.... we gave you that... you need to get your head on straight or get some professional help. You need to get your crap straight. We more than met you half way and you pooped on it.

Nate...you can do this.

People are afraid of failures, but only you can make sure nothing like that happens again. You may never get forgiveness from some people, but be the leader and quitter you need to be to sTay quit. It seems crazy, but you need to know that failure is not an option.

Put one foot in front of the other. Keep moving forward. Quit will take care of itself one step at a time if you do that. Ultimately, you know that everybody here is and will be looking to keep you quit. We expect perfection because perfection is so easily attained. I had to learn that once too, and one of the greatest moments I had in my quit was realizing this moment is all I have. Don't ask for numbers. Give them. Be a friend. Make people want to be there for you. You can do this man, but you have to want it more than anything right now.

I got your back. Everybody deserves to be quit.

[Medicff]

The biggness of my fuck up is sinking in. I'm starting to see the truth of what smeds said. I'm not going back to that hell. Something interesting I read on the site a couple days ago was to treat any previous attempts as 'attempts' and this is my QUIT. for some reason that helps dramatically because it keeps my ego in check.

Part of the reason I'm posting this is I need personal accountability and want to help others with that too. I know I fucked over my two previous quit groups and I know I fucked over the men who I texted daily for many months. If anyone is willing to help, though, I could really use it. PM me your number, if you're up for a daily text of accountability.

You don't need accountability.... we gave you that... you need to get your head on straight or get some professional help. You need to get your crap straight. We more than met you half way and you pooped on it.

[I'm done with chew]

The biggness of my fuck up is sinking in. I'm starting to see the truth of what smeds said. I'm not going back to that hell. Something interesting I read on the site a couple days ago was to treat any previous attempts as 'attempts' and this is my QUIT. for some reason that helps dramatically because it keeps my ego in check.

Part of the reason I'm posting this is I need personal accountability and want to help others with that too. I know I fucked over my two previous quit groups and I know I fucked over the men who I texted daily for many months. If anyone is willing to help, though, I could really use it. PM me your number, if you're up for a daily text of accountability.

What good does a daily text with you do? Seriously? I've been reading up on you in June and your "daily texts" don't seem to amount to much. Or at least it's easily discarded by you. Why would us newer guys want to become invested in someone we weren't sure would stay quit with us? You seem to flow with the wind bro. And that makes you a bad investment. good luck Sarcasm selling that bill of goods.

[natemcpherson]

The biggness of my fuck up is sinking in. I'm starting to see the truth of what smeds said. I'm not going back to that hell. Something interesting I read on the site a couple days ago was to treat any previous attempts as 'attempts' and this is my QUIT. for some reason that helps dramatically because it keeps my ego in check.

Part of the reason I'm posting this is I need personal accountability and want to help others with that too. I know I fucked over my two previous quit groups and I know I fucked over the men who I texted daily for many months. If anyone is willing to help, though, I could really use it. PM me your number, if you're up for a daily text of accountability.

[Medicff]

I didn't cave "at" anyone.

Dude ... 'facepalm''

Of course you did. You fucked all of your brothers over in August (after earlier doing it in June '14). Once you start to realize that you caved "at" every last one of us here, maybe you'll start to put a little more weight into your promise. I get ... wait ... I "see" that you're OK with fucking yourself over, that's been shown. Not recognizing how you have fucked others over tells me you still don't get it.

Asking for "all the help you can get" starts with helping yourself get out of your own fucking way.

What smeds said is dead on.

You joined under the premise we count on you and vice versa. Fool me once shame on you fool me twice shame on US.

Get your head on right. Be quit.

[worktowin]

I didn't cave "at" anyone.

Dude ... 'facepalm''

Of course you did. You fucked all of your brothers over in August (after earlier doing it in June '14). Once you start to realize that you caved "at" every last one of us here, maybe you'll start to put a little more weight into your promise. I get ... wait ... I "see" that you're OK with fucking yourself over, that's been shown. Not recognizing how you have fucked others over tells me you still don't get it.

Asking for "all the help you can get" starts with helping yourself get out of your own fucking way.

^^^ this dude gets it. You'd do well to heed his wisdom. He knows how to quit.

[Maxjohnson]

I just read through all of this Bullshit. The only thing I picked up on that no one has mentioned yet is that dumb shit (Nate) called all of his previous excursions "quits" when we all know if you truly drink the kool aid they are only periods that you stopped using. Dumb shit you need to realize you didn't quit shit. You only stopped using for a bit. You have a looong road ahead to make this right with all the bad ass quitters that supported you. Oh wait maybe you can use that for your next cave excuse.

This guy doesn't get "it"

[Smeds]

I didn't cave "at" anyone.

Dude ... 'facepalm''

Of course you did. You fucked all of your brothers over in August (after earlier doing it in June '14). Once you start to realize that you caved "at" every last one of us here, maybe you'll start to put a little more weight into your promise. I get ... wait ... I "see" that you're OK with fucking yourself over, that's been shown. Not recognizing how you have fucked others over tells me you still don't get it.

Asking for "all the help you can get" starts with helping yourself get out of your own fucking way.

[natemcpherson]

There's nothing more I can say. I'm quit today. I can use all the help I can get. I didn't cave "at" anyone. I stopped picking up the tools. Not going to justify anything though. I owned it. Not concerned if it meets anyone's qualifications. I'm here to quit. Nicotine ruins my life.

[TBow817]

This is my group and these are my brothers....why should I have enough faith in what you have been saying? You have shown now that your word means less than your love of the nic, so why do I risk putting my trust, faith, and work into helping you off the bitch? I think you really need to take a step back and decide just how badly you want to quit because I'm having a very hard time believing this is a permanent quit for you.

[Doc2quit4good]

I pm'ed you this a little while ago but I think you should think about it more... It is a big responsibility to quit dipping and honoring your word, and it is an even greater responsibility when you are quitting with others. Don't even think about coming back here without fully committing this time to go the whole way, and not drop off to take a dip 270 days down the road from here...... Then post another Day 1 when you get tired of dipping.....

[basshaug]

One more thing Nate. The fact you went and humped a can for a month while figuring your shit out is proof enough that EnC-dad is spot on. You still love nicotine so much that you let her help guide your hand when figuring out what to say to all of your brothers, whom you cast aside for an opportunity to cop out like a pussy. You have nicotine so high on a pedestal and you bow down to it everyday. You are pretending to turn your head, but you can't help it. You romanticize about it and put it up on a pedestal so you can't help but look up to it. In the eyes of all of these bad ass quitters who have responded today, nicotine's pedestal is in ruins.

You should have grabbed ahold of any one of the numerous hands extended to you twice before. We could have pulled you up. You had the opportunity for success and you didn't grab it.

You weaken this place with your lies. I won't empower you to weaken it any further. Don't cheapen what we do here by continually showing off your shell of a real quit.