I'm dying here

[FMBM707]

I didn't have a chew for like 4 days. Then the wife and I got into a argument and just like that, I ran to get a can. Now I'm back at square one, still sitting here with a can, hoping like hell she doesn't figure out that I started again, and wishing I didn't. Any advise for that?

FLUSH that fucking can and quit man- you can do this!

[ForMyFamily]

Now my 19 year old son chews, she blames me for that. I keep telling him not to do it, but you know how that goes. So his health is on my hands now too.

[ForMyFamily]

I didn't have a chew for like 4 days. Then the wife and I got into a argument and just like that, I ran to get a can. Now I'm back at square one, still sitting here with a can, hoping like hell she doesn't figure out that I started again, and wishing I didn't. Any advise for that?

[Raider]

this is for the wife to check out

http://www.killthecan.org/community/spousal-support/

[Jubs]

You can also jump into Live Chat, I'm in there with another quitter if you'd like to chat, brother. Use it as an aid if you want, I'm in there a bunch.

YOU can do this and YOU will do this. No trying here, only doing. Just know you're not alone in this quit. Let's do this.

[Raider]

So, how do you post roll?

You call me. Check your Inbox, Upper right. I don't just give my number out to anyone

Here is a starting point

forum/55560/

That explains it all. If you choose to decide to quit you will be a member of the January 2015 family, yes I said family because that's what we are here. Jan 2015 is the month that you will hit your 100 day mark.

[Raider]

So, how do you post roll?

You call me. Check your Inbox, Upper right. I don't just give my number out to anyone

[ForMyFamily]

So, how do you post roll?

[FMBM707]

Raider is right on. You have to quit for yourself. It's the only way it works. Read, read and then read more on this site. Read intros, read words of wisdom, read TOM Kern Story.

FLUSH all the nicotine you have down the toilet and QUIT for yourself. It's worth it.

When you're ready to quit send me a PM- you post roll and I'll support. We are all nicotine addicts here but we are all QUIT. Quit now, quit hard, quit right.

You can do it if you want it. QUIT ON!

[Raider]

Look to the upper right of your screen. I sent you my digits (phone number) Its in your Inbox

[Raider]

Quitting for anyone else but yourself is a setup for failure. You will just resent others who are trying to get you to stop. You gotta do it for yourself. When you decide it is for you, get back here and learn the tricks of the trade. At that time tell your wife that there is a spousal support section on here so she can find out what kind of hell you will be going through. Is quitting easy, Nope. Is it worth it, HELL YES!!!!! I dipped for about 23 years and am 49 years old. If I can do it, you can do it.

By the way. We don't wish or hope here. We quit!!! We do it daily

[ForMyFamily]

I am trying to quit. I've chewed since I was 13, I'm now 45. My wife tells me I am weak, and that I must not love my family because I can't (won't) quit. I don't know what to do. I wish I was strong and able to quit. Please help. I don't know much about this site, but don't know where else to turn. I spent 22 years in the Army and have grown to make excuses for not quitting, probably common for most. I continually feel like my body is shutting down, as if cancer is spreading through me, but I never seem to bring myself to put the stuff down. I guess she's right.