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Re: Gelas Has Fallen
« Reply #73 on: January 03, 2011, 04:14:00 PM »
You had a lot of questions and not sure they all got answered.

One, should you call in sick when you quit? Well, you will be edgy - often refered to as the rage. Your concentration will be compromised - often refered to as the fog. However, you will need as many things as possible to keep you occupied. It is up to you whether you work or not. Personally, I say yes as long as you remember you will have long periods of time in the first week or ten days where you get nothing done.

Lozenges....hmmmmmmmm....there are only two real rules on this site. First, don't be a troll. Second, don't post roll with your group if you are consuming nicotine in any form. However, this does NOT mean that you are not welcome on the site. By all means post in your introduction thread and read everything on this site- hell I encourage you to spend a lot of time on this site reading and watching. There is a lot of wisdom to be found here.

Finally, waiting until friday. Couple of thoughts on this. First, I set a date when I quit: December 10, 2010. Haven't chewed since. I set that date in October sometime. Second, setting that date didn't make it any easier than if I had just quit when I set my date. In fact, it caused more anxiety and consternation. It's like waiting to jump of the cliff into the water or get out of your warm sleeping bag and dry tent on a cold and rainy morning. You know it is going to suck and but it will suck now and it will suck later. However, once you get up, get moving around, stoke the fire and make some coffee you will start feeling better. Same thing here. The sooner you quit, the sooner you get through the suck.

I chewed for 26 years and "managed" to quit. It was because of all these folks you see posting on this thread and hundreds more like them. It was because without fail, I made my promise to not use nicotine everyday. You can do this. Name is Terry. You will find me around the boards but EVERY DAY in March '10. Feel free to PM me any questions and if you need a phone number just ask.

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Re: Gelas Has Fallen
« Reply #72 on: January 03, 2011, 04:14:00 PM »
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Fine.  I posted.  I'm going to collect all the nicotine.
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Re: Gelas Has Fallen
« Reply #71 on: January 03, 2011, 04:12:00 PM »
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Fine. I posted. I'm going to collect all the nicotine.
'clap' 'clap' 'clap'
Fuck em all and fucking no regrets.

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Re: Gelas Has Fallen
« Reply #70 on: January 03, 2011, 04:12:00 PM »
That is what I like to see !!! Dump all that shit in the toilet and flush it.

Do not leave ANY in the house where you can get to it. You know as well as I do at 0200 you will be picking cans out of the trash. Get rid of it and embrace the suck.

You can do this.. we are proof !!

Nicely done...

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Re: Gelas Has Fallen
« Reply #69 on: January 03, 2011, 04:09:00 PM »
Fine. I posted. I'm going to collect all the nicotine.
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Re: Gelas Has Fallen
« Reply #68 on: January 03, 2011, 03:59:00 PM »
Do it today. Waiting is a mistake.

Dump your shit and lets get you quit !!

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Re: Gelas Has Fallen
« Reply #67 on: January 03, 2011, 03:54:00 PM »
Look at this thread. 65 posts in under three hours. You can't buy support like this. Many many years of experience all telling you the same thing. This site works.

We can point you to the right path, you must walk it.

If you do return on Friday and post a day one, you will be the second one to do it that I have seen in almost three years. Long odds. Your choice.

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Re: Gelas Has Fallen
« Reply #66 on: January 03, 2011, 03:50:00 PM »
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Man you fucking people are relentless. I already said I'm a fucking pussy and that I'm too fucking weak to quit now. I don't want to quit now. I want to quit Friday, so I can be alone and miserable all fucking weekend.
If you really want to quit, you will NEVER be alone again. We're here. 24/7. That's how we roll.

Are you man enough?
What is your major malfunction?!?!?!?!

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Re: Gelas Has Fallen
« Reply #65 on: January 03, 2011, 03:46:00 PM »
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You all make very good points, and I am definitely not going to dip.  In fact, I agree with what you are saying for the most part. But, I work with the public and I'd like to have the worst three days of my withdrawal occur on the weekend, where kids aren't wondering why Mr. M is shaky and sweating profusely, or whatever happens. 

I can deal with the withdrawal, I'm just not fucking ready right now.  I'm ready to do it Friday, because that's the fucking day I picked for ME.

Is that totally fucking unreasonable???
You can wait 'til Friday.

However, how can you turn your back on this kind of support?

You are fucking up by waiting...but you can't see that.

What you CAN see maybe...is that wrinkly sack between your legs. Reach down and feel it and make sure it's still there. Once confirmed, look in the mirror and tell your demons to FUCK OFF!...then, go post roll doosh.
Go ahead and wait 'cause you're afraid of upsetting some people.

Just know the NEXT dip you take is going to give you cancer.

Enjoy.

OR, you can quit right fucking now, and kick the Nic Bitch in the cunt.

Your move dood.
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Re: Gelas Has Fallen
« Reply #64 on: January 03, 2011, 03:44:00 PM »
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You all make very good points, and I am definitely not going to dip. In fact, I agree with what you are saying for the most part. But, I work with the public and I'd like to have the worst three days of my withdrawal occur on the weekend, where kids aren't wondering why Mr. M is shaky and sweating profusely, or whatever happens.

I can deal with the withdrawal, I'm just not fucking ready right now. I'm ready to do it Friday, because that's the fucking day I picked for ME.

Is that totally fucking unreasonable???
You can wait 'til Friday.

However, how can you turn your back on this kind of support?

You are fucking up by waiting...but you can't see that.

What you CAN see maybe...is that wrinkly sack between your legs. Reach down and feel it and make sure it's still there. Once confirmed, look in the mirror and tell your demons to FUCK OFF!...then, go post roll doosh.

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Re: Gelas Has Fallen
« Reply #63 on: January 03, 2011, 03:43:00 PM »
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You all make very good points, and I am definitely not going to dip.  In fact, I agree with what you are saying for the most part. But, I work with the public and I'd like to have the worst three days of my withdrawal occur on the weekend, where kids aren't wondering why Mr. M is shaky and sweating profusely, or whatever happens. 

I can deal with the withdrawal, I'm just not fucking ready right now.  I'm ready to do it Friday, because that's the fucking day I picked for ME.

Is that totally fucking unreasonable???
yes 'Crazy'
yes!! seconded
There will be days after the first 3 where you are an asshole with the shakes and sweats. What are you going to do then?

Damn, another excuse taken away.

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Re: Gelas Has Fallen
« Reply #62 on: January 03, 2011, 03:40:00 PM »
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You all make very good points, and I am definitely not going to dip. In fact, I agree with what you are saying for the most part. But, I work with the public and I'd like to have the worst three days of my withdrawal occur on the weekend, where kids aren't wondering why Mr. M is shaky and sweating profusely, or whatever happens.

I can deal with the withdrawal, I'm just not fucking ready right now. I'm ready to do it Friday, because that's the fucking day I picked for ME.

Is that totally fucking unreasonable???
One more thing, the first 3 days are the suck but the cravings and the rage do not go away after this weekend. So your work with the "public" will still have an infulence on you next week. Hopefully that will not make you cave and waste your weekend of quit.

If you want to quit, quit but dont make up a lame ass excuse when you cave. The "public" can be harsh but cancer fuckin kills.

now where is my popcorn.......
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Re: Gelas Has Fallen
« Reply #61 on: January 03, 2011, 03:38:00 PM »
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You all make very good points, and I am definitely not going to dip. In fact, I agree with what you are saying for the most part. But, I work with the public and I'd like to have the worst three days of my withdrawal occur on the weekend, where kids aren't wondering why Mr. M is shaky and sweating profusely, or whatever happens.

I can deal with the withdrawal, I'm just not fucking ready right now. I'm ready to do it Friday, because that's the fucking day I picked for ME.

Is that totally fucking unreasonable???
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Re: Gelas Has Fallen
« Reply #60 on: January 03, 2011, 03:37:00 PM »
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Man you fucking people are relentless.  I already said I'm a fucking pussy and that  I'm too fucking weak to quit now.  I don't want to quit now.  I want to quit Friday, so I can be alone and miserable all fucking weekend.
Gelas,

do you know why these guys are like this believe it or not we do care about you and want you to quit now and not friday. We have all been there and we all know tomorrow never comes. We know how powerful the nic bitch is and some solid ass quitters are telling you to quit now. I promise you will be glad you did. Email me if yolu need anything.


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Re: Gelas Has Fallen
« Reply #59 on: January 03, 2011, 03:32:00 PM »
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Man you fucking people are relentless. I already said I'm a fucking pussy and that I'm too fucking weak to quit now. I don't want to quit now. I want to quit Friday, so I can be alone and miserable all fucking weekend.
Gelas,

do you know why these guys are like this believe it or not we do care about you and want you to quit now and not friday. We have all been there and we all know tomorrow never comes. We know how powerful the nic bitch is and some solid ass quitters are telling you to quit now. I promise you will be glad you did. Email me if yolu need anything.


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