Great Day To Quit Hard!

[golfpro9696]

Mixed emotions reading this thread. I typically mind my own business in these situations because I'm not a big fan of confrontation or drama. I'm not looking to stir up a big pile a shit here either but I tend to fall towards giving TFD some room and leverage here. I don't think he's full of shit. I think he needs some friends right now.

He's taken the ass kicking for caving; granted, it hasn't been as graceful or humble as it could have been but I suppose it's pretty easy to get defensive when you're reading words on the internet....there's no emotion or inflection; sometimes we read things the wrong way  lose our shit. I'm not happy that he's no longer a March Ironman. I would hope that's the most disappointing thing to him as well, because our group is fucking awesome. Our group has dropped from 100+ to 22 now as March closes in on the 2nd floor..... it sucks but it's a part of addiction.

I don't know the whole story here, but I do know that if I was working so far out in BFE that I didn't have the internet or cell service, I'd have a really hard time staying quit, especially if I felt like the rest of my life was spiraling into the shitter at the same time. I'm not condoning the cave.

Hell, I'm trying not to ramble and thread jack but the bottom line, TFD, is stay fucking quit.

I'm pretty sure you've got my digits and you've got others in March too. Reach out. Some might tell you to pound sand, but I won't. As long as you promise me that you'll sooner go stick your dick in a pmsing polar bear than stick a dip in your lip, we're good.

It's not the KTC way, but if it's the best you can do, then it's the fucking best you can do. The objective here is to quit dipping and to stay quit.

[slinger]

It is nice to hear all your kind words. But not one of you read anything or know the full story. But easy for you to blast everyone. We know you all are perfect. I work and am working in an area of Northern Canada that has no air waves and I am gone for a month at a time. But hey you all knew that right! Cause you are all so interested.

No tfd, we WERE interested. You reached HOF and absolutely know how things work around here. I look at the previous posts on your profile and there is not one explaining what happened besides that evasive poetic ramble. You avoided owning up to your fuck up and when people wanted answers, you cowered in the shadows.

In response to your massive posting gaps, I don't see one post stating "I'm not going to be able to post frequently because of work". The only thing close to it is one roll call shortly after your return telling people you were on a rig and to fuck off.

The people calling you out are not in the wrong in this situation. To be accepted in this house you have to follow the rules. Accept the repercussions instead of antagonizing those who want answers. You deserve backlash, every one of us has struggles and you gave in. This will not go away.

Give in to the demands of the quit family or quietly fuck off please. This is a place for helping people, while your attitude and approach right now are a plague.

You work somewhere where there is no cell towers or internet? I call bull shit. Quit having a pitty party you caving d-bag. Get on board or go away.

I have seen this so many times. Someone caves, gets shit on for caving....then does one of two things...
1. Falls on his sword, gives his three reasons then comes back harder and stronger (the majority of the big time posters on this site have caved at one point in their quit, check their threads if you don't believe me)
2. Tells everyone to fuck off then fades away. Blaming everyone else for making them leave the site. This happens way more often. I call this the cowards way out.

Which way are you going to fall?

I'm guessing it's gonna be option #2.

[Dagranger]

It is nice to hear all your kind words. But not one of you read anything or know the full story. But easy for you to blast everyone. We know you all are perfect. I work and am working in an area of Northern Canada that has no air waves and I am gone for a month at a time. But hey you all knew that right! Cause you are all so interested.

No tfd, we WERE interested. You reached HOF and absolutely know how things work around here. I look at the previous posts on your profile and there is not one explaining what happened besides that evasive poetic ramble. You avoided owning up to your fuck up and when people wanted answers, you cowered in the shadows.

In response to your massive posting gaps, I don't see one post stating "I'm not going to be able to post frequently because of work". The only thing close to it is one roll call shortly after your return telling people you were on a rig and to fuck off.

The people calling you out are not in the wrong in this situation. To be accepted in this house you have to follow the rules. Accept the repercussions instead of antagonizing those who want answers. You deserve backlash, every one of us has struggles and you gave in. This will not go away.

Give in to the demands of the quit family or quietly fuck off please. This is a place for helping people, while your attitude and approach right now are a plague.

You work somewhere where there is no cell towers or internet? I call bull shit. Quit having a pitty party you caving d-bag. Get on board or go away.

I have seen this so many times. Someone caves, gets shit on for caving....then does one of two things...
1. Falls on his sword, gives his three reasons then comes back harder and stronger (the majority of the big time posters on this site have caved at one point in their quit, check their threads if you don't believe me)
2. Tells everyone to fuck off then fades away. Blaming everyone else for making them leave the site. This happens way more often. I call this the cowards way out.

Which way are you going to fall?

[Winter Green]

It is nice to hear all your kind words. But not one of you read anything or know the full story. But easy for you to blast everyone. We know you all are perfect. I work and am working in an area of Northern Canada that has no air waves and I am gone for a month at a time. But hey you all knew that right! Cause you are all so interested.

No tfd, we WERE interested. You reached HOF and absolutely know how things work around here. I look at the previous posts on your profile and there is not one explaining what happened besides that evasive poetic ramble. You avoided owning up to your fuck up and when people wanted answers, you cowered in the shadows.

In response to your massive posting gaps, I don't see one post stating "I'm not going to be able to post frequently because of work". The only thing close to it is one roll call shortly after your return telling people you were on a rig and to fuck off.

The people calling you out are not in the wrong in this situation. To be accepted in this house you have to follow the rules. Accept the repercussions instead of antagonizing those who want answers. You deserve backlash, every one of us has struggles and you gave in. This will not go away.

Give in to the demands of the quit family or quietly fuck off please. This is a place for helping people, while your attitude and approach right now are a plague.

You work somewhere where there is no cell towers or internet? I call bull shit. Quit having a pitty party you caving d-bag. Get on board or go away.

[Knockout]

It is nice to hear all your kind words. But not one of you read anything or know the full story. But easy for you to blast everyone. We know you all are perfect. I work and am working in an area of Northern Canada that has no air waves and I am gone for a month at a time. But hey you all knew that right! Cause you are all so interested.

No tfd, we WERE interested. You reached HOF and absolutely know how things work around here. I look at the previous posts on your profile and there is not one explaining what happened besides that evasive poetic ramble. You avoided owning up to your fuck up and when people wanted answers, you cowered in the shadows.

In response to your massive posting gaps, I don't see one post stating "I'm not going to be able to post frequently because of work". The only thing close to it is one roll call shortly after your return telling people you were on a rig and to fuck off.

The people calling you out are not in the wrong in this situation. To be accepted in this house you have to follow the rules. Accept the repercussions instead of antagonizing those who want answers. You deserve backlash, every one of us has struggles and you gave in. This will not go away.

Give in to the demands of the quit family or quietly fuck off please. This is a place for helping people, while your attitude and approach right now are a plague.

[twofingerdipper]

Such educated reply's. I think some of you might have gone to school. You can all talk your bullshit, and you can all try to drink your troubles away. You are just trading one addiction for another. And this is my intro. I know what I have done. You don't like the intro don't read it. And I will bring the Lord into it, maybe you should understand the Bible and you will understand the quotes from it.

I am educated.. And I haven't berated you.. we are friends.. I thought.. can you tell me what happened? What nullified all the hours we spent in chat?

I understand we are all fallible.. there has to be a better excuse than that you are human..

Well when your life as you know it falls apart and everything in it that is what happens. Life fell apart, bought a dip cause life fell apart, but I'm quit, I will quit here or alone. I'm quite even if most of you don't believe that!

[thewolfe]

It is nice to hear all your kind words. But not one of you read anything or know the full story. But easy for you to blast everyone. We know you all are perfect. I work and am working in an area of Northern Canada that has no air waves and I am gone for a month at a time. But hey you all knew that right! Cause you are all so interested.

First time you mentioned an inaccessible location in Canada was yesterday.
Perhaps if you enter into a discussion and tell people these things instead of dodging the three questions we would understand.

You still owe a coherent answer to the three questions.

We are here for you in your quit, but on KTCs terms, not yours

[twofingerdipper]

It is nice to hear all your kind words. But not one of you read anything or know the full story. But easy for you to blast everyone. We know you all are perfect. I work and am working in an area of Northern Canada that has no air waves and I am gone for a month at a time. But hey you all knew that right! Cause you are all so interested.

[starr_78]

TFD, you told us in your last roll post, "Fuck you. I work out in northern Canada where we don't get to go home every-night to our families, or there is no high-speed internet or cellular service."

That may be true, and it may explain your VERY intermittant roll posting, but you still have not answered the three questions. You dodged them in your intro thread. I may not agree with the ensuing name calling and I can understand a defensive reaction, but the bottom line is you need to answer those questions to belong in our quit group.

Feel free to PM me if there is anything I can do in assisting your daily roll call.

Steffano,

He knows the way KTC works. He made it to the HOF with the March 14' Iron Men and then caved and he has been a mess ever since. Steakbomb said it best.

Gentlemen, it's not worth it...this isn't the first time TFD has posted roll to cause a stir or reaction. He's just playing you.

Read this thread, he knows the deal. I don't quite understand the douchebaggery, ...he quit, I'm sorry, stopped for 100 days with our group, the March Iron Men; but when he was with us, he had supporters and a network. Now he's just being an asshole. I don't quit with assholes like this; and frankly I could care less if they come back and quit or go on their merry way. I don't need them. My accountability web is only as strong as it's weakest link, and people like this have no place in my web.

So don't waste any emotional outrage on TFD. If he was really seeking re-entrance to KTC, he already knows the price of admission. Don't play his game.

[steffano626]

TFD, you told us in your last roll post, "Fuck you. I work out in northern Canada where we don't get to go home every-night to our families, or there is no high-speed internet or cellular service."

That may be true, and it may explain your VERY intermittant roll posting, but you still have not answered the three questions. You dodged them in your intro thread. I may not agree with the ensuing name calling and I can understand a defensive reaction, but the bottom line is you need to answer those questions to belong in our quit group.

Feel free to PM me if there is anything I can do in assisting your daily roll call.

[Thumblewort]

TFD, stay quit, just do it somewhere else. July 2014 has had it's share of drama, and your brand of douchbaggery is pathetic.

[Ginet]

What the literal FUCK TFD!! You just waltz back in and post roll in July like it's no big fucking deal? Like you didn't just go MIA for a month. You haven't posted since May 2nd and you drop 55 like nothing ever happend?

You don't even know your quit group, you haven't been there to support them, to hold them accountable, to help them through the last 30 days, why the fuck should they let you post roll with them? There are a lot of bad ass quitters in July, and they don't need your half assed quit distracted them. 'Finger' 'Finger' There's two fingers for you!

And 2 exclamation points "!!"

2Finger, it's time to face your demons. What in the devil's hell possessed you to miss 30 days of roll and then waltz up in here like it is cupcake day at school and post Day 55? (Addiction). Time to face it. Either get in line, or take your dishonor somewhere else. Roll Call at KTC is made for honor.

Gentlemen, it's not worth it...this isn't the first time TFD has posted roll to cause a stir or reaction. He's just playing you.

Read this thread, he knows the deal. I don't quite understand the douchebaggery, ...he quit, I'm sorry, stopped for 100 days with our group, the March Iron Men; but when he was with us, he had supporters and a network. Now he's just being an asshole. I don't quit with assholes like this; and frankly I could care less if they come back and quit or go on their merry way. I don't need them. My accountability web is only as strong as it's weakest link, and people like this have no place in my web.

So don't waste any emotional outrage on TFD. If he was really seeking re-entrance to KTC, he already knows the price of admission. Don't play his game.

Well said steakbomb. I wish it wasn't that way but we can't help people that refuse to invest in their own quit.

Perfect example of "don't be that guy". Accountability starts with yourself. It cannot exist otherwise, no matter how many thousands of others extend their hand. Thanks for making my quit stronger today LF!

[starr_78]

What the literal FUCK TFD!! You just waltz back in and post roll in July like it's no big fucking deal? Like you didn't just go MIA for a month. You haven't posted since May 2nd and you drop 55 like nothing ever happend?

You don't even know your quit group, you haven't been there to support them, to hold them accountable, to help them through the last 30 days, why the fuck should they let you post roll with them? There are a lot of bad ass quitters in July, and they don't need your half assed quit distracted them. 'Finger' 'Finger' There's two fingers for you!

And 2 exclamation points "!!"

2Finger, it's time to face your demons. What in the devil's hell possessed you to miss 30 days of roll and then waltz up in here like it is cupcake day at school and post Day 55? (Addiction). Time to face it. Either get in line, or take your dishonor somewhere else. Roll Call at KTC is made for honor.

Gentlemen, it's not worth it...this isn't the first time TFD has posted roll to cause a stir or reaction. He's just playing you.

Read this thread, he knows the deal. I don't quite understand the douchebaggery, ...he quit, I'm sorry, stopped for 100 days with our group, the March Iron Men; but when he was with us, he had supporters and a network. Now he's just being an asshole. I don't quit with assholes like this; and frankly I could care less if they come back and quit or go on their merry way. I don't need them. My accountability web is only as strong as it's weakest link, and people like this have no place in my web.

So don't waste any emotional outrage on TFD. If he was really seeking re-entrance to KTC, he already knows the price of admission. Don't play his game.

Well said steakbomb. I wish it wasn't that way but we can't help people that refuse to invest in their own quit.

[Steakbomb18]

What the literal FUCK TFD!! You just waltz back in and post roll in July like it's no big fucking deal? Like you didn't just go MIA for a month. You haven't posted since May 2nd and you drop 55 like nothing ever happend?

You don't even know your quit group, you haven't been there to support them, to hold them accountable, to help them through the last 30 days, why the fuck should they let you post roll with them? There are a lot of bad ass quitters in July, and they don't need your half assed quit distracted them. 'Finger' 'Finger' There's two fingers for you!

And 2 exclamation points "!!"

2Finger, it's time to face your demons. What in the devil's hell possessed you to miss 30 days of roll and then waltz up in here like it is cupcake day at school and post Day 55? (Addiction). Time to face it. Either get in line, or take your dishonor somewhere else. Roll Call at KTC is made for honor.

Gentlemen, it's not worth it...this isn't the first time TFD has posted roll to cause a stir or reaction. He's just playing you.

Read this thread, he knows the deal. I don't quite understand the douchebaggery, ...he quit, I'm sorry, stopped for 100 days with our group, the March Iron Men; but when he was with us, he had supporters and a network. Now he's just being an asshole. I don't quit with assholes like this; and frankly I could care less if they come back and quit or go on their merry way. I don't need them. My accountability web is only as strong as it's weakest link, and people like this have no place in my web.

So don't waste any emotional outrage on TFD. If he was really seeking re-entrance to KTC, he already knows the price of admission. Don't play his game.

[JayDubya]

What the literal FUCK TFD!! You just waltz back in and post roll in July like it's no big fucking deal? Like you didn't just go MIA for a month. You haven't posted since May 2nd and you drop 55 like nothing ever happend?

You don't even know your quit group, you haven't been there to support them, to hold them accountable, to help them through the last 30 days, why the fuck should they let you post roll with them? There are a lot of bad ass quitters in July, and they don't need your half assed quit distracted them. 'Finger' 'Finger' There's two fingers for you!

And 2 exclamation points "!!"

2Finger, it's time to face your demons. What in the devil's hell possessed you to miss 30 days of roll and then waltz up in here like it is cupcake day at school and post Day 55? (Addiction). Time to face it. Either get in line, or take your dishonor somewhere else. Roll Call at KTC is made for honor.