I never was a "ninja dipper" :ph43r: I always chewed right out in the open in front of my whole family. My wife used to smoke before our kids were born so she couldn't really bitch too much about it. So I have to admit that I am having a hard time with "ninja quitters", who hide their quit just like they hid their nictotine addiction.
I say, Get it out in the open. Admit you are a addict and need / want help with your battle with the nic bitch. Some are afraid of being judged by their spouse. Why? They married you. They love you. :wub: They don't want you to poison yourself to death. Right? Or is it that they are afraid of the accountability that will come with telling the truth to everyone? That's the addict's way of thinking.
The nic bitch wants to be kept secret. She wants to have you alone. She can't handle the love and support of a family united against her. Strength in numbers.
Don't fight her alone, use everything at your disposal. The truth shall set you free.
Plus it will help explain why you have been such an ass to live with these few days. 'bang head'
I am proud to tell everyone I am a quitter because I am addicted to nicotine but now live as a free man.