Congrats on a great choice, Element. My two cents on your intro...one comment, really.
"Quitting fucking sucks." Really? Think about that. Quitting leads to freedom. Not quitting leads to tongue and jaw removal, chemo, feeding tubes, disfigurement and death. Quitting save you money, saves you time, lets YOU be the dad in your child's life, and let's you spend time with your wife. Not quitting takes your money, time and let's some other dude raise your child and be with your wife.
I don't know, buddy...I'm trying to see it your way, but I'm having a hard time.
The attitude you have when you do anything will largely determine your success. Make yourself DECIDE that you will ENJOY quitting. Embracing the suck means choosing to enjoy EVERTHING about it. Bring on the anxiety, restlessness, constipation, confusion, headaches, etc. Those things are WONDERFUL. Those things are your body telling you that YOU ARE DOING THIS RIGHT!!!
Saying "quitting sucks" is the Nic Bitch talking. Like pulling the pistol out of your mouth and reminiscing about the taste of the barrel? Or getting released from prison and going back for the shitty food and group showers. WTF, right??!! Take note of freedom. Really experience it. Don't let a moment go by without appreciating it. You got this. YOU can do this.