I quit

[Lost]

Hey everyone I have a question and need your input. When I quit I did it with out the fake chew. A really good friend is having a bday party as I have mentioned and while I have no problem staying clear of alcohol 3 of the guys there are dippers. At this stage in my quit would it be counter productive to use the fake stuff if I go to the party and get to jonzin to hard. I am getting a lot of shit about my choice to not go and lots of hurt feelings. Mainly because noone else has attempted to quit anything in their life. If starting the fake is counter productive at all I will not think about it. For me that's an easy choice

big debate....there are plenty that would say you are doing fine w/o it keep it out of your face too. But I think all would agree it is probably better to have some with you at a time like that then to risk getting weak. I would but that is me. Either way you are a bad sumbitch and will not cave.

MOA

Thanks MOA. My desicion to boycott the party has been met with a lot of resistance

Then I say screw 'em...

Too bad, they get butt-hurt cause you don't want to be around a trigger when you are quit. I would think that if they are good friends, they would understand you not wanting to be around it for a while.

Just my $.02

[john101477]

Hey everyone I have a question and need your input. When I quit I did it with out the fake chew. A really good friend is having a bday party as I have mentioned and while I have no problem staying clear of alcohol 3 of the guys there are dippers. At this stage in my quit would it be counter productive to use the fake stuff if I go to the party and get to jonzin to hard. I am getting a lot of shit about my choice to not go and lots of hurt feelings. Mainly because noone else has attempted to quit anything in their life. If starting the fake is counter productive at all I will not think about it. For me that's an easy choice

big debate....there are plenty that would say you are doing fine w/o it keep it out of your face too. But I think all would agree it is probably better to have some with you at a time like that then to risk getting weak. I would but that is me. Either way you are a bad sumbitch and will not cave.

MOA

Thanks MOA. My desicion to boycott the party has been met with a lot of resistance

[Steve S]

Unexpected BJ's,

I there such thing as an expected BJ.....not from Mrs MikeA there isn't

what is that? Nope...none from Mrs. KB81 neither...we're not even married yet LOL.

Haha well not really expected BJ's but irregular. I can generally figure on 2 a week right bfore bed. By unexpected I mean 2 a day which made me a mostly happy man during the worst part of the quit for me which was days 2-7

I HATE YOU

That's not very nice.

What do you care...apparently you are getting a lot more lovin' than Lost, so...meh. :lol:

I thought this was appropriate: A tally of John's July 2010 BJ's: 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' A tally of Cmay's July 2010 BJ's: 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'Y' ??? (my wife...) 'Finger' (me in response).

If it was a truly consistant thing I would understand the respnce from lost. Yes between july 18 -21st I got a lot of love. I might add beside a little while ago I had not had any love since the 21st. Also want to point out that the BJ often replaces intercourse in my house due to some issues my wife has.

You don't have kids do you?

Hahaha our daughter is napping as she does nearly every day from 12:30 to 3-4 ish It works out pretty good

Dude... you are killing me!!! 'worship'

I think your wife needs to talk to mine. Lucky bastard

Hahaha don't go bowing just yet. It is far from roses.
If your wife is a good cook, can walk and chew gum at the same time, does not feel the need to tell her whole life story to explain the flavor of gum she was chewing when she tripped yesterday..... get the picture? She is great at 3 things cleaning, being a mother, and sucking my pecker :D
Now I am being a little harsh here but she just managed to piss me off again.

I will add that IMO there is absolutley no better way to get through the first 3-4 days of quit nor any better way to get through a harsh craving than getting a blowjob. I get tired enough to nap right after so the craving stays away even longer

My wife suck-starts the Jew atleast once a week.

My wife refers to her menses as "blowjob week."

but do they go ass to mouth

Good way to get e. coli poisoning. But seriously, is there a bad way?

At least some of you other guys get treated well. I am pretty much cut off the first 2 days of menses then she feels bad enough about being a PITA that she is nice for a few days after

I have been married for 25 years. This whole conversation confuses me.. :blink:

I seem to remember something about a BJ but I believe that was a movie I was watching....


'crackup'

25 years and can't remember what a BJ is? Dude I am so so sorry lol you might wanna talk tpo the missus about that
Just tell her a BJ a day keeps the dip away

Well i hate to say this but your wives are pretty lame.. I have been getting 2 a day for the last 20 years. Monday through Friday at least..

Oh shit sorry, I thought the topic was PBJ's.. not BJ's

[minuteofangle]

Hey everyone I have a question and need your input. When I quit I did it with out the fake chew. A really good friend is having a bday party as I have mentioned and while I have no problem staying clear of alcohol 3 of the guys there are dippers. At this stage in my quit would it be counter productive to use the fake stuff if I go to the party and get to jonzin to hard. I am getting a lot of shit about my choice to not go and lots of hurt feelings. Mainly because noone else has attempted to quit anything in their life. If starting the fake is counter productive at all I will not think about it. For me that's an easy choice

big debate....there are plenty that would say you are doing fine w/o it keep it out of your face too. But I think all would agree it is probably better to have some with you at a time like that then to risk getting weak. I would but that is me. Either way you are a bad sumbitch and will not cave.

MOA

[john101477]

Hey everyone I have a question and need your input. When I quit I did it with out the fake chew. A really good friend is having a bday party as I have mentioned and while I have no problem staying clear of alcohol 3 of the guys there are dippers. At this stage in my quit would it be counter productive to use the fake stuff if I go to the party and get to jonzin to hard. I am getting a lot of shit about my choice to not go and lots of hurt feelings. Mainly because noone else has attempted to quit anything in their life. If starting the fake is counter productive at all I will not think about it. For me that's an easy choice

[john101477]

John - is that your wife in your avatar?

6 years of marriage has banished any memory of a bj that I may have once had. 25 years of marriage might make me forget what the term even means...

Speaking of, my 6 year anniversary is coming up on the 7th of August - any inexpensive gift ideas that she would actually like?

Yes that is my wife in my avatar. That was taken on our honeymoon in a theme room at a motel in lake tahoe. Funny we got married on cocoa beach in florida and instead of a cruise she wanted tahoe... go figure

As for the gift ideas. How much we talking? Usually if it plugs in, is use for cooking, cleaning, or chores it is a bad idea lol. 6 years deserves a little romance. Sitter for the kids, cheap diner (talking drive in cheap not mc donalds cheap) share a banana split or something, and then pop out a nice set of ear rings or a necklace. This always got my pecker washed and shined with my ex and with my current wife

[cmay1]

John - is that your wife in your avatar?

6 years of marriage has banished any memory of a bj that I may have once had. 25 years of marriage might make me forget what the term even means...

Speaking of, my 6 year anniversary is coming up on the 7th of August - any inexpensive gift ideas that she would actually like?

[john101477]

Unexpected BJ's,

I there such thing as an expected BJ.....not from Mrs MikeA there isn't

what is that? Nope...none from Mrs. KB81 neither...we're not even married yet LOL.

Haha well not really expected BJ's but irregular. I can generally figure on 2 a week right bfore bed. By unexpected I mean 2 a day which made me a mostly happy man during the worst part of the quit for me which was days 2-7

I HATE YOU

That's not very nice.

What do you care...apparently you are getting a lot more lovin' than Lost, so...meh. :lol:

I thought this was appropriate: A tally of John's July 2010 BJ's: 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' A tally of Cmay's July 2010 BJ's: 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'Y' ??? (my wife...) 'Finger' (me in response).

If it was a truly consistant thing I would understand the respnce from lost. Yes between july 18 -21st I got a lot of love. I might add beside a little while ago I had not had any love since the 21st. Also want to point out that the BJ often replaces intercourse in my house due to some issues my wife has.

You don't have kids do you?

Hahaha our daughter is napping as she does nearly every day from 12:30 to 3-4 ish It works out pretty good

Dude... you are killing me!!! 'worship'

I think your wife needs to talk to mine. Lucky bastard

Hahaha don't go bowing just yet. It is far from roses.
If your wife is a good cook, can walk and chew gum at the same time, does not feel the need to tell her whole life story to explain the flavor of gum she was chewing when she tripped yesterday..... get the picture? She is great at 3 things cleaning, being a mother, and sucking my pecker :D
Now I am being a little harsh here but she just managed to piss me off again.

I will add that IMO there is absolutley no better way to get through the first 3-4 days of quit nor any better way to get through a harsh craving than getting a blowjob. I get tired enough to nap right after so the craving stays away even longer

My wife suck-starts the Jew atleast once a week.

My wife refers to her menses as "blowjob week."

but do they go ass to mouth

Good way to get e. coli poisoning. But seriously, is there a bad way?

At least some of you other guys get treated well. I am pretty much cut off the first 2 days of menses then she feels bad enough about being a PITA that she is nice for a few days after

I have been married for 25 years. This whole conversation confuses me.. :blink:

I seem to remember something about a BJ but I believe that was a movie I was watching....


'crackup'

25 years and can't remember what a BJ is? Dude I am so so sorry lol you might wanna talk tpo the missus about that
Just tell her a BJ a day keeps the dip away

[Greg5280]

Unexpected BJ's,

I there such thing as an expected BJ.....not from Mrs MikeA there isn't

what is that? Nope...none from Mrs. KB81 neither...we're not even married yet LOL.

Haha well not really expected BJ's but irregular. I can generally figure on 2 a week right bfore bed. By unexpected I mean 2 a day which made me a mostly happy man during the worst part of the quit for me which was days 2-7

I HATE YOU

That's not very nice.

What do you care...apparently you are getting a lot more lovin' than Lost, so...meh. :lol:

I thought this was appropriate: A tally of John's July 2010 BJ's: 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' A tally of Cmay's July 2010 BJ's: 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'Y' ??? (my wife...) 'Finger' (me in response).

If it was a truly consistant thing I would understand the respnce from lost. Yes between july 18 -21st I got a lot of love. I might add beside a little while ago I had not had any love since the 21st. Also want to point out that the BJ often replaces intercourse in my house due to some issues my wife has.

You don't have kids do you?

Hahaha our daughter is napping as she does nearly every day from 12:30 to 3-4 ish It works out pretty good

Dude... you are killing me!!! 'worship'

I think your wife needs to talk to mine. Lucky bastard

Hahaha don't go bowing just yet. It is far from roses.
If your wife is a good cook, can walk and chew gum at the same time, does not feel the need to tell her whole life story to explain the flavor of gum she was chewing when she tripped yesterday..... get the picture? She is great at 3 things cleaning, being a mother, and sucking my pecker :D
Now I am being a little harsh here but she just managed to piss me off again.

I will add that IMO there is absolutley no better way to get through the first 3-4 days of quit nor any better way to get through a harsh craving than getting a blowjob. I get tired enough to nap right after so the craving stays away even longer

My wife suck-starts the Jew atleast once a week.

My wife refers to her menses as "blowjob week."

but do they go ass to mouth

Good way to get e. coli poisoning. But seriously, is there a bad way?

At least some of you other guys get treated well. I am pretty much cut off the first 2 days of menses then she feels bad enough about being a PITA that she is nice for a few days after

I have been married for 25 years. This whole conversation confuses me.. :blink:

I seem to remember something about a BJ but I believe that was a movie I was watching....


'crackup'

[john101477]

Unexpected BJ's,

I there such thing as an expected BJ.....not from Mrs MikeA there isn't

what is that? Nope...none from Mrs. KB81 neither...we're not even married yet LOL.

Haha well not really expected BJ's but irregular. I can generally figure on 2 a week right bfore bed. By unexpected I mean 2 a day which made me a mostly happy man during the worst part of the quit for me which was days 2-7

I HATE YOU

That's not very nice.

What do you care...apparently you are getting a lot more lovin' than Lost, so...meh. :lol:

I thought this was appropriate: A tally of John's July 2010 BJ's: 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' A tally of Cmay's July 2010 BJ's: 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'Y' ??? (my wife...) 'Finger' (me in response).

If it was a truly consistant thing I would understand the respnce from lost. Yes between july 18 -21st I got a lot of love. I might add beside a little while ago I had not had any love since the 21st. Also want to point out that the BJ often replaces intercourse in my house due to some issues my wife has.

You don't have kids do you?

Hahaha our daughter is napping as she does nearly every day from 12:30 to 3-4 ish It works out pretty good

Dude... you are killing me!!! 'worship'

I think your wife needs to talk to mine. Lucky bastard

Hahaha don't go bowing just yet. It is far from roses.
If your wife is a good cook, can walk and chew gum at the same time, does not feel the need to tell her whole life story to explain the flavor of gum she was chewing when she tripped yesterday..... get the picture? She is great at 3 things cleaning, being a mother, and sucking my pecker :D
Now I am being a little harsh here but she just managed to piss me off again.

I will add that IMO there is absolutley no better way to get through the first 3-4 days of quit nor any better way to get through a harsh craving than getting a blowjob. I get tired enough to nap right after so the craving stays away even longer

My wife suck-starts the Jew atleast once a week.

My wife refers to her menses as "blowjob week."

but do they go ass to mouth

Good way to get e. coli poisoning. But seriously, is there a bad way?

At least some of you other guys get treated well. I am pretty much cut off the first 2 days of menses then she feels bad enough about being a PITA that she is nice for a few days after

[john101477]

John,

Thanks for putting the whole wife thing back into perspective for me...

Adam

No problem buddy. Like I have said some days are good others suck and not in a good way

[Lost]

John,

Thanks for putting the whole wife thing back into perspective for me...

Adam

[RickDicolus]

Unexpected BJ's,

I there such thing as an expected BJ.....not from Mrs MikeA there isn't

what is that? Nope...none from Mrs. KB81 neither...we're not even married yet LOL.

Haha well not really expected BJ's but irregular. I can generally figure on 2 a week right bfore bed. By unexpected I mean 2 a day which made me a mostly happy man during the worst part of the quit for me which was days 2-7

I HATE YOU

That's not very nice.

What do you care...apparently you are getting a lot more lovin' than Lost, so...meh. :lol:

I thought this was appropriate: A tally of John's July 2010 BJ's: 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' A tally of Cmay's July 2010 BJ's: 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'Y' ??? (my wife...) 'Finger' (me in response).

If it was a truly consistant thing I would understand the respnce from lost. Yes between july 18 -21st I got a lot of love. I might add beside a little while ago I had not had any love since the 21st. Also want to point out that the BJ often replaces intercourse in my house due to some issues my wife has.

You don't have kids do you?

Hahaha our daughter is napping as she does nearly every day from 12:30 to 3-4 ish It works out pretty good

Dude... you are killing me!!! 'worship'

I think your wife needs to talk to mine. Lucky bastard

Hahaha don't go bowing just yet. It is far from roses.
If your wife is a good cook, can walk and chew gum at the same time, does not feel the need to tell her whole life story to explain the flavor of gum she was chewing when she tripped yesterday..... get the picture? She is great at 3 things cleaning, being a mother, and sucking my pecker :D
Now I am being a little harsh here but she just managed to piss me off again.

I will add that IMO there is absolutley no better way to get through the first 3-4 days of quit nor any better way to get through a harsh craving than getting a blowjob. I get tired enough to nap right after so the craving stays away even longer

My wife suck-starts the Jew atleast once a week.

My wife refers to her menses as "blowjob week."

but do they go ass to mouth

Good way to get e. coli poisoning. But seriously, is there a bad way?

[MikeA]

Unexpected BJ's,

I there such thing as an expected BJ.....not from Mrs MikeA there isn't

what is that? Nope...none from Mrs. KB81 neither...we're not even married yet LOL.

Haha well not really expected BJ's but irregular. I can generally figure on 2 a week right bfore bed. By unexpected I mean 2 a day which made me a mostly happy man during the worst part of the quit for me which was days 2-7

I HATE YOU

That's not very nice.

What do you care...apparently you are getting a lot more lovin' than Lost, so...meh. :lol:

I thought this was appropriate: A tally of John's July 2010 BJ's: 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' A tally of Cmay's July 2010 BJ's: 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'Y' ??? (my wife...) 'Finger' (me in response).

If it was a truly consistant thing I would understand the respnce from lost. Yes between july 18 -21st I got a lot of love. I might add beside a little while ago I had not had any love since the 21st. Also want to point out that the BJ often replaces intercourse in my house due to some issues my wife has.

You don't have kids do you?

Hahaha our daughter is napping as she does nearly every day from 12:30 to 3-4 ish It works out pretty good

Dude... you are killing me!!! 'worship'

I think your wife needs to talk to mine. Lucky bastard

Hahaha don't go bowing just yet. It is far from roses.
If your wife is a good cook, can walk and chew gum at the same time, does not feel the need to tell her whole life story to explain the flavor of gum she was chewing when she tripped yesterday..... get the picture? She is great at 3 things cleaning, being a mother, and sucking my pecker :D
Now I am being a little harsh here but she just managed to piss me off again.

I will add that IMO there is absolutley no better way to get through the first 3-4 days of quit nor any better way to get through a harsh craving than getting a blowjob. I get tired enough to nap right after so the craving stays away even longer

My wife suck-starts the Jew atleast once a week.

My wife refers to her menses as "blowjob week."

but do they go ass to mouth

[RickDicolus]

Unexpected BJ's,

I there such thing as an expected BJ.....not from Mrs MikeA there isn't

what is that? Nope...none from Mrs. KB81 neither...we're not even married yet LOL.

Haha well not really expected BJ's but irregular. I can generally figure on 2 a week right bfore bed. By unexpected I mean 2 a day which made me a mostly happy man during the worst part of the quit for me which was days 2-7

I HATE YOU

That's not very nice.

What do you care...apparently you are getting a lot more lovin' than Lost, so...meh. :lol:

I thought this was appropriate: A tally of John's July 2010 BJ's: 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' 'bj' A tally of Cmay's July 2010 BJ's: 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'finger point' 'Y' ??? (my wife...) 'Finger' (me in response).

If it was a truly consistant thing I would understand the respnce from lost. Yes between july 18 -21st I got a lot of love. I might add beside a little while ago I had not had any love since the 21st. Also want to point out that the BJ often replaces intercourse in my house due to some issues my wife has.

You don't have kids do you?

Hahaha our daughter is napping as she does nearly every day from 12:30 to 3-4 ish It works out pretty good

Dude... you are killing me!!! 'worship'

I think your wife needs to talk to mine. Lucky bastard

Hahaha don't go bowing just yet. It is far from roses.
If your wife is a good cook, can walk and chew gum at the same time, does not feel the need to tell her whole life story to explain the flavor of gum she was chewing when she tripped yesterday..... get the picture? She is great at 3 things cleaning, being a mother, and sucking my pecker :D
Now I am being a little harsh here but she just managed to piss me off again.

I will add that IMO there is absolutley no better way to get through the first 3-4 days of quit nor any better way to get through a harsh craving than getting a blowjob. I get tired enough to nap right after so the craving stays away even longer

My wife suck-starts the Jew atleast once a week.

My wife refers to her menses as "blowjob week."