Day 428. I thank this site and it's members.
I have been posting some updates in my november 15 quit group and I thought why not just bring it here.
I have a Brother, not a blood brother but, a Masonic Brother. Without giving anything away for those that aren't Masons, there is a difference between a brother and a "other." This is something that we all experience when one decides to join the Blue Lodge and you actually show up to lodge and aren't a card totter. This man has been there for me from day 1. When my grandmother passed away and 5 months later when my mom passed away as well.
My Buddy as I call him has cancer on the back of his tongue. He is also an older man. Smoked for X amount of years, and has dipped since he traded in smoking. He first had a knot/swelling on his neck, right behind his right ear. This was a year ago. I had mentioned to him then that he needed to seek other medical assistance and not to trust these home town doctors. They would give him antibiotics and the swelling would go down but, not away.
Fast forward to this year as he finally went to see an ENT. They ran the light down him and unfortunately cancer is what they found. As of right now he has done the following to prepare for his radiation and chemo treatments.
1. Has had 2 CAT scans.
2. Has had a PET scan.
3. Had all teeth removed top and bottom (yes, he wasn't missing many)
4. Had his port put in Friday so he can begin chemo treatments.
5. Begins radiation this coming week.
With all of that said he has not one time complained or placed blame anywhere. He has the best/positive outlook that one can have. The doctor has told him twice that he believes 110% that this can and will be gone once the treatments are finished.
I just ask that you all send a prayer his way and I will continue to post updates as he progresses. Thanks, Eyehatecope.