Insight from a quitter who isn't far removed from stuffing his mouth with a can of shit a day.
To the Day 1's, the 2 weeks, the 1 years, I offer you my humble opinion.
When you joined this site, I can about guarantee you that, you were broke, battered, embarrassed, fed up, and scared for your health. Sound about right? I know I was. I'd stopped dipping 2 or 3 times before, but I wasn't strong enough alone to fend off the all mighty nicotine empire. Nope, she was too powerful for me alone to beat. I can say that now, and I mean it. I was a bitch to a product that was killing me slowly every day, end of story. You gain strength and power in numbers. You have to quit for you and your reasons first. After that, you have to quit for your brother/sister standing next to you. I've lost a few friends on here to the bitch, they caved. They didn't buy in fully to the grounds of what this site is.
When I joined, did I expect Admins and Mod's to comment on my fog laced ramblings? Hell no! Did I expect them to post roll with me daily? Hell no! They're crucial to this site, they keep it working, they keep it live, they keep it inviting. They are quit, they provide me with a platform to quit, and honestly they are the reason I am quit still today. Without them, KTC doesn't exist and we all go at it alone. Listening to non addicts say stuff like, "Oh just keep fighting, I'm sure it's hard." Or my personal favorite, "just don't use the stuff!" Ya, like I haven't wanted to "just not use the stuff" before this day. We are able to form bonds, friendships if you will, because they allowed this platform and site to happen.
To the pre Hall of Famers, don't lose hope or confidence in this place. It's the reason I'm able to wake up in the morning and not have jitters because I'm out. It's the reason I've formed friendships with people half way across the country, who hold me accountable. Do we need to hold everybody accountable? Yes. But we all have our inner circles of quit. Lets worry about our inner circle of quitters and hold them accountable, while still offering up guidance and wisdom when possible with new quitters.
To everybody post Hall of Fame, I appreciate you. I feel like the active members still "get it". Do lights fade or dim after a while? Sure. But we understand what we need to do daily to remain quit. So many of you have impacted my quit and brought me to near tears with your words of wisdom, encouragement, and guidance. I thank each and every one of you for that.
Stick around this place and it WILL change your life.
I'd like to specifically name out a few big names who've impacted my quit. SirDerek, WastePanel, and Scowick. These are dudes that commented early on my shit, they posted roll early in my quit, they offered support early in my quit. One disgruntled person will not end the momentum that these quitters have.
So to the Day 1's or Day Teens that are confused by this drama....Quit on....I was you 123 days ago
THansen- 123 Days of Freedom