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Offline ZillahCowboy

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Re: Day 2...
« Reply #38 on: January 02, 2014, 12:16:00 PM »
Fellow Quitters - Here's a copy/paste from an article on the whyquit.com site...Good info on how getting past each craving episode will actually make you stronger! Yeah baby...keeping my Quit on...Day 6.

"Extinguishing Use Conditioning"

Embrace recovery don't fear it. Why fear a temporary journey of re-adjustment that transports us to a point in time where we're going days, weeks and eventually months without wanting to use nicotine?

Each cue driven crave episode presents an opportunity to extinguish additional conditioning and reclaim another aspect of life. We may have trained our mind to expect nicotine during stressful events, when walking in the back yard, while driving a car, talking on the phone or upon encountering another user. Attempting these activities after stopping may generate a short yet possibly powerful crave episode.

Success in moving beyond each episode awards the new ex-user return of another slice of a nicotine-free life, a surprising sense of calm during crisis, return of their yard, car, phone or friends. But be sure and look at a clock during craves as cessation time distortion can combine with fear or even panic to make a less than 3 minute episode feel much longer.

Research suggests that the average quitter experiences a maximum of 6 crave episodes per day on the third day of recovery, declining to about 1.4 per day by day ten. If each crave is less than 3 minutes and the average quitter experiences a maximum of 6 on their most challenging day, can you handle 18 minutes of challenge?

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Re: Day 2...
« Reply #37 on: January 01, 2014, 10:13:00 PM »
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so let's focus on today's list of good things:

1) My teeth didn't hurt (much) when I brushed.
2) The anxiety chest pains of Day 1~4 are now gone.
3) My breath doesn't smell like a wet dog.
4) My wife kissed me eleven times.
5) My daughter says she's proud of me.

My kind of day, even though it was still interspersed with multiple and wicked cravings...one so bad it about brought me to my knees when I was out doing chores. Concentration, willpower, determination, pride of quit...whatever you want to call it. I got through it, and look forward to the therapy and brotherhood of reading and posting here at the beginning and end of each day. Fucking A. It works.

Bring on Day 6 tomorrow.
Chug the koolaid brother. You are free. Now stay free. Congrats on your success. Keep it going.
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Re: Day 2...
« Reply #36 on: January 01, 2014, 10:04:00 PM »
so let's focus on today's list of good things:

1) My teeth didn't hurt (much) when I brushed.
2) The anxiety chest pains of Day 1~4 are now gone.
3) My breath doesn't smell like a wet dog.
4) My wife kissed me eleven times.
5) My daughter says she's proud of me.

My kind of day, even though it was still interspersed with multiple and wicked cravings...one so bad it about brought me to my knees when I was out doing chores. Concentration, willpower, determination, pride of quit...whatever you want to call it. I got through it, and look forward to the therapy and brotherhood of reading and posting here at the beginning and end of each day. Fucking A. It works.

Bring on Day 6 tomorrow.

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Re: Day 2...
« Reply #35 on: January 01, 2014, 05:13:00 PM »
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15 years, 1.5~2-cans a week. Doesn't sound that hard core (relative to other heavier users) But even at that "modest" dipping rate, I'm realizing how dependent and deep into it I had become. And just how much of an addict I am. Every 45 seconds or so I think about a chew. Every activity demands one. And that "itchy" feeling in the gum right where I packed it next to the lower left incisor is constantly shouting for a dip to be put in. Hoo boy. This is indeed the suck. Time to go out and take a brisk walk in the cold...and clear some of this damn fog.
I wasn't much heavier a user, 2-3 tins/week x 18 years, but had a very similar experience when I pulled the plug on the dip. Even when I wasn't in a dipping situation, I would be thinking about when I'd be able to throw the next one in. After a week or two the cravings that came from these situations began to dissipate and now I'm able to replace the craving with a positive thought about being dip free or a thought about how nasty that bitch would taste in my mouth. Great job with the quit, I like how your posting the daily trials and tribulations and taking credit for only what you have actually accomplished. That's how you quit hard, on day at a time.
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Re: Day 2...
« Reply #34 on: January 01, 2014, 09:40:00 AM »
Rolling into Day 5. Sister crave is still there, but I just tell her to fuck herself. Moving on with the new day.

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Re: Day 2...
« Reply #33 on: January 01, 2014, 01:43:00 AM »
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Here's something new: I didn't race through family dinner tonight to get to the post-meal dip. Because there was no post-meal dip!!! Just a bowl of chocolate chip ice cream. Oh yeah.
that's the good stuff brother

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Re: Day 2...
« Reply #32 on: January 01, 2014, 12:32:00 AM »
ODAAT.....it really get's Sooooooooooooooooo much better. Keep your eye on the prize and never look back. There are 1,000's of people here to help you every step of the way, all you have to do is ask. Quit on Quitter.PM if you need anything.
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Re: Day 2...
« Reply #31 on: December 31, 2013, 09:51:00 PM »
Here's something new: I didn't race through family dinner tonight to get to the post-meal dip. Because there was no post-meal dip!!! Just a bowl of chocolate chip ice cream. Oh yeah.

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Re: Day 2...
« Reply #30 on: December 31, 2013, 04:30:00 PM »
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15 years, 1.5~2-cans a week.  Doesn't sound that hard core (relative to other heavier users)  But even at that "modest" dipping rate, I'm realizing how dependent and deep into it I had become.  And just how much of an addict I am.  Every 45 seconds or so I think about a chew.  Every activity demands one.  And that "itchy" feeling in the gum right where I packed it next to the lower left incisor is constantly shouting for a dip to be put in.  Hoo boy.  This is indeed the suck.  Time to go out and take a brisk walk in the cold...and clear some of this damn fog.
You're doing it... keep it going. Head down, get through today, minute by minute if you have too. I had pretty bad fog too, and it does get better. If I did it, you can too.

The addiction goes to whatever depth it does for each person, and each person's quit is their own unique experience. You're doing good going through yours. Keep close to the site, keep learning about your enemy, keep doing whatever it takes to get through piece by piece. You will come out at the other side of it.
Thx, yeah the fog was so bad last night. Coming out of the grocery store I asked my wife where the car was because I couldn't remember where I'd parked. She pointed out at the far edge of the lot where my truck stood all by itself. And the words that came out of my mouth were: "Well, why the park did I fuck all the way down there?" Yes, we had a good laugh.
Good that you have someone to laugh about some of it with! I tell you i did plenty of stupid things in the thickest fog. Even lost my favorite jacket, with a big wad of cash that I was "keeping safe" in the pocket that had a zipper. Terrible! But I can buy another jacket and make more money-- can't buy even one more day of life, or a new tongue, or my jaw that i was given to go with my body. So it's just become a cost of the quit- another one. Makes it more worth it and me even more determined to never go back for any reasons-- Never Again For Any Reason- NAFAR.

Keep doing it man you've come a long way and it will be worth it!
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Quitters I’ve met so far: Ihatecope, >Pinched<, T-Cell, grizzlyhasclaws, Canvasback, BaseballPlayer, Cbird65, ERDVM, BradleyGuy, Ted, Zeno, AppleJack, Bronc, Knockout, MookieBlaylock, Rdad, 2mch2lv4, MN_Ben, Natro, Lippizaner, Amquash, ChristopherJ, GDubya, SRohde  -- always eager to meet more!

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Re: Day 2...
« Reply #29 on: December 31, 2013, 04:11:00 PM »
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15 years, 1.5~2-cans a week.  Doesn't sound that hard core (relative to other heavier users)  But even at that "modest" dipping rate, I'm realizing how dependent and deep into it I had become.  And just how much of an addict I am.  Every 45 seconds or so I think about a chew.  Every activity demands one.  And that "itchy" feeling in the gum right where I packed it next to the lower left incisor is constantly shouting for a dip to be put in.  Hoo boy.  This is indeed the suck.  Time to go out and take a brisk walk in the cold...and clear some of this damn fog.
You're doing it... keep it going. Head down, get through today, minute by minute if you have too. I had pretty bad fog too, and it does get better. If I did it, you can too.

The addiction goes to whatever depth it does for each person, and each person's quit is their own unique experience. You're doing good going through yours. Keep close to the site, keep learning about your enemy, keep doing whatever it takes to get through piece by piece. You will come out at the other side of it.
Thx, yeah the fog was so bad last night. Coming out of the grocery store I asked my wife where the car was because I couldn't remember where I'd parked. She pointed out at the far edge of the lot where my truck stood all by itself. And the words that came out of my mouth were: "Well, why the park did I fuck all the way down there?" Yes, we had a good laugh.

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Re: Day 2...
« Reply #28 on: December 31, 2013, 03:55:00 PM »
Quote from: Zillah
15 years, 1.5~2-cans a week. Doesn't sound that hard core (relative to other heavier users) But even at that "modest" dipping rate, I'm realizing how dependent and deep into it I had become. And just how much of an addict I am. Every 45 seconds or so I think about a chew. Every activity demands one. And that "itchy" feeling in the gum right where I packed it next to the lower left incisor is constantly shouting for a dip to be put in. Hoo boy. This is indeed the suck. Time to go out and take a brisk walk in the cold...and clear some of this damn fog.
You're doing it... keep it going. Head down, get through today, minute by minute if you have too. I had pretty bad fog too, and it does get better. If I did it, you can too.

The addiction goes to whatever depth it does for each person, and each person's quit is their own unique experience. You're doing good going through yours. Keep close to the site, keep learning about your enemy, keep doing whatever it takes to get through piece by piece. You will come out at the other side of it.
This info helped me early on, and still does today: https://whyquit.com/whyquit/linksaaddiction.html

Quitters I’ve met so far: Ihatecope, >Pinched<, T-Cell, grizzlyhasclaws, Canvasback, BaseballPlayer, Cbird65, ERDVM, BradleyGuy, Ted, Zeno, AppleJack, Bronc, Knockout, MookieBlaylock, Rdad, 2mch2lv4, MN_Ben, Natro, Lippizaner, Amquash, ChristopherJ, GDubya, SRohde  -- always eager to meet more!

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Re: Day 2...
« Reply #27 on: December 31, 2013, 03:38:00 PM »
15 years, 1.5~2-cans a week. Doesn't sound that hard core (relative to other heavier users) But even at that "modest" dipping rate, I'm realizing how dependent and deep into it I had become. And just how much of an addict I am. Every 45 seconds or so I think about a chew. Every activity demands one. And that "itchy" feeling in the gum right where I packed it next to the lower left incisor is constantly shouting for a dip to be put in. Hoo boy. This is indeed the suck. Time to go out and take a brisk walk in the cold...and clear some of this damn fog.

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Re: Day 2...
« Reply #26 on: December 31, 2013, 12:34:00 PM »
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Starting Day 4.  The grind is on again.  Sugarless bubble gum...lots of it.
...100 hours since final dip. Feels like 100 years.
yup... I remember that feeling well. Get a plan together for New Years Eve. Whether you are out and partying or home in front of the TV, the nic-bitch will use it as an opportunity to come after you. Keep your gum at the ready, this site up on your computer or phone, lots of water, you already skip the alcohol, so that is done, and have some numbers of fellow quitters at the ready. If you need another, PM me.
You got this.
Thanks Slim...NYE plan is simple. Off work at 5, drive home, dinner with wife and fam, popcorn and a movie on netflix, in bed by 10. No room or time for a dip. Sleep has been my friend. It makes the hours go by faster, and I haven't had any weird chew dreams that some guys talk about. The waking hours are the toughest right now. I am drinking so much water....hourly trips to the can to pee clear. A good thing.

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Re: Day 2...
« Reply #25 on: December 31, 2013, 12:09:00 PM »
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Starting Day 4.  The grind is on again.  Sugarless bubble gum...lots of it.
...100 hours since final dip. Feels like 100 years.
everyday gets a little better. post first thing. If your word means as much to you as mine, then you WILL be ok. baby stepsÂ… peace
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Re: Day 2...
« Reply #24 on: December 31, 2013, 12:08:00 PM »
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Starting Day 4.  The grind is on again.  Sugarless bubble gum...lots of it.
...100 hours since final dip. Feels like 100 years.
yup... I remember that feeling well. Get a plan together for New Years Eve. Whether you are out and partying or home in front of the TV, the nic-bitch will use it as an opportunity to come after you. Keep your gum at the ready, this site up on your computer or phone, lots of water, you already skip the alcohol, so that is done, and have some numbers of fellow quitters at the ready. If you need another, PM me.
You got this.