Is the purpose of KTC to provide support for those wanting to quit or is KTC a forum to vent and say things most would not to each other face to face. I get posting roll. I also understand things happen. Not posting roll or checking in for 3 weeks honestly should not be acceptable at all. Start from day one and knock it out of the park. For everyone else I ask "Did his not posting for three weeks disrupt your life?" Probably not, so quit acting like you lost your way because of his not posting roll. I am confident at 80 Days that I will never dip again. I keep getting on here to post because I support my group. Seeing grown men argue is sad and frankly not worth it.
Spencer, life happens. I hope your friend is okay and life is back on track. KTC has only one requirement. POST ROLL. Missing a day here and there especially with all our BUMP happy brother seem not right but tolerable. I am guilty. Three weeks regardless of the reason is in all fairness not acceptable. Please join the newest group and post Day 1. That will help KTC maintain its accountibility and standards.
The idea is to keep encouraging our brothers and sisters while maintaining the KTC standard. For everyone here at KTC, I do not see any reasons to play games or curse to no end.
There is my two cents for whatever it is worth. I am not the web master or admin but feel this is a more acceptable way of handling these types of issues.
As far as I know, the purpose of being here is both to find support AND a place to vent.
But I was not riding Spencer just to vent, I was riding him because he is making lame excuses for his addictive behavior, and he has not stated whether or not he chewed (though there is no doubt in my mind, I would still be curious what he said).
"Did his not posting for three weeks disrupt your life?" - NO, but then again, you are the person stating that "Seeing grown men argue is sad and frankly not worth it." Who is being overly sensitive? You can't handle arguments and strong language? So I guess we should all walk around on egg shells around you, and don't yell at poor Spencer, he of the difficult job, and who visited his ailing friend on a different planet without internet.