Gelas Has Fallen

[G]

Yesterday I planned on caving and I did it, which is why I never posted.Ã,  Could an administrator please see to it that my Hall of Fame speech is taken down?Ã,  I don't deserve to have it posted next to all of yours, unless it is labeled in such a way that all who read it know that I have caved.Ã,  Gelas the psycho who flips out on everyone who caves, has fallen.

I can't even post in my group telling them because I'm not clean, but I'm sure they will hear.

I take full responsibility for my actions, but IÃ,’d like to say that seeing cavers come back was one of the main things that lead to my decline.Ã,  I knew I could come back at any time if I really wanted to.Ã,  I would just jump through the hoops, tell you all how sorry I was and promise that I would call next time.Ã,  I would hear it from LOOT and Smokey and April 2011, but ultimately I would be fine and I would just start out at day 1 again.

ThatÃ,’s why I burned my bridges and said I don't want to be taken back.

IÃ,’m sorry guys.Ã,  Good luck with everything.

FUCK YOU Gelas...I'm a newbie on Day 2 that has a history of quitting the quit, but NOT on here!! I really WANT to be done and I don't need pussies like you talking about how you planned your quit and saying you're sorry...that's like writing a suicide note, pulling the trigger, and leaving directions for the rest of us on how to do the same thing. Ass.

You're a disgrace to your Quit Group, don't bother hitting September 2011 unless you're serious, we don't need pansy motherfuckers like you dragging us down. There's enough suck going on for everyone right now without hearing you cry about what a piece of shit you are.

Get to quittin' fucker.

Bump. Are there any Ace's in September 2013?

Has Gelas decided to join the fold again

I tried so hard to help him. He planned his cave and he knew it. What a fucking douche.

No, I bumped this post in association with my post in Enraged Thor's intro.

Gelas is still a little bitch.

[Frazzled]

Yesterday I planned on caving and I did it, which is why I never posted.Ã,  Could an administrator please see to it that my Hall of Fame speech is taken down?Ã,  I don't deserve to have it posted next to all of yours, unless it is labeled in such a way that all who read it know that I have caved.Ã,  Gelas the psycho who flips out on everyone who caves, has fallen.

I can't even post in my group telling them because I'm not clean, but I'm sure they will hear.

I take full responsibility for my actions, but IÃ,’d like to say that seeing cavers come back was one of the main things that lead to my decline.Ã,  I knew I could come back at any time if I really wanted to.Ã,  I would just jump through the hoops, tell you all how sorry I was and promise that I would call next time.Ã,  I would hear it from LOOT and Smokey and April 2011, but ultimately I would be fine and I would just start out at day 1 again.

ThatÃ,’s why I burned my bridges and said I don't want to be taken back.

IÃ,’m sorry guys.Ã,  Good luck with everything.

FUCK YOU Gelas...I'm a newbie on Day 2 that has a history of quitting the quit, but NOT on here!! I really WANT to be done and I don't need pussies like you talking about how you planned your quit and saying you're sorry...that's like writing a suicide note, pulling the trigger, and leaving directions for the rest of us on how to do the same thing. Ass.

You're a disgrace to your Quit Group, don't bother hitting September 2011 unless you're serious, we don't need pansy motherfuckers like you dragging us down. There's enough suck going on for everyone right now without hearing you cry about what a piece of shit you are.

Get to quittin' fucker.

Bump. Are there any Ace's in September 2013?

Has Gelas decided to join the fold again

I tried so hard to help him. He planned his cave and he knew it. What a fucking douche.

[G]

Yesterday I planned on caving and I did it, which is why I never posted.Ã,  Could an administrator please see to it that my Hall of Fame speech is taken down?Ã,  I don't deserve to have it posted next to all of yours, unless it is labeled in such a way that all who read it know that I have caved.Ã,  Gelas the psycho who flips out on everyone who caves, has fallen.

I can't even post in my group telling them because I'm not clean, but I'm sure they will hear.

I take full responsibility for my actions, but IÃ,’d like to say that seeing cavers come back was one of the main things that lead to my decline.Ã,  I knew I could come back at any time if I really wanted to.Ã,  I would just jump through the hoops, tell you all how sorry I was and promise that I would call next time.Ã,  I would hear it from LOOT and Smokey and April 2011, but ultimately I would be fine and I would just start out at day 1 again.

ThatÃ,’s why I burned my bridges and said I don't want to be taken back.

IÃ,’m sorry guys.Ã,  Good luck with everything.

FUCK YOU Gelas...I'm a newbie on Day 2 that has a history of quitting the quit, but NOT on here!! I really WANT to be done and I don't need pussies like you talking about how you planned your quit and saying you're sorry...that's like writing a suicide note, pulling the trigger, and leaving directions for the rest of us on how to do the same thing. Ass.

You're a disgrace to your Quit Group, don't bother hitting September 2011 unless you're serious, we don't need pansy motherfuckers like you dragging us down. There's enough suck going on for everyone right now without hearing you cry about what a piece of shit you are.

Get to quittin' fucker.

Bump. Are there any Ace's in September 2013?

[Nolaq]

Gelas,

You are still coming to the site.Ã,  You were here this morning.Ã,  Why?

He wants us to beg him to come back or he is an attention whore.

If he is looking for a panacea he just needs to remember what it was on day 1 and 2

Guys...this is just my opinion...but I equate this thread similar to the one about Klark's ass hole. Time for it to go away. Quit feeding this guy.

He stated below that he decided he no longer wanted to be quit. I will walk 100 miles barefoot on glass to help any quitter here. However, I will not politely gargle and beg for more when I guy pisses in my mouth and then says he doesn't want to be quit.

I agree its time to focus attention on real quitters here that need our help. If Gelas wants to come back he can post roll without any BS, take his lumps, and apologize at that time.

Agreed. There are some real pipe-hitting quitters in September that need some serious support.

Who's in?

[bman50317]

This is why I never posted a HOF speech.Ã,  Hitting HOF isn't "arriving".Ã,  There is no end for the quitting, it takes every single day to log on here and post another day of no nicotine.Ã,  Do I really think that after spending 5+ years addicted to a drug I will suddenly, after 3.5 months be cured?Ã,  No!Ã,  That's why there are so many quit groups on this site!Ã,  That's why there are so many people on here to continue to encourage each other well past the 1 year mark.

The hardest time for me to stay quit was the first week.Ã,  The second hardest was when I hit the 100 days.Ã,  I felt like it was over.Ã,  "Well, that was tough, now let's have a dip" was the idea running through my head.Ã,  This is not a sprint, this is a long long haul that will last for many many years.Ã,  I recognize that and I accept that, and I would rather spend years denying myself an addiction than caving in a day and going back to that thing that was ruining my life all along.



Gelas:Ã,  Bro, we quit with you for over 100 days.Ã,  We all helped each other out, and just seeing peoples' names start stacking up day after day around mine was really encouraging.Ã,  That being said, you know already that when a person fails and caves it does nothing but strengthen the resolve of the group.Ã,  You're not taking anyone else with you, we're going to work hard on that.Ã,  When you feel like quitting again, post a Day 1 and I will be right there to quit with you.Ã,  Until then, enjoy that dip, because you're paying for it with years off your life.

'clap' Well said...You sir GET IT!

MOA

A HOF speech isn't about celebrating the final victory over addiction. I mean, that day will never come.

A HOF speech is about sharing your journey with others, maybe throw in some thank you's. New quitters are typically encouraged to read them. Stories of success are a positive influence for a new quitter.

For me, the speech was also about putting more skin in the game. It's one of the reasons I WILL NOT FAIL. It was just another step in this process that strengthened my quit. It was part of closing the door.

This is just my opinion: not writing a speech is one of those subconscious things that gives some quitters here a easier out to cave. "I didn't write a speech, I don't owe anyone here anything".

I see your point, Andrew. I just wanted to offer a different perspective.

Agree with LA on this one all the way.

I wasn't going to write a speech at all. Then I realized that some people really found helpful stuff in the speeches. I have even seen some say that HoF speeches were one of the only things that got them through.

That's why I titles my speech: This quit is for me, the speech for you


However, if not doing a speech is what works for you then by all means keep it that way!

I have to chime in here and point out, the reason I wrote a HOF speech is because those (the HOF speeches) are what really drove home the notion that folks can quit. Hell, you never know when something you say may inspire another person to quit this nasty ass shit.

If you are worried about being bit in the ass by your HOF speech........... You haven't flipped the switch. I still quit on a daily basis, don't get me wrong, but the switch has been flipped. The reason I am typing this here is because if I ever cave in the future, I WANT people to bring this up and say, "Hey, M'Fer, look what you said. WTF changed with what you said here and what caused a cave...."

The HOF is only a milestone on the quit journey. Just like every other day is (or hitting the 3rd floor, 5th floor, comma, etc.... If you believe that once you hit a certain amount of days, you are done quitting, you are sadly mistaken. This shit ain't based upon a timeframe. It's based on doing whatever you can for one day to keep that shit out of your mouth, rinse, and repeat the same plan the next day.

Some good discussion right here. Some of the best things I have read in awhile. Thanks Fellas

[Kdip]

Gelas,

You are still coming to the site.Ã,  You were here this morning.Ã,  Why?

He wants us to beg him to come back or he is an attention whore.

If he is looking for a panacea he just needs to remember what it was on day 1 and 2

Guys...this is just my opinion...but I equate this thread similar to the one about Klark's ass hole. Time for it to go away. Quit feeding this guy.

He stated below that he decided he no longer wanted to be quit. I will walk 100 miles barefoot on glass to help any quitter here. However, I will not politely gargle and beg for more when I guy pisses in my mouth and then says he doesn't want to be quit.

I agree its time to focus attention on real quitters here that need our help. If Gelas wants to come back he can post roll without any BS, take his lumps, and apologize at that time.

[bigbamadan]

Gelas,

You are still coming to the site.Ã,  You were here this morning.Ã,  Why?

He wants us to beg him to come back or he is an attention whore.

If he is looking for a panacea he just needs to remember what it was on day 1 and 2

Guys...this is just my opinion...but I equate this thread similar to the one about Klark's ass hole. Time for it to go away. Quit feeding this guy.

He stated below that he decided he no longer wanted to be quit. I will walk 100 miles barefoot on glass to help any quitter here. However, I will not politely gargle and beg for more when I guy pisses in my mouth and then says he doesn't want to be quit.

[jaygib]

Gelas,

You are still coming to the site. You were here this morning. Why?

He wants us to beg him to come back or he is an attention whore.

If he is looking for a panacea he just needs to remember what it was on day 1 and 2

[cdforecheck]

I'm not trying to make excuses. I didn't break a promise.Ã,  I just decided I didn't want to quit anymore.

Thats like saying you decided that taking a mule kick to the balls is a good idea. I bet there are other people that would volunteer to dress up as that mule too. What planet are you from? I think today I'd rather accelerate my face falling off and die young then live a long time and be happy. You are a pussy, your "promise" was when you posted day 1 the first time doucher, and you doubled down on that promise when you posted a HOF speech. 'cry' bitch

I decided not to piss and my bladder exploded...but fuck it it's my decision.

[G]

Gelas,

You are still coming to the site. You were here this morning. Why?

[razz]

I'm not trying to make excuses. I didn't break a promise.Ã,  I just decided I didn't want to quit anymore.

Thats like saying you decided that taking a mule kick to the balls is a good idea. I bet there are other people that would volunteer to dress up as that mule too. What planet are you from? I think today I'd rather accelerate my face falling off and die young then live a long time and be happy. You are a pussy, your "promise" was when you posted day 1 the first time doucher, and you doubled down on that promise when you posted a HOF speech. 'cry' bitch

[rob123]

This is why I never posted a HOF speech.Ã,  Hitting HOF isn't "arriving".Ã,  There is no end for the quitting, it takes every single day to log on here and post another day of no nicotine.Ã,  Do I really think that after spending 5+ years addicted to a drug I will suddenly, after 3.5 months be cured?Ã,  No!Ã,  That's why there are so many quit groups on this site!Ã,  That's why there are so many people on here to continue to encourage each other well past the 1 year mark.

The hardest time for me to stay quit was the first week.Ã,  The second hardest was when I hit the 100 days.Ã,  I felt like it was over.Ã,  "Well, that was tough, now let's have a dip" was the idea running through my head.Ã,  This is not a sprint, this is a long long haul that will last for many many years.Ã,  I recognize that and I accept that, and I would rather spend years denying myself an addiction than caving in a day and going back to that thing that was ruining my life all along.



Gelas:Ã,  Bro, we quit with you for over 100 days.Ã,  We all helped each other out, and just seeing peoples' names start stacking up day after day around mine was really encouraging.Ã,  That being said, you know already that when a person fails and caves it does nothing but strengthen the resolve of the group.Ã,  You're not taking anyone else with you, we're going to work hard on that.Ã,  When you feel like quitting again, post a Day 1 and I will be right there to quit with you.Ã,  Until then, enjoy that dip, because you're paying for it with years off your life.

'clap' Well said...You sir GET IT!

MOA

A HOF speech isn't about celebrating the final victory over addiction. I mean, that day will never come.

A HOF speech is about sharing your journey with others, maybe throw in some thank you's. New quitters are typically encouraged to read them. Stories of success are a positive influence for a new quitter.

For me, the speech was also about putting more skin in the game. It's one of the reasons I WILL NOT FAIL. It was just another step in this process that strengthened my quit. It was part of closing the door.

This is just my opinion: not writing a speech is one of those subconscious things that gives some quitters here a easier out to cave. "I didn't write a speech, I don't owe anyone here anything".

I see your point, Andrew. I just wanted to offer a different perspective.

Agree with LA on this one all the way.

I wasn't going to write a speech at all. Then I realized that some people really found helpful stuff in the speeches. I have even seen some say that HoF speeches were one of the only things that got them through.

That's why I titles my speech: This quit is for me, the speech for you


However, if not doing a speech is what works for you then by all means keep it that way!

I have to chime in here and point out, the reason I wrote a HOF speech is because those (the HOF speeches) are what really drove home the notion that folks can quit. Hell, you never know when something you say may inspire another person to quit this nasty ass shit.

If you are worried about being bit in the ass by your HOF speech........... You haven't flipped the switch. I still quit on a daily basis, don't get me wrong, but the switch has been flipped. The reason I am typing this here is because if I ever cave in the future, I WANT people to bring this up and say, "Hey, M'Fer, look what you said. WTF changed with what you said here and what caused a cave...."

The HOF is only a milestone on the quit journey. Just like every other day is (or hitting the 3rd floor, 5th floor, comma, etc.... If you believe that once you hit a certain amount of days, you are done quitting, you are sadly mistaken. This shit ain't based upon a timeframe. It's based on doing whatever you can for one day to keep that shit out of your mouth, rinse, and repeat the same plan the next day.

[The Lone Dipper]

Ive read this shit all day and the only thing I can come up with is Bye Motherfucker. Take your toys and go home boy because this game is for real MEN who are QUIT. You have no fuckin business playin on our playground when you cant respect our one dadgum rule. Do not come back to this site OR fear my quit because it will wreck havoc all over your little pathetic sorry ass. And that (along with not touching nicotine) I will give you my fucking word on as a MAN...something you may learn someday when it is too late...now piss off!!!

[nicofiend]

I just decided I didn't want to quit anymore.

have fun with cancer.

Another ones caves in, and bites the dust after giving the NIC BITCH A RIM JOB!!!! 'B.S.' 'B.S.' 'B.S.'

[sts]

I just decided I didn't want to quit anymore.

have fun with cancer.