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Re: How we act towards cavers
« Reply #59 on: July 20, 2012, 10:33:00 AM »
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Hey Ty,
Where you at?  Haven't seen you post in Oct for 2 days now. Wanna give us an update?
Here's your update. I'm still quit. Another thing i quit was posting roll. All i thought about was dipping because i thought i HAD to post roll. Since i stopped posting roll i haven't thought about throwing a dip in since. Now, go ahead and rip on me so you can feel better about yourself.
ty....no one is going to rip you. It is obvious that your 13 year addiction is different than ours. Gosh, the whole posting roll reminding you of dip, shit who wouldn't stop posting roll. You must be really bad. By the way how's tobacco sales this month? :gmann:

"The hardest part for me is I own a liquor store. Quitting while having to look at it all day long, selling it, ordering it, touching it. It's not gonna be easy......it's gonna be worth it"

Remember that guy? So.....you sell highly addictive carcinogenic compounds daily, but posting roll is what makes you want to throw in a wedge?
Now even your foggy ass will admit that is fucked up. I think you are now experiencing life without nicotine for the first time in your adult life. And you are scared. I know you. I know everybody on this site, because, we all experienced the same flood of fear and funk around 20-30 days. 'help'

Your choice Ty. I know 4 people that quit on their own, and sustained it. I know a fuck load that can't quit. Which are you? You decide. It's your life.

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So you look at dip all day at your store but you won't post roll because it reminds you too much of dip? Am I missing something here?

Guess you don't give fuck about the act of making a promise to your brothers that you won't dip for one day? That's what gets me about this "posting roll makes me think of dip" excuse. For someone to say that you clearly must not appreciate the act of making a promise to your brothers. It's not just putting your name on some list for people to look at and say, "Hey, awesome, Ty's name is on the list today, ladi freaking da!" We don't post roll to remind ourselves of dip. It is a solemn promise that you will not dip for one day. Roll call is sacred and guys like you crap all over everything so that you can satisfy your own self righteousness. So be it, but please go somewhere else if you're not going to buy into the program.

Ty, you've done nothing but criticize the KTC system and accuse of us of being internet bullies for the better part of your quit. Do you really think we are only here to put people down in order to make us feel better about ourselves? If you can't see that we are trying to show you the method that helped us quit nicotine then I'm really not sure what else to tell you.

Bottom line, if you don't want to buy into the KTC program, then why are you still here?

Boy, I sure do feel better about myself now after putting you down Ty. Phew, what a load off my chest! Now I'm off to bully some other poor soul.
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Re: How we act towards cavers
« Reply #58 on: July 20, 2012, 03:57:00 AM »
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Thanks for link
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Re: How we act towards cavers
« Reply #57 on: July 20, 2012, 03:55:00 AM »
Thanks for link

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Re: How we act towards cavers
« Reply #56 on: July 20, 2012, 03:54:00 AM »
Yes I understand that bud but where do I find the quit group at?? Bare with me on this I should have my laptop up and running again next few days until then ill post way your saying

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Re: How we act towards cavers
« Reply #55 on: July 20, 2012, 03:52:00 AM »
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Can I also add out of everything I said all you noticed was part about posting roll? Its guys like you that make this site useless for ppl like TY, call me on bullshit no problem explain to me step by step on how to get to page I need to be on and what to do each day in details and you'll see my roll posted everyday..
Your quit group is october. Go and post your username and what day you are on. Then put add me to roll. The same way you are posting here.
index.php?showtopic=6639. Here is the link for you.

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Re: How we act towards cavers
« Reply #54 on: July 20, 2012, 03:43:00 AM »
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Can I also add out of everything I said all you noticed was part about posting roll? Its guys like you that make this site useless for ppl like TY, call me on bullshit no problem explain to me step by step on how to get to page I need to be on and what to do each day in details and you'll see my roll posted everyday..
Your quit group is october. Go and post your username and what day you are on. Then put add me to roll. The same way you are posting here.

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Re: How we act towards cavers
« Reply #53 on: July 20, 2012, 03:31:00 AM »
Can I also add out of everything I said all you noticed was part about posting roll? Its guys like you that make this site useless for ppl like TY, call me on bullshit no problem explain to me step by step on how to get to page I need to be on and what to do each day in details and you'll see my roll posted everyday..

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Re: How we act towards cavers
« Reply #52 on: July 20, 2012, 03:25:00 AM »
I don't understand what/where your talking about to post this at?? By no means is that an excuse for anything at all, no excuse saying I caved or anything of that nature my quit is as solid today as it was day 1 and shall remain to be..

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Re: How we act towards cavers
« Reply #51 on: July 20, 2012, 03:03:00 AM »
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I don't post roll mainly because I can't do it from my phone and its only internet access I have, my quit has been a struggle over past few weeks but I to know it shall get easier each and every day.. the methods used here I can tell have worked for many people and you ty as myself are new quitters we have no place to argue with the vets here they have already been where we are at and can helps us get to where they are, the guys that cave know they messed up and should be told that I do have to say the language some ppl use towards cabers is a lil harsh but the meaning behind them is that there upset BC they are here to help all we have to do is listen to advice.. only judgment that matters is when your standing in gods presence...stick to your quit ty do whatever u have to do to stay quit..good luck
Brandon this is bullshit. Wedge told you how to do it from your phone early on. Hell, we got a guy in july that does it. Not hard. Goto your group hit add reply and post asking for someone to add you for the day. No excuses!

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Re: How we act towards cavers
« Reply #50 on: July 20, 2012, 02:25:00 AM »
I don't post roll mainly because I can't do it from my phone and its only internet access I have, my quit has been a struggle over past few weeks but I to know it shall get easier each and every day.. the methods used here I can tell have worked for many people and you ty as myself are new quitters we have no place to argue with the vets here they have already been where we are at and can helps us get to where they are, the guys that cave know they messed up and should be told that I do have to say the language some ppl use towards cabers is a lil harsh but the meaning behind them is that there upset BC they are here to help all we have to do is listen to advice.. only judgment that matters is when your standing in gods presence...stick to your quit ty do whatever u have to do to stay quit..good luck

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Re: How we act towards cavers
« Reply #49 on: July 20, 2012, 01:35:00 AM »
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Hey Ty,
Where you at?  Haven't seen you post in Oct for 2 days now. Wanna give us an update?
Here's your update. I'm still quit. Another thing i quit was posting roll. All i thought about was dipping because i thought i HAD to post roll. Since i stopped posting roll i haven't thought about throwing a dip in since. Now, go ahead and rip on me so you can feel better about yourself.
Good for you Ty! You don't need to Post, you don't like the way things happen here, that is fine too! The question that I have is why keep coming back? is there anything here that you see as being positive? I've failed hundreds of times alone, without the support and expectation of keeping my word I would have failed again! If the standard of expectation is lowered to where you think it should be, KTC would be a lame ass quitters excuse to cry over failure! We don't wish quitters luck because luck isn't part of commitment.

GOOD LUCK TY!
I'm happy for you too Ty. I just know that it is hard to quit, I'm on day two and it doesn't seem that bad but I know I'm bound to get another good jones pretty soon. Instead of getting pissed off because there are people that will help you quit, try to say thank you. Thank you everyone for all of the help. Fuck the Dip.

Once again, I'm happy for you and I hope you stay quit. Just don't get pissed at people who are only trying to help you achieve a great thing.
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Re: How we act towards cavers
« Reply #48 on: July 20, 2012, 01:32:00 AM »
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Hey Ty,
Where you at?  Haven't seen you post in Oct for 2 days now. Wanna give us an update?
Here's your update. I'm still quit. Another thing i quit was posting roll. All i thought about was dipping because i thought i HAD to post roll. Since i stopped posting roll i haven't thought about throwing a dip in since. Now, go ahead and rip on me so you can feel better about yourself.
ty....no one is going to rip you. It is obvious that your 13 year addiction is different than ours. Gosh, the whole posting roll reminding you of dip, shit who wouldn't stop posting roll. You must be really bad. By the way how's tobacco sales this month? :gmann:

"The hardest part for me is I own a liquor store. Quitting while having to look at it all day long, selling it, ordering it, touching it. It's not gonna be easy......it's gonna be worth it"

Remember that guy? So.....you sell highly addictive carcinogenic compounds daily, but posting roll is what makes you want to throw in a wedge?
Now even your foggy ass will admit that is fucked up. I think you are now experiencing life without nicotine for the first time in your adult life. And you are scared. I know you. I know everybody on this site, because, we all experienced the same flood of fear and funk around 20-30 days. 'help'

Your choice Ty. I know 4 people that quit on their own, and sustained it. I know a fuck load that can't quit. Which are you? You decide. It's your life.

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Re: How we act towards cavers
« Reply #47 on: July 20, 2012, 01:26:00 AM »
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Hey Ty,
Where you at?  Haven't seen you post in Oct for 2 days now. Wanna give us an update?
Here's your update. I'm still quit. Another thing i quit was posting roll. All i thought about was dipping because i thought i HAD to post roll. Since i stopped posting roll i haven't thought about throwing a dip in since. Now, go ahead and rip on me so you can feel better about yourself.
Good for you Ty! You don't need to Post, you don't like the way things happen here, that is fine too! The question that I have is why keep coming back? is there anything here that you see as being positive? I've failed hundreds of times alone, without the support and expectation of keeping my word I would have failed again! If the standard of expectation is lowered to where you think it should be, KTC would be a lame ass quitters excuse to cry over failure! We don't wish quitters luck because luck isn't part of commitment.

GOOD LUCK TY!
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Re: How we act towards cavers
« Reply #46 on: July 20, 2012, 01:21:00 AM »
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Hey Ty,
Where you at?  Haven't seen you post in Oct for 2 days now. Wanna give us an update?
Here's your update. I'm still quit. Another thing i quit was posting roll. All i thought about was dipping because i thought i HAD to post roll. Since i stopped posting roll i haven't thought about throwing a dip in since. Now, go ahead and rip on me so you can feel better about yourself.
We do things a certain way here because it is proven to be successful. If you do not think the process is for you that is your perogative, the fact people are checking on you shows the kind of support we work with at KTC. It is a simple program, if it is not for you, understood, but don't post here just to cause problems.
Good job with your quit.

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Re: How we act towards cavers
« Reply #45 on: July 20, 2012, 12:36:00 AM »
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Hey Ty,
Where you at? Haven't seen you post in Oct for 2 days now. Wanna give us an update?
Here's your update. I'm still quit. Another thing i quit was posting roll. All i thought about was dipping because i thought i HAD to post roll. Since i stopped posting roll i haven't thought about throwing a dip in since. Now, go ahead and rip on me so you can feel better about yourself.
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