I know I don't have it all figured out by any means but one thing I know is that KTC works if you utilize it and that's why I write this with 54 full days of quit under my belt and working on day 55 right now. I've noticed that the guys who are serious about their quit are the ones who are older. I'm 21 and since I've joined I feel like I'm the only young one that has come in here and taken my quit seriously. It troubles me and saddens me that young guys come here and then piss on us continually. So I ask the question why do you think young guys don't come in ready to tackle this? what can we do to help get through to them? Thanks again KTC and all you awesome quitters for helping me save my life and my money.
Royal, it's the circle of life. When I was 21, taking advice from a 45 year old would have never happened, because when I was 21, I knew everything. Today I am 45, and know less each day. One tends to be more serious when they realize they have less days to be on this Earth, just a fact of life.
I have attempted to reach out to all quitters, but young guys want young guy support, whereas the older fellas tend to accept support from everyone. I find the young guys who succeed accept help from all, and "get" the fact that someday they too will be 40 something, and quitting now will make that day so much better.
All of the above is just my observation, and no disrespect to anyone on the site, just answering a question. Quit on.
I appreciate it Thumblewort. I want to know what you guys think because y'all are the ones who take it serious. As you know young guys come in here often (I've seen it quite a bit in the short amount of time I've been here) and give us a bunch of shit about being ready and a few days later they're gone. I'm looking for answers from the elders as to why this happens so I/we can help these guys get it and solidify their quits.
I was bullet proof when I was 21. I knew everything and nothing could hurt me. I sure wish I was smart like you when I was your age. I mean that in all seriousness. You have a great quit going and we are extremely proud of you. Keep it up brother!
Thanks Grizzly I sure appreciate it man. I'm not joking when I say without this site and the support of everyone who gets it I wouldn't of made it or developed a hatred for tobacco. I'm going to have to come up with some way to help these young guys who come in here stick it out and that's a torch I'm willing to carry and ready to if its what it takes to help young guys that come here understand how important and rewarding it is to be quit.
Just keep doing what you are doing - posting roll, posting support on intros, sending PM's and getting folks on board. That is all any of us can do.
Its a good point, I think to some extent younger guys haven't hit the rock bottom that the older guys have. I know when I found this site I really didn't know if I had it in me to stay quit (I had made so many promises that I kept breaking), so I was happy to accept as much help and support as I could get. When I was your age, I didn't realize I was truly addicted to a drug, felt I could quit anyday if I wanted to, and wasn't really interested in listening to older guys lecturing me about anything. I guess it all comes back to you Royal having the maturity and understanding to be a quitter, something I wish I had then. I'm quit with you today kid! Keep grinding.
Thumblewort and Dagranger thanks for the support guys! You don't know how much I appreciate it. Glad to be quit with you guys
Young guys are smart enough to know they should quit, but too dumb follow through once they find out how hard it is. I know I was, and I didn't start until I was 25. I'm probably the dumbest asshole on the site.
Once the young bucks realize quitting sucks, they either slither like snakes back out the ktc door or they get all swoll up and leave making a ruckus.
The ruckus usually is a combo of addict logic and youthful stupidity.
They aren't as addicted as us "older" guys because they haven't used as long as we did. We used for X amount of years and didn't get cancer so they can too. They live a different "younger" lifestyle and don't have time to post roll. Life is short, so they might as well do something they like because they could get hit by a bus tomorrow. Their Grandpa started smoking at age 10 and lived to be 90, etc...
Once you get a little older, you realize life is flying by and you want to enjoy the ride as long as possible. You realize maybe you're not bulletproof, and put max effort into your quit.
Bottom line, Cowboy... you're probably one of the smartest mother fuckers here. A lot of guys here wish they would have quit at your age. Keep up the good work!!!
Quit on....