I am requesting an admin to please delete my account. I have posted reasons why in other areas of this forum. I am 6 days into my quit and doing very well. I have no withdraws, no urges, no mood swings, and feeling awesome. However, I will not tolerate one of your members messaging me, cussing at me, calling me names, calling me a hypocrite by telling me that God isn't real or God won't help me in my steps to being nicotine free. Being a Christian, I was appalled at his choice of words and really taken back. I wish to be permanently removed from KTC and have my profile completed deleted, since I cannot do it myself. Please do this as soon as possible.
ok need to speak up as someone who has seen quite a bit in over 4 years as to what has happened from afar and what all is capable at this site.
1 - this site does entail a brutal honesty when is comes to some. It tells the truth by the living example of those who have made it, an those who did make it be still paid the ultimate price with their own lives. It also has show what can happen when the lessons that have been tried to teach each person are not followed (as they return with a new day 1) (***note this is not the rules but the lessons).
2 - there are examples as you go back where even I say that lines get crossed in the common decency. Those examples include personal attacks against family members (wives, children), and I do have to say this case an attack against a person's religion. This is all individual based and not as a rule for this site (well at least I hope not as I never saw it written).
the grey part comes when these 2 get oh so very close to merging together. so people need to be careful.
I can only hope that PPM you can discern that the fault of one or two does not represent the whole, as in only a week, there is no way that the mind and body can re-construct itself in such a quick time (it is humanly impossible). And the lessons to learn (the how to deal with life circumstances in the absence of nicotine), are so great that one needs to learn when they want to quit.
its an individual decision but can lead to the education of many