Its Time

[srans]

Day 6 and still nic free. Have had some big family issues come up that with my mother, sisters that I now need to take care of this weekend (need to travel to go and fix!) Funny thing is that I previously used to use this as an excuse to dip, but I don't feel the urge. I am sure that without this group, tools and support - it would be an easy cave excuse - but no way!!!

but no way!!!

This ^^^^ comes from deep, srans likey. The way i see it you've posted up for 6 days and caving is off the table. I pray all goes well with the families. I pray your trip goes well and when you get back everything is hunky dory.

It's nice to see someone with this kind of determination and drive. The other day someone caved because their hooch didn't come in the mail. WTF! Great job my friend. Keep your word, one day at a time. It's worth it.

[slinger]

Congrats on six days. Stay strong. There's no good excuse to start dipping again. Take advantage of the tools and support here. Quitting with you today.

[Mupig]

Day 6 and still nic free. Have had some big family issues come up that with my mother, sisters that I now need to take care of this weekend (need to travel to go and fix!) Funny thing is that I previously used to use this as an excuse to dip, but I don't feel the urge. I am sure that without this group, tools and support - it would be an easy cave excuse - but no way!!!

[Mupig]

Day 5 no nic. Feeling really good about this. My wife and family are starting to notice a different me. (BTW - I haven't told them I quit - as I have let them down too many times about promising to quit). I need to do this for myself!!!!

This will be the first weekend nic free. I am sure there will be some rough patches - but will continue to plow through. Thanks to all the support and from my 2014 July Quit Group! Believe it or not - it helps.

I don't know that I completely agree with your decision to keep your quit secret. Now... it's your life, obviously, do what you will... this is just my $.02.

Add another layer of accountability bro... one that is closer and more immediate... tell your family. Your wife at the very least. You will be surprised at how that extra layer can really put some fire in your quit. I think most of the quitters here will tell you the same thing. Not telling them for fear of failing them is a chink in your armor. Your attitude needs to be one of resolution. You WON'T fail them because you are HERE! Take all the hiding, hoping, and trying... and piss on them. You're done. You're quit. Own it.

Rock on...

Listen to applejack. I would even show your wife KTC and let her see what it's all about.

We take our quits extremely seriously here and we eliminate caving as an option every damn day by pledging our no nic promises to each other each morning. If you stick around and work the plan you will succeed. Go all in brother. Make this your final quit. Commit to it and work the plan.

AJ and Claws have it right. I told everybody. Coworkers, convenience store clerks, mom and dad in law, brothers, wife, kids...everyone I know. The more layers of armor you can strap on the better. Everyday someone asks me how I am doing with quitting. I tell them how many days. They laugh that I know the exact day count. I never forget that KTC is the layer of Kevlar that I cannot survive without. Quit with you today MUPig!

Good stuff and good advice!

[rdad]

Day 5 no nic. Feeling really good about this. My wife and family are starting to notice a different me. (BTW - I haven't told them I quit - as I have let them down too many times about promising to quit). I need to do this for myself!!!!

This will be the first weekend nic free. I am sure there will be some rough patches - but will continue to plow through. Thanks to all the support and from my 2014 July Quit Group! Believe it or not - it helps.

I don't know that I completely agree with your decision to keep your quit secret. Now... it's your life, obviously, do what you will... this is just my $.02.

Add another layer of accountability bro... one that is closer and more immediate... tell your family. Your wife at the very least. You will be surprised at how that extra layer can really put some fire in your quit. I think most of the quitters here will tell you the same thing. Not telling them for fear of failing them is a chink in your armor. Your attitude needs to be one of resolution. You WON'T fail them because you are HERE! Take all the hiding, hoping, and trying... and piss on them. You're done. You're quit. Own it.

Rock on...

Listen to applejack. I would even show your wife KTC and let her see what it's all about.

We take our quits extremely seriously here and we eliminate caving as an option every damn day by pledging our no nic promises to each other each morning. If you stick around and work the plan you will succeed. Go all in brother. Make this your final quit. Commit to it and work the plan.

AJ and Claws have it right. I told everybody. Coworkers, convenience store clerks, mom and dad in law, brothers, wife, kids...everyone I know. The more layers of armor you can strap on the better. Everyday someone asks me how I am doing with quitting. I tell them how many days. They laugh that I know the exact day count. I never forget that KTC is the layer of Kevlar that I cannot survive without. Quit with you today MUPig!

[Grizzlyhasclaws]

Day 5 no nic. Feeling really good about this. My wife and family are starting to notice a different me. (BTW - I haven't told them I quit - as I have let them down too many times about promising to quit). I need to do this for myself!!!!

This will be the first weekend nic free. I am sure there will be some rough patches - but will continue to plow through. Thanks to all the support and from my 2014 July Quit Group! Believe it or not - it helps.

I don't know that I completely agree with your decision to keep your quit secret. Now... it's your life, obviously, do what you will... this is just my $.02.

Add another layer of accountability bro... one that is closer and more immediate... tell your family. Your wife at the very least. You will be surprised at how that extra layer can really put some fire in your quit. I think most of the quitters here will tell you the same thing. Not telling them for fear of failing them is a chink in your armor. Your attitude needs to be one of resolution. You WON'T fail them because you are HERE! Take all the hiding, hoping, and trying... and piss on them. You're done. You're quit. Own it.

Rock on...

Listen to applejack. I would even show your wife KTC and let her see what it's all about.

We take our quits extremely seriously here and we eliminate caving as an option every damn day by pledging our no nic promises to each other each morning. If you stick around and work the plan you will succeed. Go all in brother. Make this your final quit. Commit to it and work the plan.

[AppleJack]

Day 5 no nic. Feeling really good about this. My wife and family are starting to notice a different me. (BTW - I haven't told them I quit - as I have let them down too many times about promising to quit). I need to do this for myself!!!!

This will be the first weekend nic free. I am sure there will be some rough patches - but will continue to plow through. Thanks to all the support and from my 2014 July Quit Group! Believe it or not - it helps.

I don't know that I completely agree with your decision to keep your quit secret. Now... it's your life, obviously, do what you will... this is just my $.02.

Add another layer of accountability bro... one that is closer and more immediate... tell your family. Your wife at the very least. You will be surprised at how that extra layer can really put some fire in your quit. I think most of the quitters here will tell you the same thing. Not telling them for fear of failing them is a chink in your armor. Your attitude needs to be one of resolution. You WON'T fail them because you are HERE! Take all the hiding, hoping, and trying... and piss on them. You're done. You're quit. Own it.

Rock on...

[Mupig]

Day 5 no nic. Feeling really good about this. My wife and family are starting to notice a different me. (BTW - I haven't told them I quit - as I have let them down too many times about promising to quit). I need to do this for myself!!!!

This will be the first weekend nic free. I am sure there will be some rough patches - but will continue to plow through. Thanks to all the support and from my 2014 July Quit Group! Believe it or not - it helps.

[30isEnuff]

Welcome Pig to the Best of your Life.
We were not born with the poison in our mouths!
You can do this ODAAT and NAFAR.
You're in the right place to get quit and stay quit.
Posting roll is sacred....just do it and keep your word and your quit days will stack up faster than titty dancers new boob job!
Read and learn. Chat and stay strong.
1 problem + nicotine = 2 problems.

Cheers.
You got this brother.

[yemtig]

Keep it up pig!! Hopefully you have walked through the fog and its starting to burn off...

Post roll every damn day!! Never miss... I do it first thing in the am or if I even wake up in the middle of the night..

Make some friends and people that are going through the same days as yourself... Text or call someone EDD!!! Point being, build a web of support with both newbies and vets alike...

Lean on your quit group and if you give your word for the day and post roll, remember that July 2014 DOES NOT GIVE YOU PERMISSION TO CAVE!!!! DONT EVEN THINK FOR A MOMENT ABOUT IT...

And last but not least, wake up each and every day and QLF!!!! ODDDAAT (One Dip Destroyer Day At A Time)..... Stay on track, you are doing GREAT!! QLF with you today friend....

[SAM83]

Good to meet you in chat! Welcome!

[Nomore1011]

Quit with you today! and everyday from here on out. PM if you need a number!

[E&C's Dad]

Quitting with you today. I am day 29 feeling pretty good most days. Its going to suck until it doesn't and then it won't.

One Day At A Time!

[Thumblewort]

I quit with you today pig, and not just because pigs make me hungry and horny.

[Radman]

Keep on taking it one day and one battle at a time. I have tried to "quit forever" and failed. It is too tough a task. Very few can get their head around it. It is, on the other hand, fairly simple to quit for 24 hours. I can endure damn near anything for a day. We'll meet back here tomorrow and discuss it again.

What say you??