Reflections @ 800
I had to take a fierce dump this morning. But every time I went to our men's room, someone was in the stall...the only one in the building. I held my poo for close to 45 minutes. Part agony, part ecstasy. I kept eking out little rumblings. The top of my boxers were wet, but I couldn't tell if it was upper-ass sweat from the pressure of stifling back a log or if I ripped some diarrhea.
I shit my pants pretty badly, it turned out, but that's not what I'm here to talk about.
Rather, the incident got me thinking about the sort of things I was going through 2+ years ago. One of which was that I didn't take a shit for more than a week when I quit. Without the laxative qualities of nicotine, I got all bound up.
I also had a hair-trigger temper. I managed to spare my wife the brunt of it. I spent every second I could with my little boy, in whose presence I couldn't possibly be upset. My poor dog, though...that was another story. I was all sorts of mean to her. I still feel bad about it. I mean, I laugh about it, because she was an idiot, but I still feel bad.
I was terrified during the first few weeks of my quit. Not of my health, but of an existence without my only crutch; my lifelong mate. I wasn't as fortunate as many of my other brothers, who were genuinely disgusted with their habits and couldn't find a single redeeming quality for tobacco. (I could identify many, which made the quitting that much harder.)
I found extreme value in KTC almost immediately, but that didn't help much - at least not directly. It was all about me and my word; having skin in the game; forging relationships that would be worth something and, therefore, be impossible to jeopardize. The shit the vets said made theoretical sense, but I had to take it all as a leap of faith. At Day 6 or Day 30 or Day 77, someone could have tattooed "It gets easier" on my dick, and I still would have doubted it.
But that was immaterial. It didn't matter to me if every day was as hard - or even harder - than the preceding day. I wasn't going to give up. I still don't. It hasn't changed a bit.
I have a lot of reflections. But mainly, I am still proud and amazed that I am here, quit. It's doable. I am proof of it. You, dear reader, are no more of a dirtbag addict than I am. No one loved tobacco more than I did. No one craved harder. So, no one quits harder. I am the Genghis Khan of Quit. I am fucking immortal. No one can touch me.
I think you're a maniac quitter, too. Just don't let me down. I will ravage you.