Big Tobacco sets traps and plants landmines to get your addicted ass to cave. I see through their lies and deceit. I hate them and fight them. That's what keeps me quit and always on guard. They have the advantage because we are addicts. Doesn't mean they will win. Just know their game! If full 100% ownership keeps you quit. Great! For me 100% hatred of those killers keeps me quit.Â
I am just glad that I quit with you zam, Eric, rgross, coachsteve and KTC. We all say, "Fuck Tobacco". I am Quit!
Whom ever Intro this is, I apologize for hijacking, I will go back and poof my posts so that it isn't so lengthy.
Your post are fine with me. It's my thread. Discussion is why I post stuff here.
Good discussion, I'll hijack for a second here Zam...
I align more with your thinking on this. While I have no love loss for UST, they are figuratively dead to me. They get no more of my money, time or energy. Tobacco is simply off the table as any option now, it is part of my past only. If I take full responsibility for chewing, I can take full responsiblity for staying quit.
One of the things that makes this site work well is the group accountability, the social interaction with other quitters. I think we all need those things when we begin our quits. Some will need them forever. But ultimately I think if you are only quitting because of KTC brothers/peer re-inforcement you will eventually cave because you haven't reached 100% accountability to yourself.
Man up and remove it as an option in your life. If necessary, change your lifestyle, your other habits/addictions, even your friends. Hold yourself accountable first and foremost. Be the master of yourself. At some point, personal accountability should replace or at least augment peer accountability.
Again, my advocacy for full individual responsibility is NOT linked the moral/legal issues of marketing nicotine. Â Â Â
Tony, I obviously agree with what you are saying, to some extent. Â However, your point is certainly easily and often misunderstood by the newest of quitters. I think the fear of this
"misunderstanding"shades the debate about responsibility.
Mark, when evaluating life decisions I try to take the world as it is, not how I wish it to be. Â Loan sharks will attempt to take advantage of my ignorance. Â The Bernie Madoffs will always be there to take advantage of my laziness and greed. Â Â Capital One tells me how much better life will be if I charge on their card. Â Harrah's slots will make me rich and good looking. Â Even if you don't have a pot to piss in, you simply MUST get the Dish-700 package, now only 29.99
* Â for the first month! Â I'll get washboard abs while masturbating if I learn the secrets in new CDrom I can purchase for only 3 easy payments. Â I'm from the government, and I'm here to help. Â Â And finally, yes, "Copenhagen is relaxing and puts hair on you chest, only real men can handle it."Â Â
This stuff will never change. Â Â I applaud your efforts against big tobacco, but unfortunately, big tobacco is just one of thousands of evils that we face every day, and will continue to face every day. Â
Frankly, I would have it no other way.