Tyler,
You already know what you have to to, but it is really fucking hard...way too hard for someone half-assing around. I might be misreading your intial post, but you don't sound serious. You might want to just come back when you're serious.
This place isn't for "trying" or "taking a break." You won't be successful if you're looking for tips or tricks. But if you're serious...and I mean really fucking serious...click on the Welcome Center Link above and start reading. Read the HoF speeches. Click on the KilltheCan.org link and read the Kern Family Story.
If you're ready to commit to be free, then YOU CAN DO IT. If you're in, I'm right behind you. But if you're just kicking the tires...this site ain't for you. The decision is yours...