Hello and welcome copegal!
I hope we haven't startled you too badly. I wanted to take a minute to explain the strong reaction you received so you can better understand the environment you are entering.
As bigwhitebeast said, this is a no nicotine, cold turkey, tobacco cessation site. So when you said you were going to have a pinch, it was almost like you stuck your head into an Alcoholics Anonymous meeting and said, "Hey, is there where I go to get sober? Ok, just checking, I'm gonna go have a drink!"
I'm sure it wasn't your intention, but it was almost a taunt to us.
As diesel has demonstrated (like a bawse!) we take quitting tobacco VERY seriously here, as we should, since its life and death. Says so right on that can you stick your fingers in every day. This place saves lives, and we want to help you save yours.
If you choose to quit our way, you'll be placed in a group based on when you quit. For instance, if you quit today you'd go into the November group. The program is 100 days of no nicotine of any kind. If you reach 100 days, you'll be inducted into the quit Hall of Fame. It's called the November group because its members will reach the HOF in Nov.
Each day, you promise the people of your quit group and this site that you will not use any form of nicotine that day by "posting roll". You keep your promise for that one day, go to sleep satisfied that you kept your word and your quit, then repeat.
While now it may seem daunting, even impossible to think of being quit for 100 days, you can do anything for one day. Thus our one-day approach. To put it simply,
1. Post roll (your promise not to use)
2. Keep your promise
3. Repeat
That's how we quit. Quit with us and stop being a slave to a plant. Stop spending $1400 a year. Most importantly stop KILLING YOURSELF WITH TOBACCO.
Hope to see you in November, ask anyone questions and they will help you. Don't worry, we were all new here once, confused by everything from how it works to how to post, and just wanting to quit. We are here to quit with you if you'll quit with us.