Suprisingly the physical withdrawl from nicotene and the accompanying symptoms (sweats, rage, fog, nervousness, etc) did not really affect me much during my early quit. It has been more of a struggle with what you refer to as the oral fixation (the first person the chimes in and says that I can blow them will get their ass kicked). I have used fake as a crutch to bridge through my quit. I used to feel guilty about it. And for those that have been able to go absolutely cold turkey I give high props. But that kind of quit was not for me. Many a fine quitter uses or at least keeps a can of fake around for emergencies. The first thing is to free yourswelf of all things nicotene. Use whateverthefuck you have to use. Down the road quit the oral fixation. Personally I have given myself a 1 year timeline. If in a year I am still dipping fake then I will find a kill the Fake can web site and tee the fuck off on it too. For now I am proud to be 52 days free of the reaql shit and maintaining a damn fine quit.
YOU CAN DO THIS
MOA
I am with you MOA. The fake is fine. I doubt my wife will bitch about minty breath. :D Do what you got to do to stop the dip and stay quit.
I got your oral fixation right here...oh we not talking about that?
I gave into eating everything in sight when i quit. I gained about 25lbs in fifty days had to go out and buy new jeans twice. Around day fifty or so I decided to work on the oral fixation part of my quit....that was, to me worse than the three day suck and the 2 week fog....it was a good thing I had my plan in place and was a quittin fool. I ended up shoveling the whole freaking neighborhood during the snow storms, because all the nervous energy I had...
Anyway, quit the nicotine first. Do anything ,but nicotine. if you have to suck your best friend to stay quit... do it! That is how important this should be to you.
on a side note....I used gobstopper jawbreakers and low sodium sunflower seeds to get past the craves......and lots and lots of text messeges out to my fellow quit brothers...
The sugar helped keep my mood level and gave my mouth something to do...the texts helped me find strength to stay with it....and when this place gets quiet there is a lot of reading to do... words of wisdom is always awesome!