Anyone know how to get to the wildcard section... cant seem to find it anywhere
index.php?showforum=11
Cost of admission is quit...
Good to see you sir.
How do I get there without using the link? Good to see you too buddy
Go to the main page, scroll down to where it says "NON DIPPING DISCUSSIONS" and you should see it in there.
You're member #31 and can't find the wildcard thread?
No wonder you posted a smooth day 1 in may 12.
Oh, he's posted "smooth" day 1's in many quit groups.
I bet he still wonders why success is elusive.
Some people make things happen. Some people watch things happen. Some people wonder what happened.
When it comes to quitting, I know which category I'm in. It sounds like Highway is a wondering spectator.
Well this was a good start fellas... nice to meet you too
Ive met you damn every time you came crawling back to this site after caving.
In fact, I'm sick of meeting you.
Plan on doing any quitting, or following any advice this time, or do you plan to just come in here and talk some shit for a while and then being on your way with a fat lip once again?
Forgive me for not rolling out the red carpet for a retread caver. May 12 is a strong group. You need them a helluva lot more than they need you.
PS - If you're looking to eschew accountability, there's this other site....
I love Jesus
Sorry but if I may...
How many times have we all tried quitting and FAILED? I know I'm just a newbie to this site but away from it I have tried time and time again. This site has helped me shit tons and its great but I am probably on attempt 20 something right now.
You don't know this guy's story. I had different reasons for caving each time and it sucked ass. I don't thing the guy needs more people telling him how much he blows because he can't beat it.
He keeps coming back here for help. Some people never try to quit, at least he's making an attempt even if it has been weak in the past.
Let's face it, we have all been there. For fuck sake just ignore him if you can't get past the fact that he's failed. We have all fucking failed at a lot in our lives, no one is perfect, stop acting like you all are.
You're in the wrong place, RKO. We don't try or attempt here, we quit.
You know how I know his excuses weren't good enough? No excuse is good enough. I will not dip no matter what. There is no reason to dip, it doesnt solve anything. It just causes slavery and cancer.
If we all had your (shitty) attitude, this site would be full of cavers, not quitters. As a matter fact, there is another site just like that. You may find it more to your liking. It does seem like your goal is to try, whereas ours is to succeed.
As far as 48, dude is a troll. He stops by here every so often, floods the site with nonsense, and then disappears. Wait a bit, then he'll come back and do it all over. He won't succeed until his attitude changes, which by the smartassedness I've seen so far, it hasn't. That tells me he isn here to quit, just stir up more shit, in which case we don't need him.
You, sir, need an attitude change yourself (if success is your goal). Continue taking up for failure if you like, but I'd suggest following success instead.
My attitude is SHITTY? SERIOUSLY? I'm on day #38 and I'm saying no to the nic bitch. I'm saying everyone including yourself has TRIED to quit before and FAILED. If you deny that you're a fucking liar.
I have stayed out of most shit but attacking people for trying to a do something good for their life is wrong in my book. Maybe it was the way I was raised. People fail a shit ton in everything before they succeed. Bill Gates didn't become a billionaire after his first idea.
My attitude is far from shitty, sir. If anyone needs a change of attitude it is you. Maybe I'm just the more supportive type and received more love as a child therefore you have to be such a fuckin asshole to everyone.
My mom and dad taught me better.
As for 48 being a troll, that's fine. Let him troll around. Ignore the guy. He wants to quit he will but far from me to say he's not welcome here or any of you for that matter.
Try. Try. Try. I've about had it wih try.
Of course, I tried and failed before. The reason I failed is because I tried. I had yet to realize that the decision is mine and mine alone. Just like you right now. And unless you learn it soon, you are destined to fail.
I can try to win the lotto by buying a ticket, then it's completely out my hands. Not this. I promise you that dip will not jump into either of our mouths all by itself. If it gets there, it was put there as a result of a decision we made. A decision to fail at quitting.
I have decided that I will not fail. There is no luck involved. Period.
And all this I tell you out of support. I believe in honesty, not feelings. Sur I could say things that might make you feel better, but that isn't my goal. My goal is to help you succed in quitting. And by telling that trying is good enough, I have not helped one bit. I've only made you feel better. I promise you that once you realize the freedom you have knowing that it is entirely your decision, then you will feel much better than you would at any of my words.
If you want words aimed at making failure feel better, there is a site for that. This place is all about success, even if our honesty doesn't feel good at the moment.
Entirely your choice:
Feel good about failing briefly because someone offered kind words, or feel good about quitting because you have success, helped out by some brutal honesty along the way.
Quit or don't. No try about it.
