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Re: General Discussion - 2014
« Reply #250 on: February 16, 2014, 03:02:00 AM »
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I used to tell my fiancé I have "stomach" issues to go to the bathroom and dip. I would sit in there for a good half hour making noises so she thinks I'm sick. I just realized those habits we form stick around I'm in here now so I could go on KTC without her asking any questions. Anyone else notice any habits they picked up cause of dip stickin around?
I can tell you with 100% certainty that there is not one habit that you or I picked up that someone here has not experienced. Not one.

We were all assholes. You know how many times I got out of the shower only to notice black flakes on my feet because I HAD to dip in the shower? Too fucking many to count!!! Hell, I read today someone saying they don't miss spitting on their dick when they were taking a shit. So that right there tells me you're not alone.

Fuck it though. The past is the past. No use dwelling on it. If anything use it as motivation to remain quit. You see the error if your ways, now do something about it.

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Re: General Discussion - 2014
« Reply #249 on: February 16, 2014, 02:54:00 AM »
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I have a question for as many people that will answer it.
Is paranoia a normal symptom of quitting?
I don't think there is any "normal thing" about quitting, other than it sucked. I assume by paranoia you mean you fear going back to dipping. If that's it, I'd say we all at first fear that, but now most fear posting a day 1 again and getting your ass handed to you. Lol
I think paranoia and apprehension were squashed a bit by the nicotine. With a clean system, what you're probably feeling is system wide test of your emotions from time to time until 100% healed. The brain is one complex organ. In my case it's also small.
Sluggo should be feeling better faster than us then. Lucky bastard! 'crackup'
I don't know about you HG but for me one of the reasons I became addicted and remained addicted for so long was a means of avoiding a bunch of mental health issues. I know I'm not alone, check out the anxiety and depression discussion in the wildcard section. Some of this has healed its self and others I've worked threw with professional help and some medication. I want to stress one important thing about any mental health issue; NEVER be ashamed or afraid to seek professional help. I waited over 30 years to admit I couldn't control my thoughts, it wasn't till I came very close to checking myself out of this life that I sought help. For me I've been working on healing my brain for and see progress. I send my condolences to Slug.go.
Piggy backing on what WT said. When I quit I got high anxiety, high anxiety tends to really heighten your senses, especially in a negative way.

For instance before I quit if I got a weird pain or funny feeling somewhere on my body I didn't think twice about it and brushed it off as no big deal, like most people.

After I quit and experienced anxiety issues, the slightest twitch or tingle got me thinking the worst. Heck, I couldn't watch any crime shows or the local news as negative or violent stories got me scared. I even once ate chicken noodle soup for 2 weeks straight, because I somehow convinced myself that it was the only food that made me feel normal.

So to answer your question, yes, at least in my case paranoia was a part of quitting. However it was anxiety that was triggering it. I found all this out by going to a counselor.

Like WT said, don't be afraid or too ashamed to go and talk to a professional if this keeps up. Thats their job. Also like WT said, hop on over to the anxiety and depression forum in the wildcard section. I think you will find some guys who can relate.

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"You can fight without ever winning, but never ever win, win without a fight".
"Onion rings...funyons. A connection? Yeah. I fucking think so."
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"In a world that seems so small, I can't stop thinking big"
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Re: General Discussion - 2014
« Reply #248 on: February 15, 2014, 12:14:00 PM »
Jackwagins are hitting half comma's right now. We sure have missed all of our supporters here recently. Come show the Wagins some love over in January '13

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Re: General Discussion - 2014
« Reply #247 on: February 15, 2014, 09:50:00 AM »
I used to tell my fiancé I have "stomach" issues to go to the bathroom and dip. I would sit in there for a good half hour making noises so she thinks I'm sick. I just realized those habits we form stick around I'm in here now so I could go on KTC without her asking any questions. Anyone else notice any habits they picked up cause of dip stickin around?
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Re: General Discussion - 2014
« Reply #246 on: February 15, 2014, 07:23:00 AM »
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Has anyone else noticed that the dumbest shit can happen and you retort (in your mind) with WELL I HAVE TO HAVE A DIP! Ya know it can be things like you fight with your wife because of your newly formed hostility toward the world, and you say it. But I have noticed it with others and with myself  with smaller things.  BANG, damn I slammed my hand in the door, well i have to have a dip!!!... DAMN I stubbed my toe, THATS IT I HAVE TO HAVE A DIP!!!!.

Yes I do realize that this sounds retarded and NO I am not considering caving. Just wanted to see if anyone else has noticed this, kinda funny when you look at it from a third party point of view.
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Re: General Discussion - 2014
« Reply #245 on: February 14, 2014, 10:20:00 PM »
Has anyone else noticed that the dumbest shit can happen and you retort (in your mind) with WELL I HAVE TO HAVE A DIP! Ya know it can be things like you fight with your wife because of your newly formed hostility toward the world, and you say it. But I have noticed it with others and with myself with smaller things. BANG, damn I slammed my hand in the door, well i have to have a dip!!!... DAMN I stubbed my toe, THATS IT I HAVE TO HAVE A DIP!!!!.

Yes I do realize that this sounds retarded and NO I am not considering caving. Just wanted to see if anyone else has noticed this, kinda funny when you look at it from a third party point of view.
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Re: General Discussion - 2014
« Reply #244 on: February 14, 2014, 08:05:00 PM »
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Quote from: Healthygums
I have a question for as many people that will answer it.
Is paranoia a normal symptom of quitting?
I don't think there is any "normal thing" about quitting, other than it sucked. I assume by paranoia you mean you fear going back to dipping. If that's it, I'd say we all at first fear that, but now most fear posting a day 1 again and getting your ass handed to you. Lol
I think paranoia and apprehension were squashed a bit by the nicotine. With a clean system, what you're probably feeling is system wide test of your emotions from time to time until 100% healed. The brain is one complex organ. In my case it's also small.
Sluggo should be feeling better faster than us then. Lucky bastard! 'crackup'
I don't know about you HG but for me one of the reasons I became addicted and remained addicted for so long was a means of avoiding a bunch of mental health issues. I know I'm not alone, check out the anxiety and depression discussion in the wildcard section. Some of this has healed its self and others I've worked threw with professional help and some medication. I want to stress one important thing about any mental health issue; NEVER be ashamed or afraid to seek professional help. I waited over 30 years to admit I couldn't control my thoughts, it wasn't till I came very close to checking myself out of this life that I sought help. For me I've been working on healing my brain for and see progress. I send my condolences to Slug.go.
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Re: General Discussion - 2014
« Reply #243 on: February 14, 2014, 04:56:00 PM »
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Quote from: Healthygums
I have a question for as many people that will answer it.
Is paranoia a normal symptom of quitting?
I don't think there is any "normal thing" about quitting, other than it sucked. I assume by paranoia you mean you fear going back to dipping. If that's it, I'd say we all at first fear that, but now most fear posting a day 1 again and getting your ass handed to you. Lol
I think paranoia and apprehension were squashed a bit by the nicotine. With a clean system, what you're probably feeling is system wide test of your emotions from time to time until 100% healed. The brain is one complex organ. In my case it's also small.
Sluggo should be feeling better faster than us then. Lucky bastard! 'crackup'

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Re: General Discussion - 2014
« Reply #242 on: February 14, 2014, 02:58:00 PM »
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Quote from: Healthygums
I have a question for as many people that will answer it.
Is paranoia a normal symptom of quitting?
I don't think there is any "normal thing" about quitting, other than it sucked. I assume by paranoia you mean you fear going back to dipping. If that's it, I'd say we all at first fear that, but now most fear posting a day 1 again and getting your ass handed to you. Lol
I think paranoia and apprehension were squashed a bit by the nicotine. With a clean system, what you're probably feeling is system wide test of your emotions from time to time until 100% healed. The brain is one complex organ. In my case it's also small.
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Re: General Discussion - 2014
« Reply #241 on: February 14, 2014, 10:19:00 AM »
Had a dream last night I caved and packed a lip. Woke up this morning thankful it wasn't real.

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Re: General Discussion - 2014
« Reply #240 on: February 13, 2014, 10:55:00 PM »
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I have a question for as many people that will answer it.
Is paranoia a normal symptom of quitting?
I don't think there is any "normal thing" about quitting, other than it sucked. I assume by paranoia you mean you fear going back to dipping. If that's it, I'd say we all at first fear that, but now most fear posting a day 1 again and getting your ass handed to you. Lol
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Re: General Discussion - 2014
« Reply #239 on: February 13, 2014, 10:25:00 PM »
I have a question for as many people that will answer it.
Is paranoia a normal symptom of quitting?

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Re: General Discussion - 2014
« Reply #238 on: February 13, 2014, 08:24:00 PM »
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Just came back to visit on my one year anniversary of quitting. So, all you new guys can do it.  You dont need it for work, or for hunting, or for working on projects around the house. Quit today.

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Congrats Bob! Thanks for popping in. I'm curious to know your plan to make it to 366 and 367. The only guarantee I've ever known was a daily promise which is my reason for asking. That's not to say there aren't different ways, I just don't know 'em, Bob. We've lost a bunch a folks to the craves and caves of our addiction over the past year. It seems like you could have made a difference, maybe helped someone's quit. Do you have any phone numbers? Do you need any? Do you text? Have you ever sent a PM to an fng? When life happens, what's your plan? Are you on the facebook? I've noticed that when folks just visit on occasion, they don't seem to have a very good track record. At a minimum, maybe just post roll for yourself? The odds seem to be proportional to your level of accountability and dedication.
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Re: General Discussion - 2014
« Reply #237 on: February 13, 2014, 09:11:00 AM »
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Just came back to visit on my one year anniversary of quitting. So, all you new guys can do it. You dont need it for work, or for hunting, or for working on projects around the house. Quit today.

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Congrats Bob! Thanks for popping in. I'm curious to know your plan to make it to 366 and 367. The only guarantee I've ever known was a daily promise which is my reason for asking. That's not to say there aren't different ways, I just don't know 'em, Bob. We've lost a bunch a folks to the craves and caves of our addiction over the past year. It seems like you could have made a difference, maybe helped someone's quit. Do you have any phone numbers? Do you need any? Do you text? Have you ever sent a PM to an fng? When life happens, what's your plan? Are you on the facebook? I've noticed that when folks just visit on occasion, they don't seem to have a very good track record. At a minimum, maybe just post roll for yourself? The odds seem to be proportional to your level of accountability and dedication.

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Re: General Discussion - 2014
« Reply #236 on: February 13, 2014, 06:33:00 AM »
Just came back to visit on my one year anniversary of quitting. So, all you new guys can do it. You dont need it for work, or for hunting, or for working on projects around the house. Quit today.

Bob