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Re: this time is for real
« Reply #357 on: December 04, 2015, 12:01:00 PM »
Thanks for everything Candy. I could not have gotten here without the support and guidance you have bestowed along the way. You are one badass quitter and I'd go to quit battle with you in my corner every day of the week. Congrats on the 5th floor, you've earned every ounce of it.
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Re: this time is for real
« Reply #356 on: December 04, 2015, 11:28:00 AM »
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Congrats on the big 5-0-0
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Re: this time is for real
« Reply #355 on: December 04, 2015, 09:32:00 AM »
Congrats on the big 5-0-0

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Re: this time is for real
« Reply #354 on: December 04, 2015, 05:48:00 AM »
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Candi... Thank you so much for helping me and guiding me through some difficult times adjusting to a nic free existence.
I still have a ways to go, but the foundation you helped me lay is strong.

Congrats on your 500 days!! I quit with ewe today!

Cheers! 'party2'
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Re: this time is for real
« Reply #353 on: December 04, 2015, 05:38:00 AM »
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Candi... Thank you so much for helping me and guiding me through some difficult times adjusting to a nic free existence.
I still have a ways to go, but the foundation you helped me lay is strong.

Congrats on your 500 days!! I quit with ewe today!

Cheers! 'party2'
500 just simply awesome, welcome to the half dangle

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Re: this time is for real
« Reply #352 on: December 04, 2015, 04:16:00 AM »
Congratulations on the 5th floor Candoit!
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Re: this time is for real
« Reply #351 on: December 04, 2015, 01:24:00 AM »
Candi... Thank you so much for helping me and guiding me through some difficult times adjusting to a nic free existence.
I still have a ways to go, but the foundation you helped me lay is strong.

Congrats on your 500 days!! I quit with ewe today!

Cheers! 'party2'
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Re: this time is for real
« Reply #350 on: November 19, 2015, 12:46:00 PM »
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I had a conversation yesterday with my desk manager about sales. I respect the hell out of this guy, a Puerto Rican Vincent Van Ghoul.

"There was this guy I worked with, smartest guy, I have ever met, and a Marine none the less. The fukr could look at someone once and recall numbers, email, and the color car they drove. However, he could only sell maybe 5 cars a month. He was too smart, people found him to be an arrogant prick, almost insulting that he was so smart. People don't want to buy from smart, they want to buy from knowledgeable. Great fukn guy, horrible fukn salesman.'

I have been thinking about this, since then.

I have stopped apologizing for being me. I don't actually consider myself "smart" or "intelligent", I just have mastered the ability to learn. I know how to learn, apply, and refine that which I have learned. I come across as an arrogant prick or preachy, yeah, I know. But if I change that, I change me. I am far from being a pompous douche, but yet often accused of being egotistical.

I keep thinking about the fact that a certain skill set means that you are forever trapped in a job, role, or classification for life. As in most cases that means you can never expect to make more than someone deems you worth. I am tired of earning what someone thinks I am worth, I want to earn what I am worth.

I will sell 20 cars a month at some point, but right now I want to sell enough to pay my bills.
Who is the best salesman you know? Perhaps a family member? An uncle or grandpa growing up? Someone who could talk to anyone about anything, and make the convo about that person. Make the other person feel good. Deflect all attention from yourself unless it's self effacing. You must be humble yet gregarious. Think of the best salesman you knew from your family as a kid, and start acting like them. Sales is in your blood. You just need to let it flow. Be real. Be humble. Be friendly. Make friends. Be cool. And always, always, do what you say you're gonna do. 80% of salesmen suck because they don't do what they say they're gonna do. The customer is always right.
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Re: this time is for real
« Reply #349 on: November 18, 2015, 11:33:00 AM »
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I had a conversation yesterday with my desk manager about sales. I respect the hell out of this guy, a Puerto Rican Vincent Van Ghoul.

"There was this guy I worked with, smartest guy, I have ever met, and a Marine none the less. The fukr could look at someone once and recall numbers, email, and the color car they drove. However, he could only sell maybe 5 cars a month. He was too smart, people found him to be an arrogant prick, almost insulting that he was so smart. People don't want to buy from smart, they want to buy from knowledgeable. Great fukn guy, horrible fukn salesman.'

I have been thinking about this, since then.

I have stopped apologizing for being me. I don't actually consider myself "smart" or "intelligent", I just have mastered the ability to learn. I know how to learn, apply, and refine that which I have learned. I come across as an arrogant prick or preachy, yeah, I know. But if I change that, I change me. I am far from being a pompous douche, but yet often accused of being egotistical.

I keep thinking about the fact that a certain skill set means that you are forever trapped in a job, role, or classification for life. As in most cases that means you can never expect to make more than someone deems you worth. I am tired of earning what someone thinks I am worth, I want to earn what I am worth.

I will sell 20 cars a month at some point, but right now I want to sell enough to pay my bills.
And I have no doubt you will! Although you do come across as an arrogant prick, I still like you. You ever thought about being an engineer? You meet some of the criteria
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Re: this time is for real
« Reply #348 on: November 18, 2015, 10:25:00 AM »
I had a conversation yesterday with my desk manager about sales. I respect the hell out of this guy, a Puerto Rican Vincent Van Ghoul.

"There was this guy I worked with, smartest guy, I have ever met, and a Marine none the less. The fukr could look at someone once and recall numbers, email, and the color car they drove. However, he could only sell maybe 5 cars a month. He was too smart, people found him to be an arrogant prick, almost insulting that he was so smart. People don't want to buy from smart, they want to buy from knowledgeable. Great fukn guy, horrible fukn salesman.'

I have been thinking about this, since then.

I have stopped apologizing for being me. I don't actually consider myself "smart" or "intelligent", I just have mastered the ability to learn. I know how to learn, apply, and refine that which I have learned. I come across as an arrogant prick or preachy, yeah, I know. But if I change that, I change me. I am far from being a pompous douche, but yet often accused of being egotistical.

I keep thinking about the fact that a certain skill set means that you are forever trapped in a job, role, or classification for life. As in most cases that means you can never expect to make more than someone deems you worth. I am tired of earning what someone thinks I am worth, I want to earn what I am worth.

I will sell 20 cars a month at some point, but right now I want to sell enough to pay my bills.
There are no circumstances in which using nicotine will improve the outcome.

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Re: this time is for real
« Reply #347 on: November 16, 2015, 07:05:00 PM »
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Nothing about any of this is easy. Who ever tells you different is so full of crap their eyes are brown.

However to relish in the highs, you must experinces the lows. If you arent experincing this then your not living.
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Re: this time is for real
« Reply #346 on: November 16, 2015, 05:37:00 PM »
Nothing about any of this is easy. Who ever tells you different is so full of crap their eyes are brown.

However to relish in the highs, you must experinces the lows. If you arent experincing this then your not living.
There are no circumstances in which using nicotine will improve the outcome.

My journey. The best part it is not over yet.

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Re: this time is for real
« Reply #345 on: November 16, 2015, 08:41:00 AM »
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481 +1's....

Each one different yet the same. I promised and i kept it, yet the out come and events of each of those +1's was different.

I know where i will begin and end my day. Giving you all my word not to use nicotine is making my bed.

I plan on being here tomorrow morning to do the same. Beyond that, yes I would like to, but thats the best I can do. I dont worry about tomorrow, because it is always a day away.
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There are no circumstances in which using nicotine will improve the outcome.

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Re: this time is for real
« Reply #344 on: November 16, 2015, 05:53:00 AM »
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481 +1's....

Each one different yet the same. I promised and i kept it, yet the out come and events of each of those +1's was different.

I know where i will begin and end my day. Giving you all my word not to use nicotine is making my bed.

I plan on being here tomorrow morning to do the same. Beyond that, yes I would like to, but thats the best I can do. I dont worry about tomorrow, because it is always a day away.
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Re: this time is for real
« Reply #343 on: November 15, 2015, 10:37:00 PM »
481 +1's....

Each one different yet the same. I promised and i kept it, yet the out come and events of each of those +1's was different.

I know where i will begin and end my day. Giving you all my word not to use nicotine is making my bed.

I plan on being here tomorrow morning to do the same. Beyond that, yes I would like to, but thats the best I can do. I dont worry about tomorrow, because it is always a day away.
There are no circumstances in which using nicotine will improve the outcome.

My journey. The best part it is not over yet.