gb,
I haven't posted on your thread before, but I just read something from your quit group that struck a chord with me. Apparently some chump caved in June and then proceeded to tell everyone that he would not be returning. Some (not all), initial responses, took the softer "encouragement" approach to reel him back in and then you took the alternative position and wrote this guy off for stabbing you and all your quit brothers in the back.
Good for you, I would have felt the same way too. This guy gets it.