Day 2

[bubblehed668]

653 - tough weekend and need a place to vent

I have made many decisions that have created chaos in my marriage, and it appears my wife has finally had enough. This weekend was the first time I have been able to react to her pain, anger and frustration without flying into a rage and becoming a total asshole. I have also realized that I am at a point in my quit where this does not become a reason to cave. There is no doubt in my mind that the nic bitch is still hanging around, or that I would have turned back to her months or weeks ago if I had been faced with this situation. I am so glad to have resources like KTC in my life to allow me to deal with life on life's terms instead of running back and hiding in the shadows with a dip in my mouth, telling myself I "deserve" this or I "earned" this. It has taken me a long time to get to this point however, and I cannot be certain that the feeling will stay. I do believe that as long as I continue to commit to posting and being involved here, that the odds are in my favor to remain quit.

Hey nic bitch, not today. Today I am quit. I have posted and given my word. We are stronger than you.

'Finger'

From one QWA to another if you need an ear to bend, you have my number. Power through this and we got your back here at KTC.

[DeanTheCoot]

653 - tough weekend and need a place to vent

I have made many decisions that have created chaos in my marriage, and it appears my wife has finally had enough. This weekend was the first time I have been able to react to her pain, anger and frustration without flying into a rage and becoming a total asshole. I have also realized that I am at a point in my quit where this does not become a reason to cave. There is no doubt in my mind that the nic bitch is still hanging around, or that I would have turned back to her months or weeks ago if I had been faced with this situation. I am so glad to have resources like KTC in my life to allow me to deal with life on life's terms instead of running back and hiding in the shadows with a dip in my mouth, telling myself I "deserve" this or I "earned" this. It has taken me a long time to get to this point however, and I cannot be certain that the feeling will stay. I do believe that as long as I continue to commit to posting and being involved here, that the odds are in my favor to remain quit.

Hey nic bitch, not today. Today I am quit. I have posted and given my word. We are stronger than you.

'Finger'

Hold steady, brother.

The odds are, indeed, very much in your favor. I will help any way I can. Short of tossing your salad.

OK...Including that.

[Kdip]

653 - tough weekend and need a place to vent

I have made many decisions that have created chaos in my marriage, and it appears my wife has finally had enough.  This weekend was the first time I have been able to react to her pain, anger and frustration without flying into a rage and becoming a total asshole.  I have also realized that I am at a point in my quit where this does not become a reason to cave.  There is no doubt in my mind that the nic bitch is still hanging around, or that I would have turned back to her months or weeks ago if I had been faced with this situation.  I am so glad to have resources like KTC in my life to allow me to deal with life on life's terms instead of running back and hiding in the shadows with a dip in my mouth, telling myself I "deserve" this or I "earned" this.  It has taken me a long time to get to this point however, and I cannot be certain that the feeling will stay.  I do believe that as long as I continue to commit to posting and being involved here, that the odds are in my favor to remain quit.

Hey nic bitch, not today.  Today I am quit.  I have posted and given my word.  We are stronger than you.

'Finger'

I am sorry to hear this. I know you are going through a tough time. Don't let it sneak up on you, she strikes in moments of weakness. In support I am quit with you today.

Sorry to hear that Visa and I sincerely hope you can work things out!!! I know what you are going through. Not running back to the NIC BITCH in tough times like these is HUGE and I applaud you for it!!! You have also shown that you can be much more calmer and level headed in times of crises without NIC running through your veins!!! You have been such a supporting quitter on this site for so long!!! I am truely sorry for your pain!!

[quit_aug_27_08]

653 - tough weekend and need a place to vent

I have made many decisions that have created chaos in my marriage, and it appears my wife has finally had enough.  This weekend was the first time I have been able to react to her pain, anger and frustration without flying into a rage and becoming a total asshole.  I have also realized that I am at a point in my quit where this does not become a reason to cave.  There is no doubt in my mind that the nic bitch is still hanging around, or that I would have turned back to her months or weeks ago if I had been faced with this situation.  I am so glad to have resources like KTC in my life to allow me to deal with life on life's terms instead of running back and hiding in the shadows with a dip in my mouth, telling myself I "deserve" this or I "earned" this.  It has taken me a long time to get to this point however, and I cannot be certain that the feeling will stay.  I do believe that as long as I continue to commit to posting and being involved here, that the odds are in my favor to remain quit.

Hey nic bitch, not today.  Today I am quit.  I have posted and given my word.  We are stronger than you.

'Finger'

I am sorry to hear this. I know you are going through a tough time. Don't let it sneak up on you, she strikes in moments of weakness. In support I am quit with you today.

Sorry about your weekend, visamoht. Amazing post and thanks for sharing.

[RAZD611]

653 - tough weekend and need a place to vent

I have made many decisions that have created chaos in my marriage, and it appears my wife has finally had enough. This weekend was the first time I have been able to react to her pain, anger and frustration without flying into a rage and becoming a total asshole. I have also realized that I am at a point in my quit where this does not become a reason to cave. There is no doubt in my mind that the nic bitch is still hanging around, or that I would have turned back to her months or weeks ago if I had been faced with this situation. I am so glad to have resources like KTC in my life to allow me to deal with life on life's terms instead of running back and hiding in the shadows with a dip in my mouth, telling myself I "deserve" this or I "earned" this. It has taken me a long time to get to this point however, and I cannot be certain that the feeling will stay. I do believe that as long as I continue to commit to posting and being involved here, that the odds are in my favor to remain quit.

Hey nic bitch, not today. Today I am quit. I have posted and given my word. We are stronger than you.

'Finger'

I am sorry to hear this. I know you are going through a tough time. Don't let it sneak up on you, she strikes in moments of weakness. In support I am quit with you today.

[visamoht]

653 - tough weekend and need a place to vent

I have made many decisions that have created chaos in my marriage, and it appears my wife has finally had enough. This weekend was the first time I have been able to react to her pain, anger and frustration without flying into a rage and becoming a total asshole. I have also realized that I am at a point in my quit where this does not become a reason to cave. There is no doubt in my mind that the nic bitch is still hanging around, or that I would have turned back to her months or weeks ago if I had been faced with this situation. I am so glad to have resources like KTC in my life to allow me to deal with life on life's terms instead of running back and hiding in the shadows with a dip in my mouth, telling myself I "deserve" this or I "earned" this. It has taken me a long time to get to this point however, and I cannot be certain that the feeling will stay. I do believe that as long as I continue to commit to posting and being involved here, that the odds are in my favor to remain quit.

Hey nic bitch, not today. Today I am quit. I have posted and given my word. We are stronger than you.

'Finger'

[visamoht]

550 days of quit, another step in the journey

FU nic bitch 'Finger'

FU UST 'Finger'

'na na'

Happy Humpday Quitters!

[visamoht]

548 days - 18 months to the day I started this journey of quitting my use of tobacco and alcohol, and I can say one thing for sure, I have no regrets. Besides the significant improvement in my life and my relationship with my wife and kids, I have some tremendous bonds with my quit brothers and other members of KTC, of which I am hugely appreciative of their support in my quest. To all you newbies, stay close, and with a little work on your part, like posting daily and making calls when you need to, you can find the freedom I have found. To all you veterans, thanks for all you do to help in mine and countless others quits, without you I wouldn't be here. To those in between, keep paying it forward, to provide those in need a place to go to quit that shit!

'Finger'

[redtrain14]

Day 544

All is well in quitsville.
Welcome to all the new quitters.
Almost 18 months of quit, holy shit  :o

Keep your word and post daily.
Pay it forward.

Yo that's quite a huge acomplishment. Congrats.

Just wondering, do you regularly post on here, or do you just post up every so often here?

Yo Glenn.....pssst......check out his post count.....

;)

Hee hee. True...but he might have been very, very active year 1, etc. I was getting the impression he only checked in now, here, occassionally to update his status, and I was intrigued to find out more.

Visa's a stud... he's here (on the board) just about every day. I think he just comes here (his intro thread) every once in a while.

Visa - please feel free to correct me B)

I think what threw me off was an earlier post that said, " i don't get on KTC as much..."

I knew what you were getting at. Just couldn't help myself.

With luv,

Redtrain

[visamoht]

Day 544

All is well in quitsville.
Welcome to all the new quitters.
Almost 18 months of quit, holy shit  :o

Keep your word and post daily.
Pay it forward.

Yo that's quite a huge acomplishment. Congrats.

Just wondering, do you regularly post on here, or do you just post up every so often here?

Yo Glenn.....pssst......check out his post count.....

;)

Hee hee. True...but he might have been very, very active year 1, etc. I was getting the impression he only checked in now, here, occassionally to update his status, and I was intrigued to find out more.

No doubt I was a post whore in the beginning, but that helped keep me quit. Now, I post in a dozen places and then watch to see where I can help during the week. :ph43r:



545 UST... 'Finger'

[GlennFtheKodiak]

Day 544

All is well in quitsville.
Welcome to all the new quitters.
Almost 18 months of quit, holy shit  :o

Keep your word and post daily.
Pay it forward.

Yo that's quite a huge acomplishment. Congrats.

Just wondering, do you regularly post on here, or do you just post up every so often here?

Yo Glenn.....pssst......check out his post count.....

;)

Hee hee. True...but he might have been very, very active year 1, etc. I was getting the impression he only checked in now, here, occassionally to update his status, and I was intrigued to find out more.

Visa's a stud... he's here (on the board) just about every day. I think he just comes here (his intro thread) every once in a while.

Visa - please feel free to correct me B)

I think what threw me off was an earlier post that said, " i don't get on KTC as much..."

[chewie]

Day 544

All is well in quitsville.
Welcome to all the new quitters.
Almost 18 months of quit, holy shit  :o

Keep your word and post daily.
Pay it forward.

Yo that's quite a huge acomplishment. Congrats.

Just wondering, do you regularly post on here, or do you just post up every so often here?

Yo Glenn.....pssst......check out his post count.....

;)

Hee hee. True...but he might have been very, very active year 1, etc. I was getting the impression he only checked in now, here, occassionally to update his status, and I was intrigued to find out more.

Visa's a stud... he's here (on the board) just about every day. I think he just comes here (his intro thread) every once in a while.

Visa - please feel free to correct me B)

[ScubaSteve]

Day 544

All is well in quitsville.
Welcome to all the new quitters.
Almost 18 months of quit, holy shit  :o

Keep your word and post daily.
Pay it forward.

Yo that's quite a huge acomplishment. Congrats.

Just wondering, do you regularly post on here, or do you just post up every so often here?

Yo Glenn.....pssst......check out his post count.....

;)

Hee hee. True...but he might have been very, very active year 1, etc. I was getting the impression he only checked in now, here, occassionally to update his status, and I was intrigued to find out more.

pretty sure I see his name about 10 time a day since I got here...he's got the green bling dots.

[GlennFtheKodiak]

Day 544

All is well in quitsville.
Welcome to all the new quitters.
Almost 18 months of quit, holy shit  :o

Keep your word and post daily.
Pay it forward.

Yo that's quite a huge acomplishment. Congrats.

Just wondering, do you regularly post on here, or do you just post up every so often here?

Yo Glenn.....pssst......check out his post count.....

;)

Hee hee. True...but he might have been very, very active year 1, etc. I was getting the impression he only checked in now, here, occassionally to update his status, and I was intrigued to find out more.

[redtrain14]

Day 544

All is well in quitsville.
Welcome to all the new quitters.
Almost 18 months of quit, holy shit  :o

Keep your word and post daily.
Pay it forward.

Yo that's quite a huge acomplishment. Congrats.

Just wondering, do you regularly post on here, or do you just post up every so often here?

Yo Glenn.....pssst......check out his post count.....

;)