The thing I have learned about dip over the years is that we all dip to relieve anxiety or stress Â
You learned Wrong.
Dip doesn't help with anxiety or stress. The relief you feel is actually nothing more than relieving the nicotine withdrawl symptoms. Here is how it works in a nut shell.
1. Stress/anxiety cause your body to produce cortisol and adrenaline etc
2. These reduce the amount of nicotine in your blood stream.
3. The sudden drop in nicotine levels trigger withdrawl symptoms. You become more anxious, irritated, etc.
4. You take a dip and feel the relief from withdrawl
5. You mistake the relief from withdrawl for relief from the actual cause of anxiety or stress.
Nicotine is not a crutch, it is an anchor. Nicotine doesn't fill the void, it created it. Having a chew doesn't fix anything or solve any problems, it doesn't make you smarter, better looking, less stressed, or smoother with the ladies. It will not fix a broken heart or heal a hurt. The only thing nicotine is good for is keeping you addicted to nicotine.
Here is a quote and link from whyquit, an anti smoking site but a great resource for nicotine education. Read up.
"Think about it. Once we finished tanking-up with a new supply of nicotine and had satisfied our dependency, the car's tire was still flat, or the bad news was still bad. One of the greatest recovery gifts of all is an amazing sense of calm during crisis, as we're no longer adding nicotine withdrawal atop every stressful event."
http://whyquit.com/whyquit/LinksAAddiction.html
What Skoal Monster said........ x 2.
Getting my head wrapped around that concept was key to staying quit. We are addicts. Nicotine is our drug. That will never change. We can never have "just one" again. You probably have already proven that, you just haven't completely accepted the concept yet.
Tsk tsk tsk. 'finger point' 'finger point' You've been brainwashed my friend.
So what about the people at college who don't dip, are they SUPER stressed all the time? I mean surely they have exams too, and girl troubles. How do they deal with all that without dipping? They must be magic gypsies or something.
Nope. As SM laid out, nicotine does not fill any voids it creates them. You THINK you need the dip to relieve stress, but really you need it because you're flat out addicted to it. You use it to ease the withdraw pangs. You're an addict dude, time to face that fact and get on to quitting.
Exams and girls...dude I'd give my left nut to go back to college and only have the stress of college and exams. The "real world" is much tougher, trust me.
Once you realize you aren't giving up anything pleasurable, or anything that makes your life "easier", the better off you will be.
Life is tough dude, whether you have a lip full of cancerous weeds in or not. It doesn't change one Damn thing.
Time to grow up bud, and quit. We got the program here to help you. Use us.