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Offline GR8WHITEBUFFALO

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Re: Help
« Reply #52 on: March 12, 2013, 07:44:00 AM »
There was a time when I thought my quit group was intentionally bumping me kinda of a passive agressive way of saying "get the hell out", but it was only Nic whispering lies in my ear. Keep posting and don't be afraid to give a little feedback to guys who always seem to bump people without checking. If you post and bump someone, go back and fix it and note it. ex: gwb - 310 (bump fix). It lets people know you are doing your part.

You can't always go back 10 times a day to check. If you get bumped, then contact the sheet guy to fix it if you want. Whatever works for your quit.
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Re: Help
« Reply #51 on: March 11, 2013, 10:29:00 PM »
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I'm better now

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Welcome back Matt. Feel free to cuss me out anytime, hell I probably deserve it. I am just glad you are back. PM me if you need anything.

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Re: Help
« Reply #50 on: March 11, 2013, 10:28:00 PM »
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Nice job letting it out here Matt! I remember those days, sometimes we just need to give someone hell! nice job on 100%, keep it up man.
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Re: Help
« Reply #49 on: March 11, 2013, 09:12:00 PM »
I'm better now

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Re: Help
« Reply #48 on: March 11, 2013, 08:56:00 PM »
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Matt4602   Posted: Mar 11, 2013, 6:05 pm






Posted at 8:54 AM and just noticed I was bumped immediately! Fuck this bullshit and fuck all you bump dicks!! Spread sheet should read 100% for me- I have never missed a fucking day!! Sometimes I can't get on here all day to check to see if I was bumped!! Fuck this I'm tired of fucking with all the selfish pricks!!!!
Come on man, I understand your frustration, but stick it out. I had to spend quite a bit if time today as I bumped and fixed two and while fixing was bumped. The system ain't perfect but it does help keep everyone engaged and focused. I usually have time during the day to get on and off and would be happy to check for you if you stick it out. PM me if you are interested.

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Dude relax please. Go take a look at the history of my group. I got bumped all the time. Nobody is doing it on purpose or just to piss you off. Guaranteed 99% of the time you're posting roll at the same moment as somebody else and a bump occurs. Should they/you look? Yes but it doesn't happen all the time going back to look. Go show the person who runs your spreadsheet that you posted where it might say you didn't.
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Re: Help
« Reply #47 on: March 11, 2013, 08:49:00 PM »
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Matt4602   Posted: Mar 11, 2013, 6:05 pm






Posted at 8:54 AM and just noticed I was bumped immediately! Fuck this bullshit and fuck all you bump dicks!! Spread sheet should read 100% for me- I have never missed a fucking day!! Sometimes I can't get on here all day to check to see if I was bumped!! Fuck this I'm tired of fucking with all the selfish pricks!!!!
Come on man, I understand your frustration, but stick it out. I had to spend quite a bit if time today as I bumped and fixed two and while fixing was bumped. The system ain't perfect but it does help keep everyone engaged and focused. I usually have time during the day to get on and off and would be happy to check for you if you stick it out. PM me if you are interested.

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Re: Help
« Reply #46 on: March 11, 2013, 08:07:00 PM »
Matt4602   Posted: Mar 11, 2013, 6:05 pm






Posted at 8:54 AM and just noticed I was bumped immediately! Fuck this bullshit and fuck all you bump dicks!! Spread sheet should read 100% for me- I have never missed a fucking day!! Sometimes I can't get on here all day to check to see if I was bumped!! Fuck this I'm tired of fucking with all the selfish pricks!!!!

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Re: Help
« Reply #45 on: February 28, 2013, 07:05:00 PM »
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Day fifty! Lovin life.. Still getting that occasional strong crave! When I do I just jump on here and read and keep reading...it is medicine...:)

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Re: Help
« Reply #44 on: February 28, 2013, 06:52:00 PM »
Day fifty! Lovin life.. Still getting that occasional strong crave! When I do I just jump on here and read and keep reading...it is medicine...:)

Matt

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Re: Help
« Reply #43 on: January 29, 2013, 09:08:00 PM »
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I posted roll at 6:45 am.. Checked and saw my name on roll. Looked again later and my name was gone? This went on until the 5th time I posted ..why does this happen.
Hey Matt, sounds like your getting bumped. Are you posting from a phone or PC. If PC, press F5 just before you quote to refresh screen. I have been screwing up role for a month now. If by phone PM me and I will send you directions. Keep quitting man, sounds like you're rocking with the good days and the bad.

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Re: Help
« Reply #42 on: January 29, 2013, 08:46:00 PM »
I need help understanding something. I posted roll at 6:45 am.. Checked and saw my name on roll. Looked again later and my name was gone? This went on until the 5th time I posted ..why does this happen. Today has been a rough day.. Very irritable and quick to snap, but never craved a dip! Doesn't matter anyway because I quit all day today!

Thanks

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Re: Help
« Reply #41 on: January 26, 2013, 02:24:00 PM »
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Hello to all the quitters.. It is Saturday and day 17 without tobacco! I have stopped many times in the past but for seem reason this has been the hardest. Many dreams and thoughts! I am not going back -I promise that to myself and all my fellow KTCers. I will keep my promise. I will not dip today! I quit!

Thanks everyone

Matt
This is the hardest because I think you actually mean it this time. You also have some accountability keeping you from taking the pussy way out. Its easy to convince your own addicted mind to go back to the can. Its much harder when you have so many people rooting for you and you don't want to let them...nor yourself down.

That's why this site works. It doesn't give you an easy out. It gives you a ton of support and forces you into an actual hard out.

Stick with it man. You're in the heart of the battle. This is where the men are seperated from the boys. We are here in your corner. We cant fight the fight for you but we sure as hell can tell you how it win it. You cant see out of your left eye...we'll cut it for you. Just like Mick did for Rocky.
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Re: Help
« Reply #40 on: January 26, 2013, 10:19:00 AM »
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Hello to all the quitters.. It is Saturday and day 17 without tobacco! I have stopped many times in the past but for seem reason this has been the hardest. Many dreams and thoughts! I am not going back -I promise that to myself and all my fellow KTCers. I will keep my promise. I will not dip today! I quit!

Thanks everyone

Matt
hang in there it does get way better. i also hit a funk around 17-19. it will pass. stay strong. 17 days is awesome. one day at a time. sometimes one hour at a time what ever it takes. never again for no reason.
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Re: Help
« Reply #39 on: January 26, 2013, 10:08:00 AM »
Hello to all the quitters.. It is Saturday and day 17 without tobacco! I have stopped many times in the past but for seem reason this has been the hardest. Many dreams and thoughts! I am not going back -I promise that to myself and all my fellow KTCers. I will keep my promise. I will not dip today! I quit!

Thanks everyone

Matt

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Re: Help
« Reply #38 on: January 19, 2013, 10:35:00 PM »
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Fished again-no dip!! Caught Alot of fish and had a few cravings. Sun flower seeds are my savior!
Thanks for everyone's support, I visited this site a few times today while on the water-it is amazing how much it helps to know there is people going through the same thing! No dip for me I am done!!!!

Thanks

Matt
Kick ass, keep it up. The next step is to start reaching out and put your ass on the line a little bit - send a few guys your phone number - accountability is a cornerstone of this site and having a few friends here will step up the accountability. I promise it won't make your quit less strong.
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