Walkerm, I've been watching your situation. I'm not sure why. My first encounter with you was when I was conducting your previous quit group, August 2016, into the HOF. This was our
conversation. I didn't know how to take you, so I didn't respond. I've posted a few other responses to your posts since then, and you haven't responded. Granted, you've been hit from all sides with attacks and questions, so I kind of understand. I'm trying to make you understand your quit, and how to make it work. It's hard to do when my voice can't be heard over the din.
So, I've been munching popcorn, watching the wheels wobble in your current quit, wondering how to help you keep them from falling off yet again.
As is frequently the case, Mrs. Irish slapped me upside the head with the answer. She was reading the local newspaper, and said "There's an article in here that you need to read, the guy is talking about nicotine addiction." I read the article, and this is what jumped out at me:
"When you are ready,
the change you are about to make moves toward the top of the list of the most important things in your life. This is critical, because you will always find a way and make time to do the things you believe are important.
You are not ready if you need a bunch of qualifiers and circumstances that have to be just right, or if you are looking for something that promises a quick and easy path to your goal, or if you depend on others and outside influences to motivate you. If thatÂ’s you, my advice is, donÂ’t waste your time. You are a wanna-be who very likely will drop out when the newness of the change wears off and LIFE 101 intervenes and you confront adversity that requires dedication. Save yourself the aggravation and come back when you are ready."
I've said the same thing on several occasions: Your quit must be as important as anything else in your life.
I'll leave you with that. That's all I have to give you.