Day 84: Thank you Smeds. I can always count on you to say the right thing at the right time. This was definitely a weekend of firsts. Next weekend will be another. One of the guys I hunt with dips and drinks so, I'm not going to lie, that's going to be a challenge. I may need to text some of y'all for some support but I think I can make it. and I fucking know I will make it because of that and my integrity!
Day 85 is on the horizon which means HOF is a mere 15 days away for me and a few others.
You are up for the challenge bro, and we all have your back if you feel a wavering of resolve.
I fixed your post above for ya! 'winker'
10-4, at this point I shouldn't think...I should know.
Have a plan for anything and everything. Then have backup plans for all of that.
In case you haven't written any plans recently, you should know that every step begins with, "Since I am the fucking boss, I plan to..." And so on and so forth.
Take the belt and suspenders approach - stick to that plan - and then go out and enjoy yourself. Sooner or later you're going to have to get back to doing the things that you love without having your fingers buried two knuckles deep in some shitty can. Maybe it's time to show your friend exactly what that looks like.
Day 86:
I cannot believe some folks won't take the chance and give their number to another quitter. In AA and OA, they pass a telephone and email list around before every meeting. I see it as absolutely critical to make outside contacts because just going through the motions of quitting by just posting roll ain't gonna cut it. To me posting roll is only the start. The true quit begins with the engagement of the other quitters/supporters/veterans. The last few posts on this thread show exactly why that engagement is necessary. I merely worded something improperly that showed a bit of weakness and my quit buddies Smeds and Tuco's Grill swooped in and corrected my error. Without that I would still be thinking and not knowing.
To all the new quitters:
1. You can't do this alone...you need outside support
2. Willpower ain't worth shit, if it was you wouldn't be an addict
3. You're not the captain of your life's ship
4. Posting roll on KTC is step one and if you only take this step...you're not going to last long
5. Step two: give your number to your quit brothers and sisters (they won't send you pictures of their T-Bags)
6. Step three: engage people in your quit group as well as other groups. The more you help others, the stronger your quit becomes.
Thank you Smeds and Tuco for looking out for me. I really appreciate it.