Day 2.5

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Zeus

Quote from: Keith0617 on May 19, 2020, 10:02:28 AM
Quote from: Bug Guy on May 19, 2020, 02:05:10 AM
You've got to want this shit like your life depends on it, because it does. You still have some questions to answer in your group for the weekend you decided to take off from quitting while enjoying some nic dick. The questions aren't going away.
@Bug Guy addict isn’t ready to quit - he just likes the sound of it.
Make yourself in love with the idea. Who would say no to freedom, life, money, and self-respect starting immediately?  Say it until you're blue in face: I hate dip and I love being quit. There is NO reason to use that shit ever.
June 2017 Quit Mafia

Keith0617

Quote from: Bug Guy on May 19, 2020, 02:05:10 AM
You've got to want this shit like your life depends on it, because it does. You still have some questions to answer in your group for the weekend you decided to take off from quitting while enjoying some nic dick. The questions aren't going away.
@Bug Guy addict isn’t ready to quit - he just likes the sound of it.
Jan19

Bug Guy

You've got to want this shit like your life depends on it, because it does. You still have some questions to answer in your group for the weekend you decided to take off from quitting while enjoying some nic dick. The questions aren't going away.
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Take what you need and give your best.[/spoiler]

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Diesel2112

Is this some kind of joke?  You ARE a weakling.  Any asshole can stop for a month, but only a real man can quit one day at time.

Look.in the mirror bro.  Are you a man or are you a mouse?  If you're a man,  stay and quit.   If you're a mouse go take your nicotine chese and scoot back into the hole in the wall and keep feeling sorry for yourself.

You're either in our you're out.  You're a 1 or a 0.  You can't jump in the pool and get a little bit wet.  Up to you bud.  Everything you need is right here.  I was a pussy when I quit 8 years ago, but I wanted it so I did it.  You can too.
Quit 06/04/12
HOF 9/11/12
2nd floor 12/20/12
3rd floor 03/30/13
4th floor 07/08/13
5th floor 10/16/13
6th floor 01/24/14
7th floor 05/04/14
8th floor 08/12/14
9th floor 10/20/14
Comma 02/28/15
11th floor 06/08/15
12th floor 09/16/15
13th floor 12/25/15
14th floor 04/03/16
15th floor 7/11/16
16th floor 10/20/16
17th floor 01/27/17
18th floor 05/08/17
19th floor 08/14/17
20th floor 11/27/17
21st floor 03/11/18

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"You can fight without ever winning, but never ever win, win without a fight".
"Onion rings...funyons. A connection? Yeah. I fucking think so."
"Honest Abe had a fake jaw".
"In a world that seems so small, I can't stop thinking big"
"Someone set a bad example. Made surrender seem all right
The act of a noble warrior. Who lost the will to fight."

Keith0617

Quote from: MNxEngineer314 on May 13, 2020, 09:13:40 AM
Quote from: Apsjeep on May 12, 2020, 06:29:30 PM
I don't need a trophy.  I want to stay nicotine free.  I was early on in my quit, and stumbled.  I'm back, and appreciate everyone encouraging my ownership of my quit.  Thank you.
I don't see an answer to the 3 questions. Those are a requirement for everyone who caves and comes back. Reference my post above and get those answered in Aug 2020.

You say you "want to stay nicotine free". The road to hell is paved with good intentions. What ACTIONS are you taking to ENSURE you remain nicotine free today?? You posted roll. That is the first step. How many people have you swapped digits with? Have you been active on the forum sharing your victories and your struggles, encouraging your fellow quitters and building relationships??

If it were the case that ifs and buts were candy and nuts, then we'd all have a jolly Christmas. We don't "try" here. We honor our words through thick and thin and never make excuses. Be a man of your word. Be a man of action.
Life if going to happen. Are you going to cave every time life gets hard? You need to decide what is your priority. You will never regret quitting but you will always regret caving. As MX said, you need to answer the 3 questions in your group.
Jan19

MN_Engineer

Quote from: Apsjeep on May 12, 2020, 06:29:30 PM
I don't need a trophy.  I want to stay nicotine free.  I was early on in my quit, and stumbled.  I'm back, and appreciate everyone encouraging my ownership of my quit.  Thank you.
I don't see an answer to the 3 questions. Those are a requirement for everyone who caves and comes back. Reference my post above and get those answered in Aug 2020.

You say you "want to stay nicotine free". The road to hell is paved with good intentions. What ACTIONS are you taking to ENSURE you remain nicotine free today?? You posted roll. That is the first step. How many people have you swapped digits with? Have you been active on the forum sharing your victories and your struggles, encouraging your fellow quitters and building relationships??

If it were the case that ifs and buts were candy and nuts, then we'd all have a jolly Christmas. We don't "try" here. We honor our words through thick and thin and never make excuses. Be a man of your word. Be a man of action.
Nic Quit: 04.25.16 | HOF: 08.02.16 | 2nd FL: 11.10.16 | 3rd FL: 02.18.17 | 4th FL: 05.29.17 | 5th FL: 09.06.17 | 6th FL: 12.15.17 | 7th FL: 03.25.18 |
8th FL: 07.03.18 | 9th FL: 10.11.18 | Comma: 01.19.19 | 11th FL: 04.29.19 | 12th FL: 08.07.19 | 13th FL: 11.15.19 | 14th FL: 02.23.20 |
15th FL: 06.02.20 | 16th FL: 09.10.20 | 17th FL: 12.19.20 | 18th FL: 03.29.21 | 19th FL: 07.07.21 | Comma 2x: 10.15.21 | 21st FL: 01.23.22 |
22nd FL: 05.03.22 | 23rd FL: 08.11.22 | 24th FL: 11.19.22 | 25th FL: 02.27.23 | 26th FL: 06.07.23 | 27th FL: 09.15.23 | 28th FL: 12.24.23 |
29th FL: 04.02.24 | Comma 3x: 07.11.24 | 31st FL: 10.19.24 | 32nd FL: 01.27.25 | 33rd FL: 03.07.25 | 34th FL: 08.15.25 | 35th FL: 11.23.25 |
36th FL: 03.03.26 | 37th FL: 06.11.26 | 38th FL: 09.19.26 |

"From Skoal to Skol!" My HOF Speech HERE!
"There is no victory without a battle."
"Cave = losing an argument to a dead plant in a plastic can. You are smarter than a dead plant." - Candoit
"The truth is the truth even if no one believes it, and a lie is a lie, even if everyone believes it." - Blessed Bishop Fulton J. Sheen

Feel like throwing in the towel? Sign the "Contract to Give Up" HERE
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Alcohol Quit: 12.07.24 | 1st FL: 03.16.25 | 2nd FL: 06.24.25 | 3rd FL: 10.02.25 | 4th FL: 01.10.26 | 5th FL: 04.20.26 | 6th FL: 07.29.26 |

Apsjeep

I don't need a trophy.  I want to stay nicotine free.  I was early on in my quit, and stumbled.  I'm back, and appreciate everyone encouraging my ownership of my quit.  Thank you.

Broccoli-saurus

Hope you're not expecting a participation trophy.

MN_Engineer

Quote from: Apsjeep on May 11, 2020, 01:52:18 PM
Thanks for the messages and "tags" everyone.  I messed up this weekend, and have to restart.  Day 1 today.  Thanks again for the support.
Not sensing any sort of remorse here. Are you upset at all that while we were here grinding it out one day at a time, giving and honoring our promises, you were stuffing poison dirt in your face? All those messages and tags were from people who cared about you and your quit stoppage. And you come back and leave this steaming pile?

This is an ACCOUNTABILITY resource. Get on here, make your daily promise early each and every day and honor your word. The messages and tags were people attempting to hold you accountable. Share your digits with other members and create relationships. When you are struggling, we can then provide a lifeline. But you need to be dedicated, involved and understand that caving, under any circumstances, it NOT an option.

If you haven't already, get your ass into August 2020 group and post the answers to the 3 questions:

1.) What happened?
2.) Why did it happen?
3.) What are you going to do differently?

These questions are for you to dig deep and help ensure you don't find yourself in this place again. Put some effort and thought into them. And you might want to also ask yourself who you are quitting for and why you decided to sign up and quit. Cause based on what I've seen so far, I could probably provide answers to those last two questions for you but we can compare answers later.
Nic Quit: 04.25.16 | HOF: 08.02.16 | 2nd FL: 11.10.16 | 3rd FL: 02.18.17 | 4th FL: 05.29.17 | 5th FL: 09.06.17 | 6th FL: 12.15.17 | 7th FL: 03.25.18 |
8th FL: 07.03.18 | 9th FL: 10.11.18 | Comma: 01.19.19 | 11th FL: 04.29.19 | 12th FL: 08.07.19 | 13th FL: 11.15.19 | 14th FL: 02.23.20 |
15th FL: 06.02.20 | 16th FL: 09.10.20 | 17th FL: 12.19.20 | 18th FL: 03.29.21 | 19th FL: 07.07.21 | Comma 2x: 10.15.21 | 21st FL: 01.23.22 |
22nd FL: 05.03.22 | 23rd FL: 08.11.22 | 24th FL: 11.19.22 | 25th FL: 02.27.23 | 26th FL: 06.07.23 | 27th FL: 09.15.23 | 28th FL: 12.24.23 |
29th FL: 04.02.24 | Comma 3x: 07.11.24 | 31st FL: 10.19.24 | 32nd FL: 01.27.25 | 33rd FL: 03.07.25 | 34th FL: 08.15.25 | 35th FL: 11.23.25 |
36th FL: 03.03.26 | 37th FL: 06.11.26 | 38th FL: 09.19.26 |

"From Skoal to Skol!" My HOF Speech HERE!
"There is no victory without a battle."
"Cave = losing an argument to a dead plant in a plastic can. You are smarter than a dead plant." - Candoit
"The truth is the truth even if no one believes it, and a lie is a lie, even if everyone believes it." - Blessed Bishop Fulton J. Sheen

Feel like throwing in the towel? Sign the "Contract to Give Up" HERE
Phat Pauly - Part 1 || Phat Pauly - Part 2 || DeanTheCoot - Pencil Poop
Alcohol Quit: 12.07.24 | 1st FL: 03.16.25 | 2nd FL: 06.24.25 | 3rd FL: 10.02.25 | 4th FL: 01.10.26 | 5th FL: 04.20.26 | 6th FL: 07.29.26 |

Apsjeep

Thanks for the messages and "tags" everyone.  I messed up this weekend, and have to restart.  Day 1 today.  Thanks again for the support.

Keith0617

Quote from: Apsjeep on May 07, 2020, 10:44:42 AM
Quote from: Keith0617 on May 07, 2020, 08:22:35 AM
Quote from: Apsjeep on May 06, 2020, 08:28:47 PM
Quote from: SmokeyMountainExpress on May 06, 2020, 08:21:35 PM
Quote from: Apsjeep on May 06, 2020, 08:14:47 PM
Thanks RDB. I tried clicking that link, but it didn't work, I got a 404 error.

https://ktcforum.org/index.php?topic=16445.0

Thanks SmokeyMountainExpress.  Success.
@Apsjeep welcome to KTC. We wake up, piss, and post our promise for the stay to stay nicotine free for the day. Keep your promise and repeat the following day. Only worry about today. We will deal with tomorrow when it comes. Make relationships with fellow quitters and exchanging digits only through personal messages is encouraged. Those relationships will pay huge dividends. You can do this and we are here to help. Reach out if I can be of assistance.


Thank you Keith.
@Apsjeep  why don’t I see you on roll today? Hope you are not packing crap in your lip. If so, throw it out and get back to posting. It is much easier if you lean on others to help. Reach out!!!
Jan19

Apsjeep

Quote from: Keith0617 on May 07, 2020, 08:22:35 AM
Quote from: Apsjeep on May 06, 2020, 08:28:47 PM
Quote from: SmokeyMountainExpress on May 06, 2020, 08:21:35 PM
Quote from: Apsjeep on May 06, 2020, 08:14:47 PM
Thanks RDB. I tried clicking that link, but it didn't work, I got a 404 error.

https://ktcforum.org/index.php?topic=16445.0

Thanks SmokeyMountainExpress.  Success.
@Apsjeep welcome to KTC. We wake up, piss, and post our promise for the stay to stay nicotine free for the day. Keep your promise and repeat the following day. Only worry about today. We will deal with tomorrow when it comes. Make relationships with fellow quitters and exchanging digits only through personal messages is encouraged. Those relationships will pay huge dividends. You can do this and we are here to help. Reach out if I can be of assistance.


Thank you Keith.

Keith0617

Quote from: Apsjeep on May 06, 2020, 08:28:47 PM
Quote from: SmokeyMountainExpress on May 06, 2020, 08:21:35 PM
Quote from: Apsjeep on May 06, 2020, 08:14:47 PM
Thanks RDB. I tried clicking that link, but it didn't work, I got a 404 error.

https://ktcforum.org/index.php?topic=16445.0

Thanks SmokeyMountainExpress.  Success.
@Apsjeep welcome to KTC. We wake up, piss, and post our promise for the stay to stay nicotine free for the day. Keep your promise and repeat the following day. Only worry about today. We will deal with tomorrow when it comes. Make relationships with fellow quitters and exchanging digits only through personal messages is encouraged. Those relationships will pay huge dividends. You can do this and we are here to help. Reach out if I can be of assistance.
Jan19

Apsjeep