I think I'm on the 6th or 7th time trying to quit. I just read Tom's story with my wife and we are both in tears. I have to quit for my family. How do y'all fight through the cravings, the fits of rage? I NEED HELP!
It starts with a promise. You promise to your quit group and yourself that today, you are nicotine free. That is what you do when you post roll.
If you, like me, value the promises we make to others, it becomes an incredibly powerful foundation for your quit.
The second part is the brotherhood. You're part of a group of quitters going through the same (roughly) experience. Those who have been here longer offer their advice and guidance, but nothing takes the place of your brothers in quit. Together, you help each other keep the promise you make.
Being afraid of the cravings, or how you're going to rage are just excuses that your addict brain is feeding you so it doesn't have to own up to it's addiction. I made the same excuses. There was never a "good" time to be extra grumpy/mean/short/asshole-ish.
The best day to quit was a before you ever started. The second best day is today.
If you're ready to quit, get that crap out of your mouth, buckle up, mosey on over to
November 2015 and post roll.