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Re: General Discussion - 2017
« Reply #283 on: June 17, 2017, 11:04:00 PM »
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Re: General Discussion - 2017
« Reply #282 on: June 17, 2017, 06:53:00 PM »
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Re: General Discussion - 2017
« Reply #281 on: June 17, 2017, 12:15:00 PM »
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Hey guys, I've been dipping on and off since college and it is about time to set the tin down. I've quit a 1000 times and know how to deal with withdrawal my problem has always been staying quit and dealing with triggers. It's day two and counting.
Nice going JC. Good choice. I was just like you 670 days ago. You can do this.

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Re: General Discussion - 2017
« Reply #280 on: June 17, 2017, 12:08:00 PM »
Hey guys, I've been dipping on and off since college and it is about time to set the tin down. I've quit a 1000 times and know how to deal with withdrawal my problem has always been staying quit and dealing with triggers. It's day two and counting.

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Re: General Discussion - 2017
« Reply #279 on: June 17, 2017, 02:27:00 AM »
They most definitely can be very tempting. I get the idea of getting a dip when I go and visit an outside or surrounding city and have to drive for say 30 minutes or more. Also, playing the guitar and even talking about certain topics. Working on a car is the absolute most tempting time for me! Especially when I get done, afterwards I get the urge sometimes strong.
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Re: General Discussion - 2017
« Reply #278 on: June 16, 2017, 09:37:00 PM »
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that was great I was thinking of making some review videos of the alternatives that I use

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Re: General Discussion - 2017
« Reply #277 on: June 16, 2017, 01:29:00 PM »
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LULZ, that is really good.
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Re: General Discussion - 2017
« Reply #276 on: June 16, 2017, 09:28:00 AM »
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Re: General Discussion - 2017
« Reply #275 on: June 15, 2017, 12:39:00 PM »
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It's great your family is involved in your quit. Most of us were ninja dippers so coming clean was a tough deal.
What are some of the toughest things you're going through? Sleep pattern? Irritable? have you kicked your dog yet?
The biggest things was irritability, especially during the first two to three weeks. After that it eased off. I warned my wife about it, and she said she would just not ask me anything of importance for the first 21 days. :) And focusing on tasks at hand without going off on many tangents in my head was (and still is) a tough one, too.

I haven't had any issues with sleep patterns or the soundness of my sleep, or kicking my dog. He would eat my S up and not think twice about it.

One of the toughest things has been that after morning coffee craving when the first dip of the day went it. That is tough to shake, but the Hooch helps with the habit piece, just not the nicotine part. It all gets easier with every day passing.

It took me forever to WANT to quit. Now that I do, no way I'm gonna cave when I am this far in.

-= HotRodRacer =-
Oh yeah. Especially when you've had a good day and you go out to eat and have a nice big meal. I always want one really bad after eating a big meal. Physical and psychological withdrawals ensue after that. Just gotta take it one moment at a time I suppose.
Man, it wasn't so much after a meal for me but total association with activities: golf, playing music, yardwork, painting, driving.

so happy to be free of that monkey after 668 days. Just as susceptible to a cave today as on Day 1. but I have tools, brotherhood, accountability, and a network of people who check on each other.

Keep you quit(s) up gents! It gets wonderfully better EDD
yep... those triggers, specifically seasonal or activity oriented ones can be brutal.

recognizing them is a HUGE first step.

here's an outstanding article my remshot that talks about them: https://www.killthecan.org/facts-figure ... s-hunting/
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Re: General Discussion - 2017
« Reply #274 on: June 15, 2017, 08:31:00 AM »
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It's great your family is involved in your quit. Most of us were ninja dippers so coming clean was a tough deal.
What are some of the toughest things you're going through? Sleep pattern? Irritable? have you kicked your dog yet?
The biggest things was irritability, especially during the first two to three weeks. After that it eased off. I warned my wife about it, and she said she would just not ask me anything of importance for the first 21 days. :) And focusing on tasks at hand without going off on many tangents in my head was (and still is) a tough one, too.

I haven't had any issues with sleep patterns or the soundness of my sleep, or kicking my dog. He would eat my S up and not think twice about it.

One of the toughest things has been that after morning coffee craving when the first dip of the day went it. That is tough to shake, but the Hooch helps with the habit piece, just not the nicotine part. It all gets easier with every day passing.

It took me forever to WANT to quit. Now that I do, no way I'm gonna cave when I am this far in.

-= HotRodRacer =-
Oh yeah. Especially when you've had a good day and you go out to eat and have a nice big meal. I always want one really bad after eating a big meal. Physical and psychological withdrawals ensue after that. Just gotta take it one moment at a time I suppose.
Man, it wasn't so much after a meal for me but total association with activities: golf, playing music, yardwork, painting, driving.

so happy to be free of that monkey after 668 days. Just as susceptible to a cave today as on Day 1. but I have tools, brotherhood, accountability, and a network of people who check on each other.

Keep you quit(s) up gents! It gets wonderfully better EDD

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Re: General Discussion - 2017
« Reply #273 on: June 13, 2017, 04:30:00 PM »
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It's great your family is involved in your quit. Most of us were ninja dippers so coming clean was a tough deal.
What are some of the toughest things you're going through? Sleep pattern? Irritable? have you kicked your dog yet?
The biggest things was irritability, especially during the first two to three weeks. After that it eased off. I warned my wife about it, and she said she would just not ask me anything of importance for the first 21 days. :) And focusing on tasks at hand without going off on many tangents in my head was (and still is) a tough one, too.

I haven't had any issues with sleep patterns or the soundness of my sleep, or kicking my dog. He would eat my S up and not think twice about it.

One of the toughest things has been that after morning coffee craving when the first dip of the day went it. That is tough to shake, but the Hooch helps with the habit piece, just not the nicotine part. It all gets easier with every day passing.

It took me forever to WANT to quit. Now that I do, no way I'm gonna cave when I am this far in.

-= HotRodRacer =-
Oh yeah. Especially when you've had a good day and you go out to eat and have a nice big meal. I always want one really bad after eating a big meal. Physical and psychological withdrawals ensue after that. Just gotta take it one moment at a time I suppose.
Parputt "One is one too many
One more is never enough"

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Your addict brain is going to try to convince you otherwise.
But you know better.
Addiction is beat one day at a time by the power of NO. "

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Re: General Discussion - 2017
« Reply #272 on: June 12, 2017, 02:38:00 PM »
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It's great your family is involved in your quit. Most of us were ninja dippers so coming clean was a tough deal.
What are some of the toughest things you're going through? Sleep pattern? Irritable? have you kicked your dog yet?
The biggest things was irritability, especially during the first two to three weeks. After that it eased off. I warned my wife about it, and she said she would just not ask me anything of importance for the first 21 days. :) And focusing on tasks at hand without going off on many tangents in my head was (and still is) a tough one, too.

I haven't had any issues with sleep patterns or the soundness of my sleep, or kicking my dog. He would eat my S up and not think twice about it.

One of the toughest things has been that after morning coffee craving when the first dip of the day went it. That is tough to shake, but the Hooch helps with the habit piece, just not the nicotine part. It all gets easier with every day passing.

It took me forever to WANT to quit. Now that I do, no way I'm gonna cave when I am this far in.

-= HotRodRacer =-

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Re: General Discussion - 2017
« Reply #271 on: June 12, 2017, 01:23:00 PM »
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Thanks Fish.

Not really on my own, as I have an *extremely* supportive wife who encourages the heck outta me. :)

What would you like to know?

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It's great your family is involved in your quit. Most of us were ninja dippers so coming clean was a tough deal.
What are some of the toughest things you're going through? Sleep pattern? Irritable? have you kicked your dog yet?
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Re: General Discussion - 2017
« Reply #270 on: June 12, 2017, 11:54:00 AM »
Thanks Fish.

Not really on my own, as I have an *extremely* supportive wife who encourages the heck outta me. :)

What would you like to know?

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Re: General Discussion - 2017
« Reply #269 on: June 12, 2017, 11:45:00 AM »
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Hey all...

Day 43 for me, here. Long time lurker, first time poster.

My original plan was to order Hooch snuff (which I did) and cut it with long cut Skoal to "gradually" reduce the nicotine (which I did not). After reading the posts here, I decided that cold turkey was the way to go. So on April 30th, I had my last dip at 11:00 PM that night. I don't need to tell anyone who has tried or has quit, that the first week was a bear. After that, it diminishes considerably, or at least it has for me.

I plan to get to 100 days with the help of Hooch for that pack between my cheek and gum, then work on breaking that habit as well.

51 years old, been dipping since I was 13 or so. Skoal, LC Skoal, Hawken, Cope, you name it I've probably dipped it or chewed it (Stokers, King-B twist, more).

Time to give it up. If you are thinking about quitting, commit to it and make today the day. It's hard - if it wasn't everyone would do it. But, *you* can do it, because you are a bad-ass and can overcome this.

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