You went into a TOBACCO store. Let's bring the raging alcoholic to the damn liquor store or the local watering hole why don't we. Regardless of the foreigner behind the counter and his ability, or lack thereof to speak the english language, your first and most important mistake was putting yourself in a situation in which you did not belong. Do you get it??
If you have any doubt regarding a product's nicotine content, do not partake. Do your research. Smokey Mountain, Oregon Mint, Hooch....maybe one or two others that are acceptable. This site has a section dedicated to non-nicotine alternatives. Check this out:
Use this if you mustBy the way, it is possible to quit without an authentic "dip" alternative. Shredded jerky, green tea leaves, coffee, hard candy, sunflower seeds, straws, toothpicks. Any of the above will assist you in fighting the habit of having something in your mouth ('bj'). :unsure:
For you and all of the newbs....you being here is strictly voluntary. If you don't like the methods employed here, you know where the door is. Caving is not acceptable here. There are countless quitters here that have successfully quit because they followed the methods used here. If you do cave, it will be met with reprimand. It's called self-policing and accountablity. It's just the way it is. If failure were acceptable, we would all fall off the damn wagon whenever we wanted. Why not, there are no consequences. We are trying to save you from consequences that are far worse than an internet ass-chewing.
Everyone here cares and wants you to succeed. Don't run. Suck it up, post your roll, learn from your mistake and move on with your quit. But stop whining about how you are being treated.